BristolBoy

Incall Vs Outcall

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Hi,

Quite new to all this but must admit I've had some great times since I've started:D

All my meetings so far have been outcalls to hotels. I do like meeting a lady this way because it's on neutral ground (I'm not going into someones personal space & vice versa - less nerves for me & her I imagine;)), & I can spend plenty of time in the shower before she arrives making sure I'm absolutely squeaky clean.

Only downside I can see is the additional cost of booking the room for 50/60 quid.

Now I'd like to try an incall, but I'm wondering, if I'm asked to freshen up in the shower beforehand (which is the right thing to do) I can sometimes take around 15-20 mins washing everything thoroughly, does this count as part of the booking time? Plus, meeting an escort at a hotel for me is nerve wracking enough, let alone meeting them at their place.

Also I'd like to know what you guys prefer? Incall or Outcall and the reasons why.

Thanks

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I think you might be displaying a bit of OCD there, have a shower before setting off, and then when you get there assuming you havent been travelling for to long have another but just take a couple of minutes over it, good scrub round the groin area only takes a minute soap down and rinse off, its not a competition to see how much skin you can scrub off you know.

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I think you might be displaying a bit of OCD there, have a shower before setting off, and then when you get there assuming you havent been travelling for to long have another but just take a couple of minutes over it, good scrub round the groin area only takes a minute soap down and rinse off, its not a competition to see how much skin you can scrub off you know.

Agreed, but don't forget your armpits :rolleyes:

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Agreed, but don't forget your armpits :rolleyes:

And behind the ears, if he's seeing Xenia or a similar ear-muncher. :rolleyes:

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And behind the ears, if he's seeing Xenia or a similar ear-muncher. :rolleyes:

Fair point, I now have a vision of Xenia chewing on a tasty ear.

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Hi,

Quite new to all this but must admit I've had some great times since I've started:D

All my meetings so far have been outcalls to hotels. I do like meeting a lady this way because it's on neutral ground (I'm not going into someones personal space & vice versa - less nerves for me & her I imagine;)), & I can spend plenty of time in the shower before she arrives making sure I'm absolutely squeaky clean.

Only downside I can see is the additional cost of booking the room for 50/60 quid.

Now I'd like to try an incall, but I'm wondering, if I'm asked to freshen up in the shower beforehand (which is the right thing to do) I can sometimes take around 15-20 mins washing everything thoroughly, does this count as part of the booking time? Plus, meeting an escort at a hotel for me is nerve wracking enough, let alone meeting them at their place.

Also I'd like to know what you guys prefer? Incall or Outcall and the reasons why.

Thanks

wtf - personal space - this is the ladies work place!

think the showering regime is a trifle excessive,would sugget sharing a shower can be very sexy,several ladies on here do that and i can personally vouch for chloe x and tammy who ensured that i was scrubbbed up and ready for action;)

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I always ensure that I've showered before setting out from home. I'm often offered a shower on arrival, and I decline as I've not long since had one.

I wonder if the offer of a second shower is sometimes really a request, ie. the lady is asking me to have one. If that's the case, I would have one out of politeness; I would never want to offend. Any thoughts on this from the ladies on here?

My regular girl never offers me a shower, but then she knows I've always had a scrub up. With non-regular girls, well, I like to just do as I'm told......

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20 minutes in the shower?! What on earth are you doing in there, sorting out the tiles? I spend just over half an hour in the bath and manage to shave 2 legs, armpits, sort out the bikini line, scrub everything several times, wash and condition waist length hair...

Several minutes in the shower upon arrival will be perfectly fine, I won't patronise you with where to wash! Ladies who offer incall usually prefer them as it rules out travel into city centres, parking, and they can control things like the temperature of the room (via two fans if necessary), hence the reduced cost.

Give it a whirl!

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You will probably find meeting ecorts in hotels (especially if you have booked it) and taking outcalls will give you access to a wider variety as not all wgs are able to offer incalls or are limited to the hours they can provide.

I do understand what you mean by 'personal space' as well. Some ladies do use their homes and there will be pictures and things around that remind you it is also a family home as well as a place of work. Of couse some wgs will go somewhere else and have a less personal look about the place they use.

I have to same it doesn't bother me going to guys homes though, as I quite like to see the environment they live in and suss them out a bit. Seeing things that are familiar to them can in some ways put me at ease and feel more relaxed and make the punter more 'likable'. (or is that lickable?).

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Hi,

Quite new to all this but must admit I've had some great times since I've started:D

All my meetings so far have been outcalls to hotels. I do like meeting a lady this way because it's on neutral ground (I'm not going into someones personal space & vice versa - less nerves for me & her I imagine;)), & I can spend plenty of time in the shower before she arrives making sure I'm absolutely squeaky clean.

Only downside I can see is the additional cost of booking the room for 50/60 quid.

Now I'd like to try an incall, but I'm wondering, if I'm asked to freshen up in the shower beforehand (which is the right thing to do) I can sometimes take around 15-20 mins washing everything thoroughly, does this count as part of the booking time? Plus, meeting an escort at a hotel for me is nerve wracking enough, let alone meeting them at their place.

Also I'd like to know what you guys prefer? Incall or Outcall and the reasons why.

Thanks

Pierrots advice covers the showering. I much prefer an Incall, but i wont travel more than a 50 mile round trip. It also suits me better if the lady has booked the hotel and i visit her.

The reason i prefer incalls at the ladies place or hotel is because i feel safer and more relaxed and in my experience often the lady says she much prefers it at her place to. If necessary i can easily walk with less chance of a problem.

By only sticking to Outcalls a punter is seriously limiting his choice of lady and putting his costs up in my view, but if he doesnt mind that, thats his business of course, but i require as much choice as possible.:eek:

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when a shower is "requested" you should have one and it should take no more than 5 mins to step in, get wet. apply shower gel thoroughly to all areas of body, paying particular attention to love jewelery, under arms and bum - rub well and rinse off, you are not required to wash hair etc - jump out and towel dry, dependant on lady she may help you with either one or all aspects of this.

My personal policy is no shower no play and I will ensure you are dry and will shower after play time to ensure you leave my complany totaly oil and sex odour free.

Beth

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The best thing you could do Bristol Boy is have an incall with someone to know what you prefer and hopefully have a bit of fun finding out.

Like Kate said if you book outcalls to hotels you will probably have more choice.

Shelly

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All my meetings so far have been outcalls to hotels. I do like meeting a lady this way because it's on neutral ground (I'm not going into someones personal space & vice versa - less nerves for me

I'm the same and I imagine there are a lot of others like us too. I find it a lot easier on my nerves with an outcall to a hotel. Having said that, some girls "incalls" are actually at a hotel which they have booked themselves, I found that pretty easy on my nerves too. I wouldn't feel at all comfortable going to someone's home. Hotels are sexy anyway!

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Hi,

Quite new to all this but must admit I've had some great times since I've started:D

All my meetings so far have been outcalls to hotels. I do like meeting a lady this way because it's on neutral ground (I'm not going into someones personal space & vice versa - less nerves for me & her I imagine;)), & I can spend plenty of time in the shower before she arrives making sure I'm absolutely squeaky clean.

Only downside I can see is the additional cost of booking the room for 50/60 quid.

Now I'd like to try an incall, but I'm wondering, if I'm asked to freshen up in the shower beforehand (which is the right thing to do) I can sometimes take around 15-20 mins washing everything thoroughly, does this count as part of the booking time? Plus, meeting an escort at a hotel for me is nerve wracking enough, let alone meeting them at their place.

Also I'd like to know what you guys prefer? Incall or Outcall and the reasons why.

Thanks

Hi and welcome to the forum. I myself have always gone for incalls so far. I don't really see the need to spend the extra expense on a hotel room and don't really like the idea of them coming to my home... too many prying eyes... not to mention the fact that I'd have to actually clean the place for once :eek::);) I'm sure I've also read that WGs that offer both tend to favour incalls, as they are more comfortable in their own environment.

I'm not so sure I agree with others that there is more choice if you go for outcalls though. I just did a quick search on the other site and there are are 10,355 female escort profile offering incalls and 10,796 offering outcalls, which isn't really a significant difference. Sure there are some agencies that only offer outcalls but there are also plenty of parlours that only offer incalls.

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I'm very comfortable seeing guys at my place as I have most of my personal things in a seperate room and simply am not a 'framed' photo-style person. I have lots of knicknacks that are personal but they won't remind you of any one in particular. Well they might at a certain angle. :eek:

For clients well I think this varies from person to person really. Guys have often told me they don't like seeing WGs in hotel rooms. I've recently however stopped offering overnights from my place as that length of booking really was too personal, and it was difficult to relax - especially for those who were 'supposed' to be staying in a hotel. Yes wives quite often want to know the name of said hotel, phone number etc etc. So now overnights are at hotels only(theirs or mine), which has worked very well so far.

From an SP's point of view I'm happy 'out' or 'in' as long as I've time to get to get ready and the venue is clean, discrete and safe.

Showering?20 minutes?That's rather excessive and I think you may end up being asked for money towards the water/electricity bill - plus at that you are either going to be eating into your time or someone elses. 5 minutes is all you need unless you haven't has a wash for weeks.

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Hi and welcome to the forum. I myself have always gone for incalls so far. I don't really see the need to spend the extra expense on a hotel room and don't really like the idea of them coming to my home... too many prying eyes... not to mention the fact that I'd have to actually clean the place for once :eek::);) I'm sure I've also read that WGs that offer both tend to favour incalls, as they are more comfortable in their own environment.

I'm not so sure I agree with others that there is more choice if you go for outcalls though. I just did a quick search on the other site and there are are 10,355 female escort profile offering incalls and 10,796 offering outcalls, which isn't really a significant difference. Sure there are some agencies that only offer outcalls but there are also plenty of parlours that only offer incalls.

Also some WGs who advertise on Adultw0rk and elsewhere as only offering Outcalls actually work from a hotel which they book which is in effect an Incall to me.

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i dont take the time out of appointment for showering ect but im talking 5 mins or so both ends of the appointmet

if you are booking say an hour and spend 20 mins of it in the shower AND still expect and hour time then basically you are having appoximently a 90 min appointment for the price of 1 hour so i would as i would see it as someone taking advantage of me or didnt have a shower at there own home

while most escort are generous with the time spent with them and will not clockwatch - 20 mins in the shower is a tad to long especially if you still require and paying for 1 hour

If someone did that to me i would think that they were taking the piss in more than one way

In fact i would go and check that they havent manage to slide down the plughole :eek:

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Hi and welcome to the forum. I myself have always gone for incalls so far. I don't really see the need to spend the extra expense on a hotel room and don't really like the idea of them coming to my home... too many prying eyes... not to mention the fact that I'd have to actually clean the place for once :eek::);) I'm sure I've also read that WGs that offer both tend to favour incalls, as they are more comfortable in their own environment.

I'm not so sure I agree with others that there is more choice if you go for outcalls though. I just did a quick search on the other site and there are are 10,355 female escort profile offering incalls and 10,796 offering outcalls, which isn't really a significant difference. Sure there are some agencies that only offer outcalls but there are also plenty of parlours that only offer incalls.

The volume might be there, but I think you would find that the time periods available are smaller for incall. I personally can not do incalls during the weekend or after school hours and that is going to change again since my son is about to break up from school after his exams... boooo!!!!! The Summer hols are going to be impossible, hence a tour in plan.

Anyway, my point is a lot of wgs do have children if not a partner, which means that the flexibility is leaning more towards outcalls.

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Also some WGs who advertise on Adultw0rk and elsewhere as only offering Outcalls actually work from a hotel which they book which is in effect an Incall to me.

Hmmm... so if a lady has travelled 100 plus miles to get somewhere and stumped up the bill for a hotel, needed to buy food while away etc, you don't think that should incur any extra fee?

I don't charge extra when I stay in a hotel locally, but I am going to Newbury and London in August and I will be charging outcall costs, due to the expense of getting there, plus the £8 per day parking costs. I don't think an extra £10 is unfair, as I have made myself available to people that woudln't normally have the opportunity of seeing me.

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Hmmm... so if a lady has travelled 100 plus miles to get somewhere and stumped up the bill for a hotel, needed to buy food while away etc, you don't think that should incur any extra fee?

I don't charge extra when I stay in a hotel locally, but I am going to Newbury and London in August and I will be charging outcall costs, due to the expense of getting there, plus the £8 per day parking costs. I don't think an extra £10 is unfair, as I have made myself available to people that woudln't normally have the opportunity of seeing me.

Thats three times out of three you have put words in my mouth. What the lady charges is her business as it what i am prepared to pay. Most WGs i punt with in hotels tell me they are seeing a number of punters during the day and night and they charge the same rate as if they were working from their own premises or a very slight amount more, thats up to them, i am not twisting their arms to charge less. You really do jump to assumptions very quickly IMO.

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Outcalls have their advantages, but the negatives outweigh them. The cost of the donation is rough enough and now the room? Ouch. Also some ladies charge extra to travel. I am not sure I understand that.

Beside the cost of the room, it can be a hassle to find a place that will let you in before the official check in of 3. For an afternoon punter this becomes a pain in the arse.

My favorite is the permanent incall.

Just my thoughts

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i only do incalls and dont like doing outcalls and wont even do an outcall to a hotel that 2 mins away from me unless its someone i have met before

im lucky that i have a permanent incall location but i tour a lot to ireland and the channel island so not at home much anymore

I find that if you can offer incall the demand for gents seeing you is far higher than if you just to outcall but it can depend on where you are in london i get lots of call for outcalls but still wont do them as i dont like doing outcalls its just a personal thing i guess

The volume might be there, but I think you would find that the time periods available are smaller for incall. I personally can not do incalls during the weekend or after school hours and that is going to change again since my son is about to break up from school after his exams... boooo!!!!! The Summer hols are going to be impossible, hence a tour in plan.

Anyway, my point is a lot of wgs do have children if not a partner, which means that the flexibility is leaning more towards outcalls.

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you mention below that outcalls cost more - cost for travel /ect the room ect which i appreciate but from the escorts or rather my point, i charge 1 hour /120 it takes only one hour of my time for that appointment however a 1 hour outcall will generally take 2 hours of my time maybe more depending on where i have to get to /from and yes there is travel expenses taxi if not driving

i have been asked to do a 1 hour outcall to cardiff a round trip of at least

1.5 hours so were talking min of 2.5 -3 hours

So that why i wont do outcalls because in that space of time of one outcall takes i can make more money without the stress of driving and finding somewhere to park, travelling somewhere that im not familiar with

On the rare occasions that i do offer outcalls its a min of 2 hours and then its ok but to do a 1 hour outcall for the same price as in incall is not practical for me

Outcalls have their advantages, but the negatives outweigh them. The cost of the donation is rough enough and now the room? Ouch. Also some ladies charge extra to travel. I am not sure I understand that.

Beside the cost of the room, it can be a hassle to find a place that will let you in before the official check in of 3. For an afternoon punter this becomes a pain in the arse.

My favorite is the permanent incall.

Just my thoughts

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Hmmm... so if a lady has travelled 100 plus miles to get somewhere and stumped up the bill for a hotel, needed to buy food while away etc, you don't think that should incur any extra fee?

I don't charge extra when I stay in a hotel locally, but I am going to Newbury and London in August and I will be charging outcall costs, due to the expense of getting there, plus the £8 per day parking costs. I don't think an extra £10 is unfair, as I have made myself available to people that woudln't normally have the opportunity of seeing me.

£8.00 a day! In London?

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£8.00 a day! In London?

You can park in Tower hill for a tenner but I'm a bit out of touch in over places, have paid as little as £6 but that was 3 years ago! most I've paid is £30 for 4 hours.

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