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Has anyone ever tried AFF? Just wondering if it's any good. I'm not in a relationship and don't get into situations for a 1 night stand so when i get horny i have 2 choices - see a WG or have a wank.

I'm trying to cut back on WGs as it's expensive but still want to have sex. All the escorts in London are about £150 (even though a lot aren't worth it) and i can't keep spending money like this as it could get out of hand.

I've told myself to stop but keep looking at sites and making myself horny. I usually cave in after 2 - 4 weeks but it's getting tough.

Anyone else find themselves in the same situation? Any advice...? :)

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Sorry, excuse my ignorance, aff is what?

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I think he means Adult Friend Finder - what seems like one of the most aggressively marketed sites on the Internet. There ought to be a special Firefox add-on to block all links to it.

Yes. Tried it once. Met a very nice couple when I was a swinger. Recommend it? Not really.

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I think he means Adult Friend Finder
Too bad, I was kind of hoping it stood for Auto Fellatio Fun. Would have made for an interresting thread.

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Has anyone ever tried AFF? Just wondering if it's any good. I'm not in a relationship and don't get into situations for a 1 night stand so when i get horny i have 2 choices - see a WG or have a wank.

I'm trying to cut back on WGs as it's expensive but still want to have sex. All the escorts in London are about £150 (even though a lot aren't worth it) and i can't keep spending money like this as it could get out of hand.

I've told myself to stop but keep looking at sites and making myself horny. I usually cave in after 2 - 4 weeks but it's getting tough.

Anyone else find themselves in the same situation? Any advice...? :)

Have a look at the Soho walk up thread on here, you can get relief for a lot less than £150 in London.

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AFF can be fun same as Fling etc but they also come with financial entry as you have to pay to get through the door so to speak,then you have to sort the real women from the fakers and their are a lot of timewasters/attention seekers on their.

Which can take quite a bit of time,then it depends on how good looking you are if you're looking for a attractive lady. As unlike punting pretty girls won't have sex with what they deem unattractive men. I noticed on the site a lot of the women didn't want any 'old men' messaging them.

When i was around on those sites i had much success a bit too much and it began to become a bit hard to juggle things as unlike punting you can't just go and meet a lovely lady and then leave after an hour, real feelings always pop up along the way no matter how it starts.

I would say that POF is a pretty good place to meet ladies again a lot of nutters on there but it's free and if you're good looking you should have no problems as even the women looking for 'dating' on their are really just on their for sex.

As i found out to my pleasure. :)

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fabswingers can be good....

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AFF can be fun same as Fling etc but they also come with financial entry as you have to pay to get through the door so to speak,then you have to sort the real women from the fakers and their are a lot of timewasters/attention seekers on their.

Which can take quite a bit of time,then it depends on how good looking you are if you're looking for a attractive lady. As unlike punting pretty girls won't have sex with what they deem unattractive men. I noticed on the site a lot of the women didn't want any 'old men' messaging them.

When i was around on those sites i had much success a bit too much and it began to become a bit hard to juggle things as unlike punting you can't just go and meet a lovely lady and then leave after an hour, real feelings always pop up along the way no matter how it starts.

I would say that POF is a pretty good place to meet ladies again a lot of nutters on there but it's free and if you're good looking you should have no problems as even the women looking for 'dating' on their are really just on their for sex.

As i found out to my pleasure. :rolleyes:

`Scuse my iggerence but wots POF mate???????

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`Scuse my iggerence but wots POF mate???????

plenty of fish

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I'm trying to cut back on WGs as it's expensive but still want to have sex. All the escorts in London are about £150 (even though a lot aren't worth it) and i can't keep spending money like this as it could get out of hand.

Any advice...? :rolleyes:

Yes, stop seeing "escorts" and try parlours, £70 for 30 minutes is far better value in my opinion.

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I used AFF a few years ago, and eventually met a couple of women who wanted the same as me. I wouldn't recommend it tho now, as another poster says, you have to pay to get through the door.

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It's interesting that many of the replies on here so far have found success on such a site. Most 'swinging' sites tend to be ok for couples or females - but single males have real trouble in meeting anyone (I talk from experience!). Maybe AFF is different then?

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I once tried such sites during a phase where I no longer wanted relationships and was just looking for a "fuck buddy" so to speak. I joined one (can't remember the name) and yeah there was a fee later on in the process for contact, but it wasn't much to pay. Overall, I found the women listed in my area were just attention seekers who loved the thought that guys were getting off on the AD, and had no intention of going through with a meeting. Because I never heard of anyone on the site who got to meet up with them.

Others, I began to suspect were profiles created by the site itself to keep people interested. This seemed more true when several of us guys on one of these websites began to question openly the time wasting going on.

Message likes this began to be removed and even more extreme profiles began appearing soon after, which just didn't seem authentic in the slightest and looked desperate on the part of the website. Later on i noticed that the template of this website was being replicated elsewhere on the web. You put your money in, somebody behind the scenes plays the game of being an authentic members with token one liner responses every so often after which you need to pay more, and they would keep this scam going as an earner.

Based on these experiences, I don't bother with those sites now. I don't think many (if any) women below middle age are on the web looking for fuck buddys. If they are, they'll go and seek it in night clubs. I guess some may have success with AFF, but I didn't go for that due to how many fees there were. It seemed to me you'd spend more money overall just trying to 'get' something going, and nothing is guaranteed. You're probably better off saving your money for a punt where you know you'll get layed.

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I had a membership to AFF once and was mildly impressed. The wild birds who posted weren't as wild as one might believe. It seemed like a lot of BBW ladies were members. For the gent remember you are in the majority by a 10 to 14 to 1 ratio. And several of the "ladies" look like scams who hail from Gabon or Nigeria.

It isn't too expensive, at least compared to this hobby, but if you think you are going to get laid right off the bat, think again. Still it can be fun.

Good luck

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For the gent remember you are in the majority by a 10 to 14 to 1 ratio.

Precisely. And this is what many guys seem to forget (understandable enough). Rather than look at the male competition they've up against, they spend all their time searching the womens profiles. Along with a few genuine women on sites like that, the others are going to be nes who will take as long as they want to, to cherry pick their "fireman" fantasy man above all the other poor sods who make the effort (and pay the cash) to contact them. Other women on these sites are ones who have no intention whatsoever of meeting men, but just want the attention. And the rest?.........fake profiles, I'd say. I just don't think it's worth the effort, time nor money.

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I am exactly on the same boat as the OP. One girl every Sunday has always been the schedule and if I miss one week, I kinda feel like loosing my consciousness.:D Did give PassionSearch a try, received lot of emails and chat requests, but I would say the effort it requires to pick up a girl in an adult dating sites is pretty much same as that in a bar. Online or Face-to-Face, makes no difference. No matter how good you are looking, its the personality that finally wins the girl and hence its a tremendously slow process. So far no luck..

My friend actually gave me a very good advice, sounds like a pretty good solution, but yet to apply. Take a loan and invest in a property or a car or gold (which I see is a better option) or something that is not liquid, and make sure you spend at least half of your earnings on the premium, leaving you with very little disposable cash every month. You will feel less horny when there is less cash left in your hand and also you just made a big investment. Even though it sounds workable and reasonable, I'm personally apprehensive because I don't want to stop punting..:rolleyes:

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Well I joined the Adult friend finder site in the early days about 10 years ago and paid for 6 months met a number of sexy girls up for just sex like me. I got into a relationship not from the internet and moved on, Recently a friend of mind joined the Adult friend finder for a month I can tell you its completely changed now, a lot of the attractive girls photos are fake I even came across a photo of the escort involved with the Governor of New York on there,

In my study of Adult friend finder I guess the ratio must be 30 guys to every girl one very attractive girl on the site stated, that she was getting so many e-mails she had decided to close her account. So to be honest if I was you I would put that joining up fee towards I certainty, a nice WG<br style=""> <br style="">

I HAVE also joined just for experimental reasons, Plenty more Naughty Fish the AGAIN the prettiest girls photo’s mostly fake and the rest will have hundreds of guys competing. So far I have received about 16 e-mails from the fattest and ugliest women you would want to meet the last one looked like Sylvester Stallion’s Mom and twice the size. I intend to call the Plenty more Ugly Fish tomorrow and ask for my money back or I would sue them for trying to give me Night mares. Don’t waste your cash on these sites just go to source, you know it make sense

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