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Downsides of punting?

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I'm not trying to be a downer here, I've only recently started punting and right now it's the best bloody thing I've ever done. :D I'm just thinking that "forewarned is forearmed" and all that.

On the surface it seems a pretty simple transaction: I pay you, you make me feel good. But I'm wondering if there are any downsides that I'm missing that perhaps you more experienced punters have discovered.

I'm aware of a few already:

Tangled emotions. I've seen a lot of people on here posting about falling in "love" or becoming obsessed with a WG. I can see how this happens, it's a pretty intense experience this punting lark. :D Anyway, I have my guard up on this one.

Expense. It's expensive, quite a downside depending on how much cash you have I suppose.

I was thinking the other day that how can any girl I meet in the future (I'm single) ever compare in the bedroom to a professional? Given the artificial setting of a punt the sex is awesome, am I then ruining it for when I have sex back in the real world?

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Oh, Chloe over the "Experienced Punters" thread just highlighted another downside:

jaded punters become supremely arrogant in their expectations and demands, often also haveing a rather bulbous ego due to the fact that they have spent a lifetime shagging gorgeous girlies who wouldnt have gone near them with someone elses fanny in real life (although they forgot this along the way somehow)

Best I watch out for ballooning ego too :D

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I was thinking the other day that how can any girl I meet in the future (I'm single) ever compare in the bedroom to a professional? Given the artificial setting of a punt the sex is awesome, am I then ruining it for when I have sex back in the real world?

I haven't found this to be true. A good WG is no better or worse in bed than a good "real life" shag. What going to a pro does though, is eliminating the risk for a really bad bad sex partner, the selfisk one who don't care about your pleasure or comfort as long as they get theirs.

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... A good WG is no better or worse in bed than a good "real life" shag.

Really??????????????

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The idea that wgs are sexual experts is just not true, some are, ,most are not. The main downside is financial, opportunity cost as they say. The idea that all punters are physically repulsive, who couldnt get a girl, is not true either. Some are, most are not.

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As an "experienced punter" (nod's to the other thread) I would answer your post as follows:

Tangled emotions? Yeah, only if you believe everything you hear. My emotions after a supreme punt are along the lines of "I hope she hangs around for a while so I can see her again", not, Oooh I'm in love.

Expensive? Yes, but isn't almost everything worth having expensive? I did nearly bankrupt myself years ago, but got a grip on myself - it's much cheaper! (bad gag, sorry)

Sex with a non WG can't compare? Not at all. Expectations are lower and it's fun to see how far a keen amateur will go. Plus, you can really immerse yourself in the feelings you experience because it really could be love.

Finally, accept that every punt isn't going to be perfect - as Smiths said, sometimes they can downright hilarious!

Happy punting....

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If you approach punting with the right attitude and don't get carried away, it doesn't really have many downsides. It's good fun, good sex with no strings attached.

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I was thinking the other day that how can any girl I meet in the future (I'm single) ever compare in the bedroom to a professional? Given the artificial setting of a punt the sex is awesome, am I then ruining it for when I have sex back in the real world?

Whores aren't a different breed of the female species - we all started somewhere. :)

The advice I would give to you is, it's so easy to find sex in the paid for sector - picking up the phone, typing an email iand you are guaranteed, well almost, to get some form of sexual pleasure. Using the skills you have in the none paid sector ie. charm the pants off them, to get dates may not be so easy and if you come across rejection too many times then you could find yourself giving up and just paying.

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Downsides for me :

- expense (especially when service is not infrequently poor)

- chance of someone finding out you are a punter and facing public scorn

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I don't think the tangled emotions thing comes up often here in Europe.

At least, I'm guessing that.

It comes up very often in places like Thailand though, where the WG experience is something else entirely than the kind of 'escort' scene. You simply don't get a clinical 30 minute business transaction at high expense in South East Asia. And that is for various reasons, such as the kind of personality that women from these regions tend to have and the fun way they view sex and life in general. Although some visitors to these regions keep it clinical, more often than not the lines get blurred due the above and it has brought the downfall (along with many lasting loves) of many visitors.

Expense wise, yeah I think that's the major downside in our nations.

It's the main reason I haven't visited a WG here in Britain yet. There seem to be so many scammers on the web, and I'm not prepared to lose double or triple figures on a complete scam or pathetic experience when it doesn't cost me anything to warm up my right hand and wank when I'm really fizzing.

I keep an eye out though, for a special treat.

Quality of sex, I think the sex with long term partners here in Britain has always been far more intense than with any WG. I can think of a few WGs who blew my mind, but with true partners it becomes more than just a physical orgasm. With WGs it's usually wham bham thank you mam.

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But I'm wondering if there are any downsides that I'm missing that perhaps you more experienced punters have discovered.

None that I have found.

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I'm not trying to be a downer here, I've only recently started punting and right now it's the best bloody thing I've ever done. :) I'm just thinking that "forewarned is forearmed" and all that.

On the surface it seems a pretty simple transaction: I pay you, you make me feel good. But I'm wondering if there are any downsides that I'm missing that perhaps you more experienced punters have discovered.

I'm aware of a few already:

Tangled emotions. I've seen a lot of people on here posting about falling in "love" or becoming obsessed with a WG. I can see how this happens, it's a pretty intense experience this punting lark. :) Anyway, I have my guard up on this one.

Expense. It's expensive, quite a downside depending on how much cash you have I suppose.

I was thinking the other day that how can any girl I meet in the future (I'm single) ever compare in the bedroom to a professional? Given the artificial setting of a punt the sex is awesome, am I then ruining it for when I have sex back in the real world?

When/if you meet the right one she will. I am yet to find a wg who could give me the quality and intensity of sex that one of my ex's gave me - and that is no lie. It's probably what I look for in what I would call my ultimate punt. Some have come close - only close.

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Well aside from the expense:

1. Very Addictive. Very easy, especially if your a single guy living alone with the money to spend to end up punting sometimes 3 times a week for over an hour a time.

2. Risk of getting found out. Thanks to the way the media portrays punters as perverts, some people seem to think that we're one step away from a rapist, or child molester. Not an image Id like.

3. Risks of a raid/arrest and prosecution. Yup, and those new laws on 1st April do worry me...

4. Risk of STDs. Having to get the time to visit the GUM clinic. And being stuck in the waiting room with a full bladder and then having a swap shoved up your japs eye. just to be sure.

5. Risk of bait/switch. Hmm so the image of Megan Fox wasnt really Megan Fox....

6. Risk of attack - Since we dont tell friends or family what we are doing, some times we are basically turning up in the middle of nowhere, with nothing more than a street name and a mobile number of someone youve never met and all arranged by trust. With hundreds of pounds in our pocket. If its a scam and your about to be mugged no one will know or be around to help. And would you really call the police and give them the whole story?

7. Timewasters / No shows - Some of us do honour every punt we book. Sometimes taking a day off work specially. Its not nice to then leave us on your doorstep and switch your phone off.

8. Falling for the girl - Well its only natural... but is she serious too or just saying what you want to hear in order to keep you a regular. And then setting yourself up for a fall.

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Oh, Chloe over the "Experienced Punters" thread just highlighted another downside:

Best I watch out for ballooning ego too :)

Ah bless, i hope you noticed that i said MOST of the guys i have met have not fallen into the catagory above, but they are out there im afraid.

Some wg,s are shite in the sack, some are amazing, others fall somewhere in the middle, just like non-wg.s. Im sure you will come across wg,s who take your breathe away with the on fire sex, witty chitchat, breath taking beauty, amazing chemistry or at least one of the fore mentioned, but you will also experience some decidedly ordinary punts .In that respect we are no different to someone you meet away from this scandalous scene of ours. The one thing you cannot get with a wg though is that first rush of infatuation where you are constantly touching, kissing and of course screwing each other senseless, spend hours on the phone and even more doing boring little things that seem suddenly wonderful simply because you are doing them together. For this reason alone a punt will never live up to a girlfriend (or a boyfriend;))

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Here's a slightly related downside that is more readily avoided by the wiser punting brethren :-

Spending so much time on punternet that you suddenly develop a bad habit of using your punternet id to try and log on to ebay - while your wife is watching :):):eek:.

I am quite careful now, even though Northwinds won't mean anything to her (hopefully) :o. Thankfully she didn't comment.

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Here's a slightly related downside that is more readily avoided by the wiser punting brethren :-

Spending so much time on punternet that you suddenly develop a bad habit of using your punternet id to try and log on to ebay - while your wife is watching :):):eek:.

I am quite careful now, even though Northwinds won't mean anything to her (hopefully) :o. Thankfully she didn't comment.

Or even worse try logging on to punternet and forgetting your at work.

Almost did it today.

"hmmm, bored over lunch...maybe have a browse whats up...."

"www.punte...WOAH!!!! delete,delete,delete..... PheW!

Luckily I think someone at work thought house of divine was something like house of fraser..... didnt get caught over that mistake..... :)

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How about the risk of discovery.

I was once waiting at a train station to pick up a WG who had kindly travelled some distance to meet me whilst I was away on business in a hotel. Two minutes before her train was due to arrive, a colleague from work turned up and said hello :). I was stunned because I was miles and miles away from my office. Talk about giving her a frosty reception. She took the hint that I was not up for chatting and buggered off to catch her train. To this day she must think I am a miserable bastard :).

The WG turned up bang on time about 60 secs later. Fortunately, the colleague had disappeared by then.

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None that I have found.

Punting has created a big financial mess in my life but I still punt. Now thats one hell of a downside...Its a necessary evil...:)

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How about the risk of discovery.

I was once waiting at a train station to pick up a WG who had kindly travelled some distance to meet me whilst I was away on business in a hotel. Two minutes before her train was due to arrive, a colleague from work turned up and said hello :). I was stunned because I was miles and miles away from my office. Talk about giving her a frosty reception. She took the hint that I was not up for chatting and buggered off to catch her train. To this day she must think I am a miserable bastard :).

The WG turned up bang on time about 60 secs later. Fortunately, the colleague had disappeared by then.

You think she disappeared!! She was actually parked up and snapping you merrily on her mobile for blackmail purposes :o:D

No downsides as far as I am concerned as stuff like the GUM clinic is as necessary as earning the dosh to pay for it all.

Great sex, loads of variety and loads of new friends.

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None that I have found.

I'm with SaSfan on this one. Plenty of pluses though.

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I was thinking the other day that how can any girl I meet in the future (I'm single) ever compare in the bedroom to a professional?

Date a retired WG, obvs.

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Date a retired WG, obvs.

Lol, that's a whole seperate Thread on it's own, indeed I do believe there is one along those lines somewhere here.

I wonder whether there would be a business opportunity to be seized here, setting up a dating site specifically for Ex WG's. After all, it's hardly likely to come up in normal conversation at a bar is it, "what do you do?", "oh nothing much, I'm a retired WG".

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Date a retired WG, obvs.

hehe.. the chance would be a fine thing! :)

I was with my ex for seven years, she didn't do oral, she didn't receive oral, didn't do doggy, etc, :-/ The one before that wasn't much better. Jeez, it's no wonder I've ended up punting. :)

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No downsides as far as I am concerned as stuff like the GUM clinic is as necessary

I'd never heard of a "GUM clinic" until right then. Should I be going? Doesn't sound like a fun place...

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I'm not trying to be a downer here, I've only recently started punting and right now it's the best bloody thing I've ever done. :) I'm just thinking that "forewarned is forearmed" and all that.

On the surface it seems a pretty simple transaction: I pay you, you make me feel good. But I'm wondering if there are any downsides that I'm missing that perhaps you more experienced punters have discovered.

The downside is when you pay them and they DON'T make you feel good, you will rarely hear about that on here. :):rolleyes:

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