Frank Smith

Ever asked/demanded your money back after service?

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So today I went for a punt, an hour domination service with two girls, something I have been scouting for a long time. I get to the place the girl looks like she did in the photos and videos and everything seemed OK.

Then the problems came, the other girl was not there. I was kinda pissed but thought I would just see this one. She asked me what kind of stuff do I want. I just said I wanted you to use toys, straps and be rough with me basically. She kept asking me to show her what I wanted her to do. I was really puzzled at this moment, I expected her to just get on with it.

Turns out she has nothing kinky but one pair of hand cuffs. I asked her to use them, she could not get them open and when she did she tied by hands together from the front and started missionary. This was so damn boring. She was all smiley the whole way through and literally done nothing "extra"

To add insult to injury, I came like 20 minutes in, less than that in fact. She gave me another massage (no oil or anything) then told me that we were done. I asked her if I could come twice and she said no, not in a dom session.

I was puzzled, but she almost semmed to nice to argue with.

So basically, I paid £120 for an hour dom service and got nothing but straight oral and sex. The only thing she had was a pair of handcuffs which were really not even used and she had no idea what to do.

When she told me it was over I knew I got bumped big time, but I'm just too timid to bring such a grievance up.

Any of you guys/gals ask for your money back after a shoddy service?

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Difficult one if you have received a service even if not the service you were expecting.

If the girls an indie, personally I would just leave it. Its difficult to not come accross as comfrontational when dealing with a girl direct although it might be worth writing an email to the girl when you get home to at least give her the opportunity to apologies and put the situation right, its unlikely you will get a full refund but you might get money off a second appointment giving her the chance to put right your experience, its up to you weather you then feel this discount is acceptable or to just cut your losses, notch it up to experience and write a negative report to reflect your experience and prevent others making the same mistake.

If it were an agency, leave without making a fuss and take it up with the agency immediately. Depending on the agency you should at least get some sort of discount of future appointments or a refund in full through future appointments. I would be suprised if you got a Full refund as a service has been provided and the girl has already taken the money although I would expect the agency to return thier fee through future appointments even if its spread accross one or two appointments

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I did have a partial refund once.

Some time ago, in a city I rarely visit.

Agency girl. Student, had done call-centre job as well, now on the escorting game in a different,

further-afield city for cash and a better life. Had to finish studies.

Aged 22 or so, good looking, but slightly tired

It was 22:00, and rota on the site showed she could have been working all day.

she was moderately experienced, and the date started comfortably with some Irn Bru, some nibbles and some kissing.

Date went ok, reasonable connect and all, it started to look quite promising !

But some 20 min into the frollicks, she wanted to go to the loo.

And she stayed there for a good while. Ai.

When she came back, the spirit was gone. Hm.

After 5 min of awkward movements on the bed she confessed to having belly-cramps and needed a break.

She felt quite bad about it.

We lay still, 2 persons on their backs, chatting for some 10 minutes, but no avail.

I asked her how much the Agency-cut was (it was 30 out of 150, as I suspected), and I suggested she refund me 100 and we call it even.

She was free to leave immediately, or stay to pretend to fulfill the hour. But apparently there wasnt a driver waiting

(she prolly shouldnt have told me she was alone, driving herself and had 2+ hrs to go before she got home).

She offered to refund met the whole amount but I told her to keep the agy-cut (hey, I'm a fluffy).

The refund itself was kinda hilarious: she had the money in her handbag allright, all crumpled bills stashed together, and

it popped out all over the bed and floor.

We parted as good friends, with her somewhat embarrassed.

I never reported, never told the Agy.

Hope she is doing allright, and I might invite her again if I'm in that city.

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So today I went for a punt, an hour domination service with two girls, something I have been scouting for a long time. I get to the place the girl looks like she did in the photos and videos and everything seemed OK.

Then the problems came, the other girl was not there. I was kinda pissed but thought I would just see this one. She asked me what kind of stuff do I want. I just said I wanted you to use toys, straps and be rough with me basically. She kept asking me to show her what I wanted her to do. I was really puzzled at this moment, I expected her to just get on with it.

Turns out she has nothing kinky but one pair of hand cuffs. I asked her to use them, she could not get them open and when she did she tied by hands together from the front and started missionary. This was so damn boring. She was all smiley the whole way through and literally done nothing "extra"

To add insult to injury, I came like 20 minutes in, less than that in fact. She gave me another massage (no oil or anything) then told me that we were done. I asked her if I could come twice and she said no, not in a dom session.

I was puzzled, but she almost semmed to nice to argue with.

So basically, I paid £120 for an hour dom service and got nothing but straight oral and sex. The only thing she had was a pair of handcuffs which were really not even used and she had no idea what to do.

When she told me it was over I knew I got bumped big time, but I'm just too timid to bring such a grievance up.

Any of you guys/gals ask for your money back after a shoddy service?

If i booked two ladies but only one was actually there despite me confirming there would be two just before i left for hers i would walk nowadays and go elsewhere. Being blatantly lied to is an instant passion killer to me.

You went through with the punt so why would she give you your money back? She would most likely think thats another mug punter who thought with his dick and have a right laugh at your expense.

As to getting your money back, a very difficult task in my experience. When i used Agencies and complained the usual response was "fuck off" or "fuck off you cunt", and that was after me being polite. Once you have given an Indie the money unless you go down the threats route which i certainly wouldnt do or recommend anyone does, the chances are small of seeing it again. I walk tell her i think she is a total disgrace and chalk it down to experience, posting about it on here to warn others.

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you might get money off a second appointment giving her the chance to put right your experience

Second appointment with prositute who obviously knows nothing about a service she's advertising / accepting to do?

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice...

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When you made the booking, did you do it with a private number or one that she could contact you on? If it was a registered number then she should have told you in advance of getting there to give you the opportunity of cancelling without feeling of confrontation. She should have also told you that she had limited exprience Domming to again give you an informed choice of what to do next and avoid disappointment. If however you used a private number, then I'm afraid she probably did the best she could under the circumstances and was quite brave to attempt to do as you wanted. It's quite daunting Domming when you have little experience.

One thing though, you say it was boring, but you must have enjoyed it to cum so soon? You may not have got exactly what you asked for, but you evidently enjoyed it and I don't think her fee was over priced.

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I did have a partial refund once.

Some time ago, in a city I rarely visit.

Agency girl. Student, had done call-centre job as well, now on the escorting game in a different,

further-afield city for cash and a better life. Had to finish studies.

Aged 22 or so, good looking, but slightly tired

It was 22:00, and rota on the site showed she could have been working all day.

she was moderately experienced, and the date started comfortably with some Irn Bru, some nibbles and some kissing.

Date went ok, reasonable connect and all, it started to look quite promising !

But some 20 min into the frollicks, she wanted to go to the loo.

And she stayed there for a good while. Ai.

When she came back, the spirit was gone. Hm.

After 5 min of awkward movements on the bed she confessed to having belly-cramps and needed a break.

She felt quite bad about it.

We lay still, 2 persons on their backs, chatting for some 10 minutes, but no avail.

I asked her how much the Agency-cut was (it was 30 out of 150, as I suspected), and I suggested she refund me 100 and we call it even.

She was free to leave immediately, or stay to pretend to fulfill the hour. But apparently there wasnt a driver waiting

(she prolly shouldnt have told me she was alone, driving herself and had 2+ hrs to go before she got home).

She offered to refund met the whole amount but I told her to keep the agy-cut (hey, I'm a fluffy).

The refund itself was kinda hilarious: she had the money in her handbag allright, all crumpled bills stashed together, and

it popped out all over the bed and floor.We parted as good friends, with her somewhat embarrassed.

I never reported, never told the Agy.

Hope she is doing allright, and I might invite her again if I'm in that city.

sorry but the above report makes me feel a bit sick to the stomach.

she left embarrassed, sounds like she was scared:rolleyes:

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When you made the booking, did you do it with a private number or one that she could contact you on? If it was a registered number then she should have told you in advance of getting there to give you the opportunity of cancelling without feeling of confrontation. She should have also told you that she had limited exprience Domming to again give you an informed choice of what to do next and avoid disappointment. If however you used a private number, then I'm afraid she probably did the best she could under the circumstances and was quite brave to attempt to do as you wanted. It's quite daunting Domming when you have little experience.

One thing though, you say it was boring, but you must have enjoyed it to cum so soon? You may not have got exactly what you asked for, but you evidently enjoyed it and I don't think her fee was over priced.

I was very sensetive at the time. She was sexy and if I paid half the price I would not be fussing. But, I could not cum twice because I apparently paid for an extra service which quite literally never happend. I asked her over email about the stuff I wanted and confirmed it by text. As the other guy said, I just cut my losses and make it a lesson learned.

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No. But I did once, several years ago, attempt to decline paying for an upgrade.

It was a twenty minute booking in the heart of South America. I suggested we start with me giving her a nice massage. She replied that that would be extra and would be part of a one hour booking. I said I definitely didn't want one hour but she was insistent. Nothing had happened, but we were undressed at this point so I owed her something. About five to ten minutes had passed max and I decided to call it quits and paid her for twenty minutes.

Three very nice, very large, very well-dressed gentlemen appeared at the door. They kindly escorted me to their office, but stopped just outside. We were standing at the top of a deep, rusty, staircase, with me in between them and the staircase. They gazed about blankly while I 'explained.' The possibility of a fly was decidedly more interesting than anything I might have to say.

I'm sure you guessed. I walked out the way I came. But only after asking them to accept the 'upgrade' fee.

:eek:;):)

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I have requested and received a refund before.

It's like any service you pay for if you do not get what you're told your going to get why should you not receive a full or partial refund?

The trouble is to many prostitutes claim to offer specific services as they are blinded by the £££

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Lol. So today I had a booking for another two girls I was looking at. Dom session. 5 minutes away and they call me to cancel. Better luck next time tomorrow or I just give up.

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Lol. So today I had a booking for another two girls I was looking at. Dom session. 5 minutes away and they call me to cancel. Better luck next time tomorrow or I just give up.

With these ladies and your OP booking what research did you do Frank? Have they got FRs on here or threads you had read beforehand?

You know from your previous threads and advice given, from myself included that research is important to up your chances of having a good or better punt.

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Asking for a refund near the beginning of a booking, if things are not how they should be is fine but to ask for one after the booking has ended is taking the piss.

If the girl is not offering what she says, then end the appointment quickly dont see it through to the end and expect her to give you money back after you have received the full time.

TBH Frank, I would have been a bit suspect anyway of a 2domme service for £120.

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Then the problems came, the other girl was not there. I was kinda pissed but thought I would just see this one. She asked me what kind of stuff do I want. I just said I wanted you to use toys, straps and be rough with me basically. She kept asking me to show her what I wanted her to do. I was really puzzled at this moment, I expected her to just get on with it.

maybe you should not have gone there drunk:(

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With these ladies and your OP booking what research did you do Frank? Have they got FRs on here or threads you had read beforehand?

You know from your previous threads and advice given, from myself included that research is important to up your chances of having a good or better punt.

It's from the other site. They had a couple of reviews and stuff and she sounded legit over the phone. Not much more I could have done.

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The handcuffs bit on the original post made me recollect a punt I had about 15 yrs ago

The lady had a pair of cuffs and clearly didnt know how to do domination so I offered to show her and was able to cuff her round the bed frame with her on all fours.............

Good job I was a gentleman as I could have easily given her a (free for me) A level the position she was in

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Good job I was a gentleman as I could have easily given her a (free for me) A level the position she was in

Good job indeed or you may well have been staring at a different set of 4 walls than you are now, a much smaller set.

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I've never had a proper Dom session but I've been told that Escorts dont make Wonderful Dom's.

Perhaps its worth looking into meeting a proper Dominatrix?

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If you feel your not getting the service that you have requested and agreed beforehand. then call it a day at the begining and it is likely that you will get most of your money back.

had an experience myself over a year ago. called a parlour, asked for 2 girls, also being filmed. was told this was fine. got there the gilrs were lovely, were okay for the threesome but no filming. thus the maid apologised, refunded the 150 money and kept a tenner from it. as id seen the gilrs naked etc and been there for 20mins. i didnt mind the tenner as i got back the rest.

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