Autumn Temptation

Hazards of the Job.

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Ok as we all know sex in this industry doesn't come without hazards from both sides, WG and Punter alike have their share of different hazards.

I would like to address this one today…

If you knew the WG you were wanting to see or planned to see had , had the misfortune to have a condom burst on her would it put you off?

Girls would you still work during the 10 days before you get tested? Offering all covered services of course.

( The 10 days is because the GUM require you to wait 10 days before anything shows in your system)

Fella's would it bother you if the WG worked within those 10 days offering all covered services?

Would you wait for the results back before working ( or seeing the girl of your choice)?

So the questions to the fella's would it bother you and would you wait?

And Ladies, would you work or not in those 10 days?

I ask as we all know there comes certain risks and hazards with this 'job' 'hobby' 'lifestyle' and the bursting or slipping of a condom is one of them.

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I think if it happened to me now I wouldn't work till I got the all clear, but I have another job so could probably afford to do that. For some of the girls who do this full time I can understand if they still wanted to work but as you say, offer all covered service for that small time as that would be the only sensible option.

Shelly

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Well if the lady didnt say, how would one know?

I spose it is one of the unknown risks in this for punters. We cant all live in cotton wool.

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Well if the lady didnt say, how would one know?

I spose it is one of the unknown risks in this for punters. We cant all live in cotton wool.

Good point I suppose not all girls would be honest.

Shelly

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Well if the lady didnt say, how would one know?

I spose it is one of the unknown risks in this for punters. We cant all live in cotton wool.

Always one *sigh* LOL

it's a hypothetical question.

so answer it as one pweeeeezzze, ta berry much :cool::D:p

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If you knew the WG you were wanting to see or planned to see had , had the misfortune to have a condom burst on her would it put you off?

Girls would you still work during the 10 days before you get tested? Offering all covered services of course.

Blimey - would it put you off (guys) seeing anyone if you had a condom burst? Do you regularly get checked??

I know that we tend to be pretty self-absorbed, but it should come down to being expert with condoms ourselves, making sure we use them properly so we safeguard ourselves. The idea that you are obsessing over whether the lady does implies an abnegation of responsibility in a way. If you are properly hooded up then it shouldn't make a difference to your health if she had a condom break last week. Oh don't tell me, you were only thinking of her . . .:cool:

If you go rock climbing (since the hairdresser comparison is getting a bit passe), does it worry you that one person in your group once had an accident through no fault of their own - when you are the only non-professional rock-climber in the group?

I'm not being fluffie or having a go at the OP personally - it's a question after all that crosses many men's minds. But the reality of the situation should call for some balanced logic. The fact that the OP is a service provider doesn't really alter it. :)

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Blimey - would it put you off seeing anyone if you had a condom burst? Do you regularly get checked??

I know that we tend to be pretty self-absorbed, but it should come down to being expert with condoms ourselves, making sure we use them properly so we safeguard ourselves. The idea that you are obsessing over whether the lady does implies an abnegation of responsibility in a way. If you are properly hooded up then it shouldn't make a difference to your health if she had a condom break last week. Oh don't tell me, you were only thinking of her . . .:cool:

If you go rock climbing (since the hairdresser comparison is getting a bit passe), does it worry you that one person in your group once had an accident through no fault of their own - when you are the only non-professional rock-climber in the group?

I'm not being fluffie or having a go at the OP personally - it's a question after all that crosses many men's minds. But the reality of the situation should call for some balanced logic.

It, was a question posed by a woman to find the views of like minded individuals, I am aware of the inherent risks as I am a WG, and I am also seriously health aware.

As a SP I would probably continue to work providing a all covered service until I got the all clear as I would not risk my clients health.

However, I was not talking about the 'LOGIC' of the situation, I was talking about the mental impact news like that has.

Would the Ladies feel comfortable enough mentally to work for the ten days ( hence the offering all covered services)

My first ever condom burst experience I felt too shaken to work and had those ten days off, I couldn't face a client knowing that even though logically he was covered, that I could possibly have something.

I have had 4 condoms burst in 5 years and each was a different experience.

It was the thoughts and mindset answer I was after not the logical one.

Perhaps you could tell me if you would be comfortable in an appointment or going to one knowing the lady had an accident and while she is taking every available precaution, would it play on your mind or not?

Would you wait until you knew it was more safer...

Because lets face it, it could happen again.

And Yes WG's and Punters do look at the Jonny to make sure it's alright, but it can still burst even if all the right steps were taken.

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So the questions to the fella's would it bother you and would you wait?

To answer your questions directly: yes and yes.

(Lots of peripheral stuff around the answers and collateral too but you asked for straight answers and go them. :cool: )

B

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To answer your questions directly: yes and yes.B

Ditto. I don't do penile penetration but I really enjoy RO, so if I didn't feel I could do that safely, never mind basic stuff like kissing, it would definitely spoil things for me. Once the lady had the all-clear though, no probs of course.

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I would refrain from work. When I was sexually assaulted, before I became an escort, I had to wait six months to get the final all clear. In those six months I stayed away from all action.

I know accidents happen, but I hope that I do everything possible to ensure it doesn't happen. I have caught a few before they have slipped off in my time. One is generally too much friction not enough moisture, the latter is the opposite.

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I may be totally wrong but as far as I know it takes about 10-14 days for the most serious STD to get to the stage where it is transmittable. Apparently, this is why pornstars will do bareback work if all participants have got a recent clear certificate. In addition, unless you are doing bareback, or both of you have open sores that mingle, normal safe sex precautions should be sufficient. Please correct me if I am wrong anybody.

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I would not object if a WG were to continue to offer a limited service in these circumstances, however my personal preferences include RO and OWO, so I would probably not partake.

If the lady in question was a regular to me, then I might consider a punt, but would probably wait for the all clear, if I am being honest.

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i only see ladies who don

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I have had 4 condoms burst in 5 years.

Do you think it was dodgy condoms, or was it you getting over enthusiastic and possibly not enough lube.

I had it happen twice years ago when with girlfriend of the time. Both times the condoms were from the same box. Mates were the offending brand, never bought them again after that!

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First time I had a condom burst was a nightmare - I hadn't been escorting for more than a year and even then I was never really hardcore, preferring a few appointments a month but the mental impact over those days to getting tested and getting the all clear really hit home the consequences of being a whore, so much so that it took 6 weeks to dip my toes in the water again.

Last time was 3yrs ago and by that time I had a much more balanced mental approach and put it into a better context and was back working in a couple of weeks. When newbies ask for advice about coming/being in the industry one of the first suggestions I make is making sure you have 6weeks of money put to one side just in case you do have a scare, or your test proves positive for and STI, then you have the means to get by.

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Do you think it was dodgy condoms, or was it you getting over enthusiastic and possibly not enough lube.

I had it happen twice years ago when with girlfriend of the time. Both times the condoms were from the same box. Mates were the offending brand, never bought them again after that!

I love to use mates and have never had a problem with them - in my case it was Durex but I am careful about storing them in the correct conditions and making sure I check sell by dates.

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Ok as we all know sex in this industry doesn't come without hazards from both sides, WG and Punter alike have their share of different hazards.

I would like to address this one today…

If you knew the WG you were wanting to see or planned to see had , had the misfortune to have a condom burst on her would it put you off?

Girls would you still work during the 10 days before you get tested? Offering all covered services of course.

( The 10 days is because the GUM require you to wait 10 days before anything shows in your system)

Fella's would it bother you if the WG worked within those 10 days offering all covered services?

Would you wait for the results back before working ( or seeing the girl of your choice)?

So the questions to the fella's would it bother you and would you wait?

And Ladies, would you work or not in those 10 days?

I ask as we all know there comes certain risks and hazards with this 'job' 'hobby' 'lifestyle' and the bursting or slipping of a condom is one of them.

I would go elsewhere. I have no interest in punting where the lady couldnt offer me the services i require nowadays.:cool:

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Ok as we all know sex in this industry doesn't come without hazards from both sides, WG and Punter alike have their share of different hazards.

I would like to address this one today…

If you knew the WG you were wanting to see or planned to see had , had the misfortune to have a condom burst on her would it put you off?

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Fella's would it bother you if the WG worked within those 10 days offering all covered services?

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No, it wouldn't worry me. The statistical chance of this accident having occurred with a client with an active infection with a readily transmissible STD (i.e. gonorrhoea or syphilis) is remote. The chance of her having become infected with a difficult to transimt STI (e.g. HIV) via a one off accident in vaginal sex is even more remote.

In any event the fact that I am using a condom gives me reasonable protection.

If clients want to worry on these lines the greater risk is that the girl has a boyfriend with whom she doesn't use condoms and that he is playing about..... a far more likely source of an infected WG than the one-off accident that you propose. Even then, using a condom should protect the client.

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Ok as we all know sex in this industry doesn't come without hazards from both sides, WG and Punter alike have their share of different hazards.

I would like to address this one today…

If you knew the WG you were wanting to see or planned to see had , had the misfortune to have a condom burst on her would it put you off?

Girls would you still work during the 10 days before you get tested? Offering all covered services of course.

( The 10 days is because the GUM require you to wait 10 days before anything shows in your system)

Fella's would it bother you if the WG worked within those 10 days offering all covered services?

Would you wait for the results back before working ( or seeing the girl of your choice)?

So the questions to the fella's would it bother you and would you wait?

And Ladies, would you work or not in those 10 days?

I ask as we all know there comes certain risks and hazards with this 'job' 'hobby' 'lifestyle' and the bursting or slipping of a condom is one of them.

Yes Tammy I would go elsewhere as the choice of ladies is so great. I want to be as relaxed as possible on a punt. The less issues , the better.:cool:

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Do you think it was dodgy condoms, or was it you getting over enthusiastic and possibly not enough lube.

I had it happen twice years ago when with girlfriend of the time. Both times the condoms were from the same box. Mates were the offending brand, never bought them again after that!

2 were with the same client, and in 1 week... purely because he is a BIG boy and I'm not prone to saying that, he still remains to have the biggest cock I have ever laid eyes on.

I wasn't overly worried with him as he was a regular and I knew that he got his checks just as I got mine.

(we hit the gum clinic once at the same time. That was an OMG moment for me before my logic kicked in, he saw me a week after the GUM and we both went... I'm clear how was yours? lol)

But we both did out time in the box, and would both have called each other if anything had shown.

In the 5 years, I've worked. I have never caught so much as a cold sore from my job and I am happy enough to say that I have never caught anything outside either.

As for the other three, your guess is as good as mine... All within date all kept in the correct environment, and all were put on properly so who knows possible that friction could have caused it, or maybye it was just under duress, or maybe it was a bad batch.

I don't know as I am always as careful as I can be with my working tools.

Tell you what annoys me though...

When I get a call from a guy accusing me of giving him something... I go get tested get the all clear and they still tell me I gave them x y or z.

I know a few girls who have had the same.

One Guy told me that as I was the only WG he had ever seen, and only slept with his wife...

I told him after the result again clear that either he was a liar or he should look closer to home.

I got a profuse e-mail a week later telling me his wife had cheated.

If all ya got is a hammer ...

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It, was a question posed by a woman to find the views of like minded individuals, I am aware of the inherent risks as I am a WG.

However, I was not talking about the 'LOGIC' of the situation, I was talking about the mental impact news like that has.

My first ever condom burst experience I felt too shaken to work and had those ten days off.

It was the thoughts and mindset answer I was after not the logical one.

Perhaps you could tell me if you would be comfortable in an appointment or going to one knowing the lady had an accident and while she is taking every available precaution, would it play on your mind or not?

Hi Tammy,

I must admit I wrote half my reply before waking up properly and looking at who had posted the question. I assumed at first it was a man, then had an 'oh duh' moment when I looked at the name so added a bit at the end. :cool::o

In answer to your direct question to me, I think I would be more concerned about the girl. I don't think it would 'prey on my mind' as such but I think a burst condom is often a traumatic experience and most people just want to retreat into themselves for a bit. I was in a sauna once, chatting in the lounge* and a girl came back up obviously a bit shaken. I sensed something was wrong and it turned out that there had been an accident with the last customer. She took the rest of the shift off.

Yes, I know it can happen with the best of precautions. I do, however have quite strong feelings (no pun intended) about condoms and condom manufacturers. Durex make quite a big range of products that differ from each quite a lot. But they are also very heavy handed. A well-known sexologist (well someone at least to several people on this board) used to do her own tests on condoms. Some of the Durex brands fared particularly poorly but she was threatened with such massive legal threats she had to withdraw publication. There are some Durex brands I am quite happy with. There are many I am not. (probably a longer answer than you wanted)

*London Street - which has a lounge that can be - or used to be - quite a friendly chatty place.

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Hi Tammy,

I must admit I wrote half my reply before waking up properly and looking at who had posted the question. I assumed at first it was a man, then had an 'oh duh' moment when I looked at the name so added a bit at the end. :):o

In answer to your direct question to me, I think I would be more concerned about the girl. I don't think it would 'prey on my mind' as such but I think a burst condom is often a traumatic experience and most people just want to retreat into themselves for a bit. I was in a sauna once, chatting in the lounge* and a girl came back up obviously a bit shaken. I sensed something was wrong and it turned out that there had been an accident with the last customer. She took the rest of the shift off.

Yes, I know it can happen with the best of precautions. I do, however have quite strong feelings (no pun intended) about condoms and condom manufacturers. Durex make quite a big range of products that differ from each quite a lot. But they are also very heavy handed. A well-known sexologist (well someone at least to several people on this board) used to do her own tests on condoms. Some of the Durex brands fared particularly poorly but she was threatened with such massive legal threats she had to withdraw publication. There are some Durex brands I am quite happy with. There are many I am not. (probably a longer answer than you wanted)

*London Street - which has a lounge that can be - or used to be - quite a friendly chatty place.

Well I was going to ask if you had had all your frosties this morning but it seemed rude LOL :cool:

I need a coffee before I even look at my computer cause only god could help me if I didn't. hehehe

Did seem a bit disjointed but wasn't really fussed, and if it is any concelation I could have made myself more clearer in my initial post.

Please ignore all errors I'm tired and have a sticky keyboard.

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I haven't had any accidents that I am aware of, but I booked myself in for a check up on Monday, so off to the GUM clinic I shall go. Hopefully there won't be any surprises at the end of the 10 days, I'm always very careful and never give in to pressure, so all should be good.

If I was going due to concerns, would I? Well, I'm like adore1 and have another job (3 to be exact) to keep me going, so I would probably give it a rest and wait and see if I have the all clear. I've learned the hard way to be careful with money, so should be able to manage until I can get up and running again.

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Well I was going to ask if you had had all your frosties this morning but it seemed rude LOL :)

I need a coffee before I even look at my computer cause only god could help me if I didn't. hehehe

. . . try looking at an iphone screen with one eye open, shifting the thread posts about with a finger, and trying to remember which cereal you mixed with the Greek yoghurt to go back to bed with on the pretext that you had to let the coffee cool down enough to drink :cool:. Under such conditions I sometimes convince myself that I have woken up enough, that I really have, and that I simply have to reply to that very interesting post that's looking at me.

A bit like that state between dream and waking where one knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that Angelina Jolie (or Brad Pitt if you're a woman) would be perfect match for me cos she can see into my soul and feel swept away by the purity of my lust. Unfortunately the result is maybe only one up from the coherence level of the sleepwalking talk of a 13yr-old with a hangover.

But who is going to exchange the 'reality' of an early morning snog with Brangelina for anything else, I ask you?

OK, I digress. ;):P

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If you knew the WG you were wanting to see or planned to see had , had the misfortune to have a condom burst on her would it put you off?

Are you suggesting that the girl would inform prospective punters that this had happened, surely not. :cool:

No, it would not bother me, why should it unless I was seeking bareback services which I wouldn't. :)

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