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Question for the punters: Do you prefer regulars or new girls?

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Hi there everyone. I'm an occasional poster but very long term lurker on these here friendly forums.

I have a very simple question to ask for most of the punters on here (I'm not sure if it's been asked before as I couldn't find anything through search, but it probably has). Do you prefer to see new escorts each time, or do you prefer to have 1 regular escort that you are almost 'exclusive' to?

I don't have much experience with escorts. I have only seen 1 girl, a total of 2 times before she went back to the Czech Republic, back in 2008. I have been thinking of punting again (hence lurking of this forum!) and I know that I would much prefer to have just one, regular escort that I would see time and again. This is mostly due to my personality. I have always been a 1-woman kind of guy and I guess this would apply to escorting as well. I think for me it would be better to have repeated experiences with just one escort since, usually, sex always improves when you have a single partner and you get to learn what makes you tick.

How about you fellas? Do you have a regular escort, or is there a far greater thrill and experience in seeing someone new each time?

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I saw the same WG for just over 7 years and I would still be seeing her now had she decided due to other life events that she had to pack it up

mind you I saw a few others over the same 7 years but youll understand that Im sure

If the regular is sexy and you get on why not stick with her, pretty much

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Hi there everyone. I'm an occasional poster but very long term lurker on these here friendly forums.

I have a very simple question to ask for most of the punters on here (I'm not sure if it's been asked before as I couldn't find anything through search, but it probably has). Do you prefer to see new escorts each time, or do you prefer to have 1 regular escort that you are almost 'exclusive' to?

I don't have much experience with escorts. I have only seen 1 girl, a total of 2 times before she went back to the Czech Republic, back in 2008. I have been thinking of punting again (hence lurking of this forum!) and I know that I would much prefer to have just one, regular escort that I would see time and again. This is mostly due to my personality. I have always been a 1-woman kind of guy and I guess this would apply to escorting as well. I think for me it would be better to have repeated experiences with just one escort since, usually, sex always improves when you have a single partner and you get to learn what makes you tick.

How about you fellas? Do you have a regular escort, or is there a far greater thrill and experience in seeing someone new each time?

Both is my ideal. I like variety so punt with new ladies but always continue to punt with regulars who have the advantage to me of knowing what i like and how i like it. A friend of mine only punts with one lady and has been for a long time, he sees no point in looking elsewhere because she provides all he sexually requires, i couldnt and dont want to do that myself. I enjoy punting with as many different ladies as possible, variety is my spice.:)

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I have a regular that I have been seeing every 1-2-3 weeks since December 2009 for 90 minute/2 hour punts. The good points are we get on well and our time together can and does become very rampant. Each punt is different and we just go with the flow.

It can become dangerous though as I now find that sometimes I'm pre-booking her 2 appointments in advance.

I have seen a few other girls since December and I seem to be developing a thing for blond Brazilian or Spanish girls. I think I'm looking to have one of these as my second regular.

So thinking about it two regulars would be the ideal for me.

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I have a regular client I have been seeing since I became independent 2.5 yrs ago.

He told me he was so happy to have found the right lady ( he had tried one or two others before me ) and has continued to visit me every 3 weeks or so .....

He always told me his wife is very very rarely interested in sex and I have no reason to disbelieve him. He does however, like to tell me about the rare occasions when they do it.

A few weeks back we were chatting about stuff and I teased him " have you got lucky since I saw you last?"

He giggled, squeezed me and said " yes but it wasn't with my wife and I feel like

I have been unfaithful to you"

We had a laugh at that and I told him "good for you, I hope it was a good one!"

He had gone to see another and had a nice time.

Guys who say they stick with one regular may be telling the truth as many guys feel safer and more comfortable getting to know one lady.

The :) starts with me though when some say they have not seen others when I know very well they have.

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Hi there everyone. I'm an occasional poster but very long term lurker on these here friendly forums.

I have a very simple question to ask for most of the punters on here (I'm not sure if it's been asked before as I couldn't find anything through search, but it probably has). Do you prefer to see new escorts each time, or do you prefer to have 1 regular escort that you are almost 'exclusive' to?

I don't have much experience with escorts. I have only seen 1 girl, a total of 2 times before she went back to the Czech Republic, back in 2008. I have been thinking of punting again (hence lurking of this forum!) and I know that I would much prefer to have just one, regular escort that I would see time and again. This is mostly due to my personality. I have always been a 1-woman kind of guy and I guess this would apply to escorting as well. I think for me it would be better to have repeated experiences with just one escort since, usually, sex always improves when you have a single partner and you get to learn what makes you tick.

How about you fellas? Do you have a regular escort, or is there a far greater thrill and experience in seeing someone new each time?

I don't really have a regular myself, I think I've seen the same girl a maximum of three times in my 18 months of punting. I definitely do get more or a thrill from seeing new girls, the uncertainty adds to the excitement before and during the punt for me. None of the girls I've seen a second or third time have quite lived up to that first experience.

I suppose you could also say that there is still an element of "the thrill of the chase" about it... even if the chase is just trying to pick out the real profiles from the fakes, checking for FRs, figuring out what info is out of date, inaccurate or blatant lies, making a call and turning up :)

I might be a bit lucky being in London though, as there is always a wide variety of quality girls to choose from.

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oops

the question was aimed at the guys.... just realised

:)

;)

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oops

the question was aimed at the guys.... just realised

:)

:o

lol, thank you for answering anyway ;) It's just as helpful and interesting to see it from 'the other side' as well!

In fact, if any other girls want to answer this question, I'd be more then grateful for any posts you may make :)

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I have tended to punt with different ladies due to not being able to find one that ticks all the boxes in my area. I have seen a couple of ladies more than once but they tend to be out of area and difficult to see regularly. I would love to find a lady that ticks all the boxes in my area.

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I have done about 180 punts but the most times I have seen 1 lady is 8 (the wonderful Teresa Scott aka Mistress Tess - dom stuff). I have met some absolutely fantastic girls in that time. Real beauties that are great fun to be with and superb sex. I have also met a few rotten ones too.

There is this thing about finding someone new -the adrenalin buzz and the excitement. The biggest element is the search for someone who is even better than anyone I have found before. The pursuit is more important than the result. I feel, probably wrongly, that once I have found the perfect girl, then 1 of life's great purposes is over. That's why according to 2 university studies, lottery millionaires are actually less happy than the average person - they no longer have a dream to pursue and fewer objectives to strive for.

I actually hope that one day I can come to terms with this as I do feel a bit guilty about it, and Tess, if you read this, this is the earthdog and I'm sorry. Just say the word and I'll hang up my punting boots.

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Dont know if I would prefer a regular --- I've never had one ! I guess it must be a strange feeling, seeing the same lady again and again. I think I would find it awkward and perhaps embarrasing. If I wanted to the same lady for sex on an ongoing basis then I think I would want her all to myself !

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Hi there everyone. I'm an occasional poster but very long term lurker on these here friendly forums.

I have a very simple question to ask for most of the punters on here (I'm not sure if it's been asked before as I couldn't find anything through search, but it probably has). Do you prefer to see new escorts each time, or do you prefer to have 1 regular escort that you are almost 'exclusive' to?

I don't have much experience with escorts. I have only seen 1 girl, a total of 2 times before she went back to the Czech Republic, back in 2008. I have been thinking of punting again (hence lurking of this forum!) and I know that I would much prefer to have just one, regular escort that I would see time and again. This is mostly due to my personality. I have always been a 1-woman kind of guy and I guess this would apply to escorting as well. I think for me it would be better to have repeated experiences with just one escort since, usually, sex always improves when you have a single partner and you get to learn what makes you tick.

How about you fellas? Do you have a regular escort, or is there a far greater thrill and experience in seeing someone new each time?

I don't have a regular as such. I will return a few times but I like to move on and variety is what I enjoy.

I don't think I would like a regular as that would be like having a girlfriend and being in the real world and I punt to escape the real world and live in fantasy land :-)

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I don't have a regular as such. I will return a few times but I like to move on and variety is what I enjoy.

I don't think I would like a regular as that would be like having a girlfriend and being in the real world and I punt to escape the real world and live in fantasy land :-)

I dont think it would be like that at all --- thats one of the problems !!!

I did in fact have a regular once --- I booked the same girl [ an EE] 3 times in 4 days before her return to EE land ! :)

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Hi there everyone. I'm an occasional poster but very long term lurker on these here friendly forums.

I have a very simple question to ask for most of the punters on here (I'm not sure if it's been asked before as I couldn't find anything through search, but it probably has). Do you prefer to see new escorts each time, or do you prefer to have 1 regular escort that you are almost 'exclusive' to?

I don't have much experience with escorts. I have only seen 1 girl, a total of 2 times before she went back to the Czech Republic, back in 2008. I have been thinking of punting again (hence lurking of this forum!) and I know that I would much prefer to have just one, regular escort that I would see time and again. This is mostly due to my personality. I have always been a 1-woman kind of guy and I guess this would apply to escorting as well. I think for me it would be better to have repeated experiences with just one escort since, usually, sex always improves when you have a single partner and you get to learn what makes you tick.

How about you fellas? Do you have a regular escort, or is there a far greater thrill and experience in seeing someone new each time?

In the past I've done both.

Now I stick with a regular.

Why?

Constantly trying new girls seems so hit and miss; all the negativity comes from those who see new girls. Seeing a regular gets rid of that risk.

People say that seeing new girls provides variety. Well, yes, but so does seeing a regular. You can build on what you know about each other and develop techniques; a 'sexual style' that's perfect for the two of you. Each meeting, with a little imagination can be so different. I spend the days running up to a meeting thinking of new ways to have fun.

I sometimes wonder if those who say seeing the same girl each time would become boring are, in effect, saying that they are boring sexually.......hence the need to punt because their partners have given up on them!

With new girls it often seemed to me that you'd start from base every time.

A regular can become a friend. Dangerous I know but if you stay aware of the boundaries and keep your feet on the ground I think the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages.

Having said all that................each to their own.

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While variety is the spice of life and I like to sample the wares on a new lady know and then, I often find myself going back to the sure thing. Right now I have 3 or 4 ladies whem I try my best to see monthly. With two of them it gets better every time as we grow closer and more comforterable. But for Lorin1968 it is very much like old friends and we have so much in common.

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i do like a bit of variety, but when i find a girl who ticks all the boxes then she can expect very regular visits from me, although i must admit its been a couple of years since ive had a girl id consider a regular for me.

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I like both, tend to see one local girl fairly regularly, every 3 or 4 weeks, there is also somebody who lives nowhere near me who I see every couple of months, I've been to her hometown a couple of times otherwise she tours to to London regularly and I try to meet up when she's there.

I also travel quite a bit and try and see one or two new girls when I'm away and it's good fun researching a new area and finally making a choice.

I did see another local girl twice last month, the first one for ages, I'd sort of given up seeing any new local girls after a series of so-so punts and she was very good and I'd definately like to see her some more and I'm now dithering about who to see next, nice problem to have though.

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Both. When I first started punting, the plan was to see as many girls as possible. It still is, and there remains no greater thrill of being introduced in turn to a line-up of girls in a parlour before making your choice.

Its never that simple though of course, because along the way you meet great girls that you've just got to see again, and again. Right now, I have a wishlist of about 10 repeat punts, as well as wanting to randomly visit parlours whenever possible.

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A regular can become a friend. Dangerous I know but if you stay aware of the boundaries and keep your feet on the ground I think the advantages far outweigh the disadvantage

I agree. I've had 3 or 4 regulars over the past 49 (!) years' punting (yes, started in 1961 at the tender age of 20).

And regulars do become "friends", which is OK as long as you realise the limits to this friendship.

My first regular was a beautiful French girl in Soho called Simone. Then one day when I turned up the maid informed me tearfully that Simone was no longer with us. Whether that meant she'd died, or just gone back to France, my schoolboy French was not good enough to find out.

But since then I've tended to avoid Soho.

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And regulars do become "friends", which is OK as long as you realise the limits to this friendship.

I think that's key. It's important, I think, not to confuse service providers with lovers, or service providers with your friends.

I probably only have two 'regulars' in the sense I've seen them over a long period. And when not in a relationship. Yet it can be months between meets. With one, a booking is more about getting together than the sex, although that is good too.

Mathematically:p, one could say the friendship, of whatever level. is contained within the brackets of the business relationship. You can do lots of things with the equation but rarely interfere with the brackets.

Focussing solely on one regular borders on slight obsession. Maybe healthy enough - but can be precarious. It starts to assume too many similarities to other relationships. It's nice to see someone two or three times if things work well I think. Then you have an opportunity to explore what the relationship can offer. And be open about the fact that you see many service providers. Remember guys, women chat among themselves, so telling her she's the 'only one' is usually a pretty obvious pile of croc. But it doesn't alter the fact that sometime a service provider will feel a pang of jealousy, so I suppose we should be considerate of her feelings. That's when it gets hard. One can think, at this price, I'm the buyer. If I wanted to consider your feelings that much I'd be going out with you.

For me, keeping it so the cost is (small enough to be) not an issue is also important.

The important thing for the OP is whether the OP prefers regulars or new girls. I can't see how my opinion makes any difference whatsoever unless it's asked out of idle curiosity. Or is he looking for a girl - there are some - that offer discounts to regulars? In which case, it becomes even more important to decide on the girl first and the discount second.

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In the past I've done both.

Now I stick with a regular.

Why?

Constantly trying new girls seems so hit and miss; all the negativity comes from those who see new girls. Seeing a regular gets rid of that risk.

People say that seeing new girls provides variety. Well, yes, but so does seeing a regular. You can build on what you know about each other and develop techniques; a 'sexual style' that's perfect for the two of you. Each meeting, with a little imagination can be so different. I spend the days running up to a meeting thinking of new ways to have fun.

I sometimes wonder if those who say seeing the same girl each time would become boring are, in effect, saying that they are boring sexually.......hence the need to punt because their partners have given up on them!

With new girls it often seemed to me that you'd start from base every time.

A regular can become a friend. Dangerous I know but if you stay aware of the boundaries and keep your feet on the ground I think the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages.

Having said all that................each to their own.

Yes perhaps you are right there. I have never had a regular for a range of reasons but one of which is I like the variety and interest involved in meeting new and different types of ladies.Having said that I accept that this strategy has its limitations as it is not easy to experiment too much with a lady who is only meeting you for the first time -- I suspect with familiarity, trust and confidence built up over a few bookings it becomes much easier to leave base camp and start cilmbing higher ! :cool: However, to do this successfully,surely you need to get a genuine click going with the WG. For those with experience of regulars, do you believe that the chances of having the elusive click increase dramatically when seeing your regular lady ?

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A regular can become a friend. Dangerous I know but if you stay aware of the boundaries and keep your feet on the ground I think the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages.

I agree, which is why I think it's good to have a number of regulars with whom that type of friendship can develop over time as well as seeking "fresh woods and pastures new", particularly for shorter appointments. Sadly some of my favourite women live a long way from me and I only get to see them when either they or I tour. Looking back at my (rather anorak-like) records, I've averaged 57 punts a year over the past 11 years and in each year the four women I saw most accounted for about 60%. Of course those four have changed over time mainly because of retirements.

I think to have just one regular would create a real danger of developing feelings that were inconsistent with the underlying nature of the friendship.

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Yes perhaps you are right there. I have never had a regular for a range of reasons but one of which is I like the variety and interest involved in meeting new and different types of ladies.Having said that I accept that this strategy has its limitations as it is not easy to experiment too much with a lady who is only meeting you for the first time -- I suspect with familiarity, trust and confidence built up over a few bookings it becomes much easier to leave base camp and start cilmbing higher ! :) However, to do this successfully,surely you need to get a genuine click going with the WG. For those with experience of regulars, do you believe that the chances of having the elusive click increase dramatically when seeing your regular lady ?

The reason she would of become a regular is because i have clicked with her and she offers me the services i require. I would say i am under no illusion that the clicking is necessarily mutual, great if it is, if it isnt, its just my incorrect perception which while i feel that way is more than sufficient to ensure i return.:cool:;)

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I agree, which is why I think it's good to have a number of regulars with whom that type of friendship can develop over time as well as seeking "fresh woods and pastures new", particularly for shorter appointments. Sadly some of my favourite women live a long way from me and I only get to see them when either they or I tour. Looking back at my (rather anorak-like) records, I've averaged 57 punts a year over the past 11 years and in each year the four women I saw most accounted for about 60%. Of course those four have changed over time mainly because of retirements.

I think to have just one regular would create a real danger of developing feelings that were inconsistent with the underlying nature of the friendship.

Respect ! Thats a lot of punting, although you are probably only a newbie compared to some of the guys here !:cool:

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I now don't have a regular WG, though used to have one when my regular haunt was a place about half way home from visiting family. If one girl gives excellent service then why not, as long as you realise that she may move on or retire from the industry at some point, and you can remain detached in that it is after all a service you are paying for, nothing more.

Now I don't make the same journey as the family members have moved or are no longer with us, I don't visit the parlour concerned. And as I refuse to go anywhere locally as I don't want to be found out by work colleagues or friends, I don't expect the same girl twice.

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