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Outcall, Incall or Parlour?

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Just wondering what everybody prefers and what they think are the pros and cons of each.

I've only ever done outcalls, so can't really comment much, but i would say, outcalls are more private, discreet and 'sexy', especially when in a hotel. However the downside is cost, and awkwardness with hotel staff.

By looking online i would say parlours are a lot cheaper, but less 'private' as there are other people there, e.g. receptionists, punters, other WGs. Hence maybe a bit awkward if you're shy like me.

However i have no experience of Incalls. Can anyone enlighten me? are incalls to apartments discreet, is there anybody else there? and how far in advance do you need to book an 'appointment'? or are girls there all the time?

Also, how often do they clean the sheets, etc. After every punt?

What are your experiences and opinions?

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Just wondering what everybody prefers and what they think are the pros and cons of each.

I've only ever done outcalls, so can't really comment much, but i would say, outcalls are more private, discreet and 'sexy', especially when in a hotel. However the downside is cost, and awkwardness with hotel staff.

By looking online i would say parlours are a lot cheaper, but less 'private' as there are other people there, e.g. receptionists, punters, other WGs. Hence maybe a bit awkward if you're shy like me.

However i have no experience of Incalls. Can anyone enlighten me? are incalls to apartments discreet, is there anybody else there? and how far in advance do you need to book an 'appointment'? or are girls there all the time?

Also, how often do they clean the sheets, etc. After every punt?

What are your experiences and opinions?

Never been to a parlour so can't comment.

I've experienced both Incall and Outcall and would say the Incalls have, in the main, been the most discreet.

It does depend on the girl and the facilities she has. I would avoid, for instance, girls who share apartments.

A good Indie with her own apartment wins hands down over all others for discretion in my view.

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Totally agree with Mr XL, although I have been to parlours.

I've never experienced any problems with an incall.

Parlours are too cold and mechanical (mostly - there are exceptions, of course)

Outcalls at hotels are good, but usually you are paying more for the same incall service, and the lady is usually more relaxed in her own place, so chance of a better experience.

Incalls for me, every time!

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Never done an outcall so cant comment

Been to parlours. Upside is the booking system is easy and relaible. They always answer their phone (Indeed their phone no is known unlike some on aduntwank) I have NEVER met another punter in a parlour, just the maid and the girl. I nearly always book so I dont do the cattle market thing, which is not good.

Indes. Can be hard to get hold of (See note about phone numbers on A-wank above).

Not sure why punters are scared of parlours. I have always felt very safe. but then I am picky about the parlours I got to.

Find meeting girls on tour the most nerve racking as you have to pass reception...

Only punted once in London, to a girl on a tour in a hotel, so I dont know about the London scene.

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Incall if punting from home (don't think the wife would appreciate me booking an outcall to my home!), in or out can be nice when playing away, but I'm not interested in parlours, prefer to stick with independents.

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Cheers for the answers :)

Was considering using an agency, like Mckenzies in Leeds/Manchester.

They do incalls in their apartments, was wondering if anybody has experience with agency incalls like this.

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.............Also, how often do they clean the sheets, etc. After every punt?

What are your experiences and opinions?

They wait until they can snap them off the bed and then burn them... :)

Seriously tho' , choose a decent parlour and you won't have a problem.

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They wait until they can snap them off the bed and then burn them... :)

Seriously tho' , choose a decent parlour and you won't have a problem.

Not been to a parlour that had sheets, not needed unless you want to go to sleep for an hour then I guess it would be cheaper find a low cost hotel! The Parlour I work at just has a bedspread that is washed after each day, each punter gets a towel on top of the bedspread, which I have posted about before.

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I've never done an outcall. The incalls I've done have all been fine. Some nervousnous trying to look inconspicuous on the approach to the front door but quickly followed by a rush of excitment as I'm greeted and led into the house or flat.

I've done mainly parlours, which are a bit nerve-racking sometimes, but once into the room with the girl are fine. They are quick, cheap and convenient - if like me you live in a big city with plenty of choice. But the rules in many are quite restrictive - eg absolutely no owo in some. And others time you to the minute - I was once timed out because I hadn't come in my 20 mins, with no offer of finishing me off with a handjob so I was left to cram my erection back into my trousers and leave frustrated. That was my only bad experience of parlours though.

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Just wondering what everybody prefers and what they think are the pros and cons of each.

I've only ever done outcalls, so can't really comment much, but i would say, outcalls are more private, discreet and 'sexy', especially when in a hotel. However the downside is cost, and awkwardness with hotel staff.

By looking online i would say parlours are a lot cheaper, but less 'private' as there are other people there, e.g. receptionists, punters, other WGs. Hence maybe a bit awkward if you're shy like me.

However i have no experience of Incalls. Can anyone enlighten me? are incalls to apartments discreet, is there anybody else there? and how far in advance do you need to book an 'appointment'? or are girls there all the time?

Also, how often do they clean the sheets, etc. After every punt?

What are your experiences and opinions?

I have done all 3 many times but never an Outcall to my home, its been to hotels. I have had no awkwardness with hotel staff, i dont care what they might be thinking personally. I prefer the WG to book the room actually so in those cases its an incall.

I have used many Parlours over the years but the only one i use now is more expensive than punting with an Indie but i have yet to have anything less than a good punt their so still go on occassion. This place only has one WG on a day and a maid/receptionist so thats all i see apart from a punter ringing the bell as i am leaving sometimes.

My preference is an Incall, i have found many ladies say this is their preference as well. Some places have been shit holes, most have been fine or better in my experience. Some places like group flats have other WGs in them and so other punters, others have just me and the lady as far as i am aware. I often punt on the day, so ring in the morning for an afternoon hour. As long as i am given the exact correct address, not one with flat C for example missing off it, i have found most to be discreet.:)

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outcalls... but then i suppose we would say that!

seriusly we have never liked incalls, i don't know its just never appealed... although the number of calls we get for hem somethimes were tempted... not sure if its worth the hassle as in east anglia the police are having a little purge on incall locations....

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Advantage of incalls, no one knows what you are up to, but personally had too many crap times in flats, girls jumping off to collect a parcel from the fedex man, hygiene a bit of an isssue, never been offered a pre-shag shower, and only once a post- shag shower. I am a major fan of parlours, I like meeting and chatting to the girls, and even enjoy seeing what my fellow punters look like, and enjoy their chat . I have never booked an outcall, will do so if I win the lottery.

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Never done an outcall so cant comment

Been to parlours. Upside is the booking system is easy and relaible. They always answer their phone (Indeed their phone no is known unlike some on aduntwank) I have NEVER met another punter in a parlour, just the maid and the girl. I nearly always book so I dont do the cattle market thing, which is not good.

Indes. Can be hard to get hold of (See note about phone numbers on A-wank above).

Not sure why punters are scared of parlours. I have always felt very safe. but then I am picky about the parlours I got to.

Find meeting girls on tour the most nerve racking as you have to pass reception...

Only punted once in London, to a girl on a tour in a hotel, so I dont know about the London scene.

On your second point I am an indie and can be easily got hold of aslong as its not silly o'clock or on my day/night off as is written on my website/profiles ;)

And point 4 I tour and very rarely use hotels so no passing reception :)

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Parlours are ideal for me, because I find it hard making plans in advance.

Also, you can't beat being introduced to a line-up of girls and making a choice on the spot. More often than not, it ensures I'll either stay for round two with a second girl or return another time.

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Parlours are ideal for me, because I find it hard making plans in advance.

Also, you can't beat being introduced to a line-up of girls and making a choice on the spot. More often than not, it ensures I'll either stay for round two with a second girl or return another time.

I don't make plans in advance either, and as no photo tells you 100%, prefer to meet before choosing. So it's parlours for me too.

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outcalls... but then i suppose we would say that!

seriusly we have never liked incalls, i don't know its just never appealed... although the number of calls we get for hem somethimes were tempted... not sure if its worth the hassle as in east anglia the police are having a little purge on incall locations....

Similar, for reasons mostly legal (I believe) there is a Agy in the NE that only arranges outcalls. They've been around for decades, apparently, so they might know what they are doing.

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Parlour's win for me all the time - first impressions are pretty much spot on I've found over the years so getting to meet up beforehand is ideal. If I don't get that "Wow" impression I can make my polite apologies and leave.

Interesting difference in etiquette I've noticed between Parlours 'up North (Manchester for me) and down South. In Manchester the single waiting room could have up to three customers reading papers or watching the telly - and the poor girls were introduced to the room. Down South theregeenrally seems to be a strict "no punter must ever meet another punter" rule. So when things are busy you have to join in with the silly "room swapping farce" game :P

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I've done all three over the years. Outcalls can be a bit risky because you may not 'click' with the girl that shows up (she is not always the one you expect). Incalls are fine because if you don't 'click' you can always leave, although I've never had to do this. I think I feel more comfortable in someone elses place in any case. Parlours, for me, have most of the best aspects of punting. Cheaper and sometimes (by no means always) you have a choice between two or more girls. Receptionists are never a problem because they are usually much older and pose no threat. Funny, but I always seem to fancy the younger receptionists, but I've never had the nerve to pop the question. (Has anyone else?). For me, its incall first and parlour second. Don't do outcall anymore.

Whether a parlour is actually cheaper than punting with an Indie depends on the area. In my area of North London parlours are more expensive than punting with an Indie offering like for like services.

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i just get too nervous about getting caught when doing outcalls (either by hotel management or by people in neighbouring rooms) might be just paranoia on my part, but either way i just cant relax properly.

i do like incall appointments but because of work i cant always guarantee that i can keep to an appointment time. so in general, for sheer ease its usually parlours for me.

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I've never had an outcall to my home, such is my level of distrust.

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Just wondering what everybody prefers and what they think are the pros and cons of each.

I've only ever done outcalls, so can't really comment much, but i would say, outcalls are more private, discreet and 'sexy', especially when in a hotel. However the downside is cost, and awkwardness with hotel staff.

By looking online i would say parlours are a lot cheaper, but less 'private' as there are other people there, e.g. receptionists, punters, other WGs. Hence maybe a bit awkward if you're shy like me.

However i have no experience of Incalls. Can anyone enlighten me? are incalls to apartments discreet, is there anybody else there? and how far in advance do you need to book an 'appointment'? or are girls there all the time?

Also, how often do they clean the sheets, etc. After every punt?

What are your experiences and opinions?

Outcalls to Hotels always. Nice to be able to sleep right after the act, or order room service and watch a movie, without having to walk back or drive somewhere

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Been in parlours.

Advantages, cheaper, easier to set up on short notice,

Disadvantages, lack of privacy, experienced meeting other punters, I have enjoyed the sex less and normally there are more restrictions on what they do. On only one occasion did I have a decent time, with a girl who liked it up the arse and was really really dirty. But even then it felt awkward.Room was pokey and she was bet over the massage table. I also have been in one once where you sit down and choose from the girls who parade in front of you. Did not like that.

Maybe I'm overly sensitive,but I felt a bit guilty for the girls who were paraded in front of me like cattle. Just felt uncomfortable.I much prefer to make my choice online ,by browsing websites. I don't like meeting punters. I like my punting like my shopping straight in a shop and then out, with minimal conversation.

In calls with independents. Advantages, Better more comfortable sex. I do find the girls specialise more,and if you are like me and must have anal or must have domination, you can browse around and find a girl suitable, you can even communicate with her beforehand. There is an actual bed, and I would not stay if there was anyone else visble on the premises. Iam sure once or twice there might be someone in the building for the girls security but if I don't see them I couldn't care less.

Disadvantages, More expensive, I expect slightly less safe for the punter as you don't know for certain exactly what you are walking into,that might be part of the thrill for some, . Mixed quality in terms of the state of the property. I have been to absolute penthouses, in very well to do areas, and in other places, where I thought I might need my clothes steam cleaned and blew the girl out.

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I avoid parlours or flats like the plague……….. never had a good experience at them :)

I tend to stick to independents or will see parlour girls if we arrange to meet elsewhere :D

Shoot me down if you like but just my preference

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I've never visited a parlour (there aint any round here for miles) and usually book a girl for an outcall to a hotel or similar. I have tried a few incall bookings over the years at the lady's house, but have mixed feelings about them. A couple of them were great and a couple not so great.

It is true IMO that the lady feels more relaxed working from her own place and that can only be a good thing.

But overall, I still prefer to book outcall. At least then you know you and the girl are alone in the room and no-one's going to tap the door (as in the next punter).

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