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Any middle age single guys punting?

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I'm in my thirties and single. I've had long term relationships in the past. Now that I've discovered punting I don't imagine that I'll get involved in another relationship, I can't really see the need. I live with mates, have an active social life, busy work life, have lots of fun and get the best sex I've ever had.

Any of you single guys feel the same or are you hoping for another relationship?

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Blimey I'm astounded to learn that your 30's are middle age. ;) Think I'd better get on the old blokes thread.

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Blimey I'm astounded to learn that your 30's are middle age. ;) Think I'd better get on the old blokes thread.

I didn't want to say "young guys" as I don't think I'm "young" ;) I was thinking those old enough to have had some long term relationships but young enough to potentially have some more.

Although technically (according to some random Google search I did) life expectancy in the UK in 2008 was 79.9 making "middle age" 39.95 years, so in the thirties, just :)

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I'm in my thirties and single. I've had long term relationships in the past. Now that I've discovered punting I don't imagine that I'll get involved in another relationship, I can't really see the need. I live with mates, have an active social life, busy work life, have lots of fun and get the best sex I've ever had.

Any of you single guys feel the same or are you hoping for another relationship?

Yes.

I long ago gave up on relationships. ;)

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In my late 30s but am still keen to settle down and have kids.

I have gaps where I date and don't see escorts, and where I don't date and do indulge. But I can see that the more I indulge in this hobby the less likely it is that I will meet that special someone. Perhaps I need to channel the dedication, resources and energy that I do in escorting to finding the life partner I crave?

But the 80 or so escorts I have met - in addition to being part of this amazing secret wider escorting community - has taught me so much I would see a bit of a void if it was no longer part of my life.

Sorry, a bit serious there :-)

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im 30s and signle, have had quite a few girlfriends but in the end they have all turned out disastrously. given up on marriage etc now, and since i dont make any effort to attract women whatsoever any more, its unlikely i will ;)

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I'm in my thirties and single. I've had long term relationships in the past. Now that I've discovered punting I don't imagine that I'll get involved in another relationship, I can't really see the need. I live with mates, have an active social life, busy work life, have lots of fun and get the best sex I've ever had.

Any of you single guys feel the same or are you hoping for another relationship?

I am middle aged at 45 and punt for sex and variety but love being in love with a partner, having a child together and all that jazz. Punted since i was 19 throughout all my relationships and am a selfish fucker who puts myself first, never feeling guilty. My aim is to shag as many WGs as possible because its my favourite pursuit.

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In my forties, married with kids.

Punt for non-wife activities and the variety.

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I'm in my mid-thirties, I've had a few relationships but the majority of my life I've been single, which is quite frustrating. I definitely hope to find someone and settle down and never punt again, but doing so is easier said than done.

I find most of my friends are at the "Getting Married / Having A Child" stage, so when we do go out it tends to be somewhere quiet, where it's unlikely I'll meet anyone, I only know one other person in their mid-thirties with a zest for life anymore! ;) Oh, hang on, that probably should be a ;)

Still, online dating sites have helped, and will hopefully lead somewhere in the future.

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I am middle aged at 45 and punt for sex and variety but love being in love with a partner, having a child together and all that jazz. Punted since i was 19 throughout all my relationships and am a selfish fucker who puts myself first, never feeling guilty. My aim is to shag as many WGs as possible because its my favourite pursuit.

Goodness me, Smiths, so I'm not the only one then. Just add another 12years or so and that's me you're talking about.

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I didn't want to say "young guys" as I don't think I'm "young" ;) I was thinking those old enough to have had some long term relationships but young enough to potentially have some more.

Although technically (according to some random Google search I did) life expectancy in the UK in 2008 was 79.9 making "middle age" 39.95 years, so in the thirties, just ;)

Sorry mate. But you are not middle aged. TBH, at 45, I do not even classify Smiths as middle aged. I am 50 and therefore I am middle aged. I have been married but am now single so meet your demographic.

I have a professional career which poses considerable ethical constraints on meeting women and I am not a barfly. So like some others on this thread, I have low expectations of meeting a suitable woman for a relationship. This is one of the reasons why I punt from time to time when I visit the UK.

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Wrong word

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I'm in my thirties and single. I've had long term relationships in the past. Now that I've discovered punting I don't imagine that I'll get involved in another relationship, I can't really see the need. I live with mates, have an active social life, busy work life, have lots of fun and get the best sex I've ever had.

Any of you single guys feel the same or are you hoping for another relationship?

I'm about twenty years older than you, but I pretty much feel the same as you do. Been married, got grown up kids, been single for quite a while now and enjoying punting far too much to want to stop.

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im 24 yrs old started this when i was 20 , never had a gf before probably never will im not really experienced enough with females socially and im not bothered , you dont miss what you've never had . I enjoy punting as ive been with so many different fit girls and had some fantastic sexual experiences . Its given me more confidence each time i see a new wg but hasnt changed much outside of punting

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I'm well into my 50s and single. I never used to like being on my own and in my younger days - up to my early 40s - went from relationship to relationship which often ended in tears but another somehow fell into my lap soon after.

I started punting while licking my wounds after one such event which provided the perfect antidote for the heartache. Since my punting became more regular, relationships stopped falling into my lap and I've never been any good at making the first move. To be honest I've been far more content with life.

I've been luckier so far with punting than love having met many ladies who went the extra yard and made me feel far more special than any of my partners ever did.

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I have met some single guys in the short time I have been working and I have huge respect for the fact that they are preferring to use wgs than have one night stands. One night stands are great if both parties are fully aware that is what it is, but they can lead to problems and are often done while drunk. Sex is so much more fun when sober, as then you remember every thing you see, feel and hear so much more clearly.

Having said that, I have been surprised by how much I have enjoyed the company of men who are in relationships too. I prefer not to know anything about that side of their lives if I can help it, but often they are very attentive, caring and enjoy my company as much as anything and I enjoy giving them some tlc, hoping that it helps them in their day to day life at home with the family as well as filling a gap sexually.

Maybe I'm just romantising my role? It makes me feel better to think I am doing more good than harm though.

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I'm in my thirties and single. I've had long term relationships in the past. Now that I've discovered punting I don't imagine that I'll get involved in another relationship, I can't really see the need. I live with mates, have an active social life, busy work life, have lots of fun and get the best sex I've ever had.

Any of you single guys feel the same or are you hoping for another relationship?

I'm in my 40's and I have no intention of entering another relationship as it doesn't suit me. Many guys I know who have come out of a relationship (kids or not) tend to get stuck back into another one soon after.

Given my age, in the real world most of the women I meet have kids and I'm not interested in a relationship with them and dealing with their kids. I have my own who I see when I can and I don't want anything in the way which will prevent that.

However, like you, I'm a man and I need sex and using WGs works perfectly for me.

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Middle aged - Yes, 40's

Single - Yes

Punting - Yes

I have been punting on and off for nearly twenty years. I have had a few relationships but not really comfortable with sharing my whole life with someone. Quite happy living on my own.

Punting suits me perfectly. Sometimes I desire a blonde, sometimes a brunette, sometimes a size 8, sometimes a size 12, sometimes tall, sometimes petite etc etc.

A relationship doesn't give me this. Also I punt when I want to, so can feed my desires as and when needed and I choose to do it when in the mood.

In my experience most ladies really make the effort with thier presentation for our meeting as do I. It means I can have a relaxing appointment where we are both at our best and both leave the rest of our lives outside the room.

For me I can't see any positives in me having a relatonship. This is my point of view and I understand other people will feel differently about relationships, but it's my life and I quite enjoy it.

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39 and single here. Basically can't be bothered with the mind games involved in dating so just punt every now and again to keep the singleton demons away.

If someone comes along in the meantime and we hook up then I will punt no more but am not really actively chasing.

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i 40 single and started punting late 20s i would go into a relationship if happened but u do have a point when you start using wgs u take a way the need for a relationship just too get sex[regular or not and u still pay 4 it i feel just in diff ways],so yes i am very picky unlike some of my mates who r in relationships just 4 the sake of it!:)

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I'm early 40 and never ever been in a relationship. (Though almost fell into the trap once!) I guess I'm immature and when younger mojo drive so high it was impossible to talk to women. Though back in the 90's every attractive woman was married and wanted nothing to do with me.(being Asian and short)

Now my drive as fallen off and now more aloof. Now more females of Indian Subcontinent extraction who I could pull but zero in common. (for eg I'm into thrash metal. They think every odd Asian guy is a gangster.)

However punting has given me unrealistic expectations and now can control the drive mentally.

On the otherhand I enjoy flirting now because I'm not on the pull. Its now more fun to tease and seek out 'Madame'.:)

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I'm 31 and single, have lots of mates and a good social life. I like punting for the variety and the simplicity but I am definitely hoping to meet my perfect woman by the time I'm 35. If I do I will give up punting without any hesitation.

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I'm early 40s been punting on and off since before t'internet. Would be happy to have a relationship but know that the quality, variety and excitement of sex would be far less than what this hobby of ours provides...

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In my forties, married with kids.

Punt for non-wife activities and the variety.

Basically me in a nutshell. Turned 40 a fortnight ago, kids n' missus loved it!

Punting is only for things the missus won't do (which is everything apart from Mish, and about bi-monthy at that)

Not too much guilt factor - aside from cost. Thought a number of times this will be last time, but have a feeling it won't stop till it drops off or she finds out...

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Mid 30's.

Several failed relationships. I would love to meet the 'one' but as you grow older I think you come to accept that is less, and less likely to occur.

I might have to take some of the advice I keep getting: 'join a club', do a 'course at night school'.

WG's etc are all about the sex, and shall remain so for myself. However we should never give up on the real thing!. Stay positive guys, think of all that extra cash you'd have!.

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Mid 50's

Been through one divorce, financially couldn't risk another. Punting is a far cheaper option than a permanent partner. Call it a PAYG girlfriend if you like !

I'm happy being single and have no desire to even look for anything permanent.

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