Jazzy

Punting, personality and friendship

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Hello every one! I hope your all well! Just something which I have been thinking about for some time and wanted to get other people's views and opinions, for me punting is not just about the sex, personally for me a good personality is much more attractive than physical appearances.

With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

I apologise if the above doesn't make sense, its just something which i have been thinking about for some time and thought i would put it out on here !

Thanx for taking the time to read my ramblings!

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mnn not so sure if I'd be willing to fuck an unattractive girl just because of her personality... that applies to punting and civil life but then again I do understand where you are coming from.

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Hand on heart I can say I've made a lot of 'friends' through those I've met either via this site or elsewhere as clients. Over time trust has built up to the point of real, true friendships where support is shown through bad times as well as the good for both parties involved. I've also been told that some guys do take their time to build up a picture of a lady before seeing her, and whilst physical attributes are very important they also consider how a person comes across as well.

Oooh, I've come over all warm and lovely inside. Better be careful or I'll ruin my porridge.

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Hello every one! I hope your all well! Just something which I have been thinking about for some time and wanted to get other people's views and opinions, for me punting is not just about the sex, personally for me a good personality is much more attractive than physical appearances.

With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

I apologise if the above doesn't make sense, its just something which i have been thinking about for some time and thought i would put it out on here !

Thanx for taking the time to read my ramblings!

Aaw a nice fluffy post to brighten my morning!

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Personality every time.

I have 2 regulars, one of them is the most open minded woman I have ever met, nothing is off-limits. But sometimes it feels mechanical, sex is her only topic of conversation and its never far from my mind that fucking is her job.

With the other, the sex is vanilla and really isn't that memorable but she fucks with my mind. Personality, its her number 1 attraction. We are ying and yang, we could be soulmates, flirting over dinner with her staring into my eyes is just as vital to our meetings as banging her in the bedroom. Once we get so lost in conversation that the restaurant manager had to throw us out because the staff wanted to go home. I'm sure I'm the only man she sees - and if I'm not then she should win an oscar for her acting ability;).

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Hand on heart I can say I've made a lot of 'friends' through those I've met either via this site or elsewhere as clients. Over time trust has built up to the point of real, true friendships where support is shown through bad times as well as the good for both parties involved. I've also been told that some guys do take their time to build up a picture of a lady before seeing her, and whilst physical attributes are very important they also consider how a person comes across as well.

Oooh, I've come over all warm and lovely inside. Better be careful or I'll ruin my porridge.

I will second that one Strawberry, some of my bestest friends and favourite people on the planet have been met through this site. They have been better friends than anyone else in the past. They know who they are and I love them dearly xx

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Hand on heart I can say I've made a lot of 'friends' through those I've met either via this site or elsewhere as clients. Over time trust has built up to the point of real, true friendships where support is shown through bad times as well as the good for both parties involved. I've also been told that some guys do take their time to build up a picture of a lady before seeing her, and whilst physical attributes are very important they also consider how a person comes across as well.

Oooh, I've come over all warm and lovely inside. Better be careful or I'll ruin my porridge.

It's true. I would not count myself as a friend necessarily of the women I have met. But we keep in touch.

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mnn not so sure if I'd be willing to fuck an unattractive girl just because of her personality... that applies to punting and civil life but then again I do understand where you are coming from.

I disagree, many a time I have met girls (work and socially) who at first didn't dingle any of my bells but as I got to know them and their personalities shone through they did become attractive and I harboured "Hmm I wouldn't mind......" thoughts.

..and the exact opposite from girls where my first impression may have been "whoarrr!" only to discover they were well aware of how good looking they are and their thinly veiled conceit towards not so good looking blokes like myself put them into the 'not with a bargepole anyway' category.

Mind you, as you say, if you're looking on it just as a 'fuck' then fair enough I guess. :)

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Hello every one! I hope your all well! Just something which I have been thinking about for some time and wanted to get other people's views and opinions, for me punting is not just about the sex, personally for me a good personality is much more attractive than physical appearances.

With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

I apologise if the above doesn't make sense, its just something which i have been thinking about for some time and thought i would put it out on here !

Thanx for taking the time to read my ramblings!

mnn not so sure if I'd be willing to fuck an unattractive girl just because of her personality... that applies to punting and civil life but then again I do understand where you are coming from.

Hey Claire, the multiquote works!

It will be no surprise to my 'fans' out there :) that I am much more with Jazzy than vimeo on this one. A nice personality is very important to me in the ladies I meet. Sometimes you can judge that from their profiles, but reading several dozen posts from them on here certainly helps in getting a real idea of them.

There are probably a couple of dozen people on PunterNet, male and female, who I regard as friends or mates (a looser, perhaps more frivolous attachment). In fact it took about a year between my first post and my second and it was one of the ladies on here who talked (nagged) me into taking an interest in the site. Since doing so I have met one or two of the ladies I get on with here, and I have plans to meet several more.

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Sounds like you're still on a post-punt high, Jazzy :)

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Hello every one! I hope your all well! Just something which I have been thinking about for some time and wanted to get other people's views and opinions, for me punting is not just about the sex, personally for me a good personality is much more attractive than physical appearances.

With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

I apologise if the above doesn't make sense, its just something which i have been thinking about for some time and thought i would put it out on here !

Thanx for taking the time to read my ramblings!

I've come to the view, via a long and winding road informed by many experiences and people, that punting is an hour in a room. What you want is the best possible "click" in the context of that hour, but if you're looking for more than that, you are probably way off base (and I have looked for more, and I have probably been way off base in so doing.) Punting is an economic transaction, not a personal one. Do you enjoy Tesco shopping more if you are friends with the manager? Thought not. The deliverables are value, cleanliness, respect, and the availability of what you want to buy. If those standards are met (by both parties) then that's a great punt. You make sense, but I think you are looking for something that is not really a part of a punt.

Just my $0.02s worth, but that's the conclusion that I've reached.

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I've come to the view, via a long and winding road informed by many experiences and people, that punting is an hour in a room.

Quite right IMHO, I look at it this way, I am not paying a prostitute just to supply me with sexual services, I am paying a prostitute to supply me with sexual services and then leave (although in my case I don't think that the leaving part is much of a hardship), conversely the prostitute is not just taking my money in return for supplying me with sexual services, she is taking my money in return for supplying me with sexual services and then I leave.

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I think a lady who offers the GFE is offering far more than just sex and is often I imagine of the right mind to do so. They are likely to be very giving, social creatures, who enjoy meeting new people, have a willingness to learn more about them and an ability to tune themselves in to the person they are meeting.

There is nothing to suggest that the friendships made through doing this are not geniune or able to become solid friendships, but I imagine the ladies tend to let the gentleman take the lead on this, so as not to appear eager to take their money and use the budding friendship purely for monetory gain.

Personally (as a single lady) I really do value the friendships I have made, both from men and women within escorting. I suppose in some respects I don't assume the friendships will be long term, but there is no reason why they can't be if the friendship develops. After all, I am not going to be working for ever and then the friendship will either move on to another level, or come to a natural end.

For the here and now, the important thing is, that some people do put a huge smile on my face and make me feel happy, which is a wonderful thing.

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Definitely agree with you on the personality thing. There are plenty of pretty girls out there, but the one I'm returning to see is the one with a great personality who can put a smile on my face long before the clothes come off. Where, for a short time, I can pretend she's just the best damn GF I've ever had. :)

Sex with a beautiful plank of wood isn't my thing.

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Plenty of pretty girls about, so makes sense to pick one with a personality . I am always mildy surprised when some customers in the parlours choose girls with no, or very little english .

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I have been reading this thread thinking through the girls I have formed some sort of friendship with and thinking whether it was physical atttractiveness or personality that led me to want some sort of friendship that in these cases did happen.

There are lots of them over many years, luckily for me.

But while all of them are far more attractive physically than me, I can only think of 2 or 3 who might harshly be described as quite ordinary facially.

But they all had/have lovely, friendly personalities that came out quickly or eventually.

So in the end I haven't yet worked out what was going on in whose head...

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I've come to the view, via a long and winding road informed by many experiences and people, that punting is an hour in a room. What you want is the best possible "click" in the context of that hour, but if you're looking for more than that, you are probably way off base (and I have looked for more, and I have probably been way off base in so doing.) Punting is an economic transaction, not a personal one. Do you enjoy Tesco shopping more if you are friends with the manager? Thought not. The deliverables are value, cleanliness, respect, and the availability of what you want to buy. If those standards are met (by both parties) then that's a great punt. You make sense, but I think you are looking for something that is not really a part of a punt.

Just my $0.02s worth, but that's the conclusion that I've reached.

This is absolutely correct however, just like in any part of life quite often people find they do meet people they particularly 'click' with and hence friendships do develop. You are right though that if you are seeking a friendship or relationship from the offset you possibly need to be looking elsewhere. Most ladies at anyone time do get approached by quite a few who fall into the latter category - or those who assume friendship just because the lady has agreed to sleep with them. Once again just as in any line of work you aren't automatically best buddies just because you have a business agreement with them.

Everyone is different and it would seem quite a few chaps will go for a lady they feel they will feel comfortable with, safe as well as possibly have something in common. Others couldn't give a stuff as long as she has x,y,z physical attributes.

See everyone is different and like other ladies in this line of work we see a variety of clients with a variety of 'requirements'. As long as everyone is happy I don't worry too much!

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Personality counts for a lot but unfortunately many judge by appearance.:)

I have sometimes been very guilty of this and I will put my hand up and admit, but I have learnt my lesson a few times....:eek:

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Personality counts for a lot but unfortunately many judge by appearance.:)

I have sometimes been very guilty of this and I will put my hand up and admit, but I have learnt my lesson a few times....:eek:

Oh I'm still in with a chance then despite looking like Quasimodo's uglier brother. :D:)

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With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

In all honesty I have very few people in my life I would class as true friends and in civvy st. it is difficult to build new ones, as the fact I am not honest and open about the escorting compromises my becoming a true friend as I view them ie. trust, honesty, sharing of private stuff. Friendships are based on many things, and time along with experiences gone through are a big factor as to how they stand the test of time.

It doesn't mean I haven't found people I'm genuinely interested in, enjoy the company of and like to spend time with (hopefully one or two will become true friendships in the fullest sense) - just understand having true friendship is a special thing.

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Do you enjoy Tesco shopping more if you are friends with the manager? .

Honestly yes I do ! I don't know how or even why but I got chatting to local store manager once, and I always have a quick chat/ friendly hello every time I go in ! and I find the staff at that particular store are much nicer than the other stores, and as I regularly go to this one particular store I usually have some friendly banter with the rest of the staff.

Sorry to bore you all with all of that !

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Definitely agree with you on the personality thing. There are plenty of pretty girls out there, but the one I'm returning to see is the one with a great personality who can put a smile on my face long before the clothes come off. Where, for a short time, I can pretend she's just the best damn GF I've ever had. :)

Sex with a beautiful plank of wood isn't my thing.

Quite, plank of wood or as frosty as a freezer isnt my thing either. Seeming enthusiasm and friendliness with a smile on the WGs face along with offering the services i want is what i require nowadays, Within reason, the bigger her personality and the more confident she is the better. Great looks, extensive services as well as a great personality are the ideal but a great personality is more important to me than great looks.:eek:

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Quite, plank of wood or as frosty as a freezer isnt my thing either. Seeming enthusiasm and friendliness with a smile on the WGs face along with offering the services i want is what i require nowadays, Within reason, the bigger her personality and the more confident she is the better. Great looks, extensive services as well as a great personality are the ideal but a great personality is more important to me than great looks.:eek:

Oh yes, that hits it on the head. Personality, attitude and confidence... all essential ingredients to a great experience... bring it on! :)

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Hello every one! I hope your all well! Just something which I have been thinking about for some time and wanted to get other people's views and opinions, for me punting is not just about the sex, personally for me a good personality is much more attractive than physical appearances.

With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

I apologise if the above doesn't make sense, its just something which i have been thinking about for some time and thought i would put it out on here !

Thanx for taking the time to read my ramblings!

Yes, you are right Jazzy, punting is more than sex and has a whole lot more to it.

I have made some good friends over the years since I have been in industry-

I still keep in touch with drivers and girls from an agency I was at and often meet up for lunch and chats.

I have had the best enlightening experiences, more so than if I was working 9-5 in a office job doing the mundane routine.

Part of what I like about this industry is that nothing is samey, you never get the same day twice, lots of fun and surprises, meeting new people.

:D:) xxx

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Hello every one! I hope your all well! Just something which I have been thinking about for some time and wanted to get other people's views and opinions, for me punting is not just about the sex, personally for me a good personality is much more attractive than physical appearances.

With reference friendship I don't know about anybody else but I sure have made some good friends both male and female through this site !

I apologise if the above doesn't make sense, its just something which i have been thinking about for some time and thought i would put it out on here !

Thanx for taking the time to read my ramblings!

Would have to agree with you Jazzy.

There is an old adage that you don't look at the mantlepiece when you're stoking fire, but when your not stoking the fire you have to do something more than look. Being able to converse between bouts is of the utmost importance.

I have seen girls who were absolutely stunning but were foreign with a very poor grasp of English made the experience far less enjoyable than it would have been with a chat while recovering.

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