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I am very curious how many people think that if they pay for a service

they can treat everybody like a slave and behave like the master.

There are so many examples in this forum for this behavior.

Smoking with a non-smoker, not to shower on request, etc etc...

The list is endless. There are always 2 fractions the one who says

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I am very curious how many people think that if they pay for a service

they can treat everybody like a slave and behave like the master.

There are so many examples in this forum for this behavior.

Smoking with a non-smoker, not to shower on request, etc etc...

The list is endless. There are always 2 fractions the one who says

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You have some points about attitudes to WGs but paint an unnecessarily dim picture of dating. The stereotype of a man acting so subserviently in the hope of getting laid is promoted by a lot of mainstream American movies. From my experience, the European way is less so. I'm more likely to date a woman if she is interesting and not ugly. If she wants me to do girlie things with her before we've even been between the sheets, she's portraying herself in a way I find less interesting and would probably let her go rather than pursue her. Once in a relationship, I'm more inclined to go shopping with her (especially as I find fashion interesting and used to do a tiny bit of fashion photography years ago). I can even chill out to a romcom with someone I'm sexually and romantically involved with; that's very different from using it as a mating game ritual. And many of the longer relationships I've had, the chemistry has been strong enough that we hit the sack at the first opportunity, maybe after drinks or dinner at my place. Your depiction of non-WGs as manipulative is demeaning to women generally in my opinion. Especially real women who take a pride in themselves as individuals and of course equal to any man.

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I am very curious how many people think that if they pay for a service

they can treat everybody like a slave and behave like the master.

There are so many examples in this forum for this behavior.

Smoking with a non-smoker, not to shower on request, etc etc...

The list is endless. There are always 2 fractions the one who says

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Alternatively, could it be actually disrespectful to treat a lady to dinner, flowers, chocs and good manners purely because you want to bonk her? So, when you DON'T want to bonk her any more, you'll stop all that?

Oh.

Sounds like a lot of marriages :eek:

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Alternatively, could it be actually disrespectful to treat a lady to dinner, flowers, chocs and good manners purely because you want to bonk her? So, when you DON'T want to bonk her any more, you'll stop all that?

Oh.

Sounds like a lot of marriages :eek:

Then you end up back to the old 'wives withholding sex' problem that men never seem to understand :)

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Alternatively, could it be actually disrespectful to treat a lady to dinner, flowers, chocs and good manners purely because you want to bonk her? So, when you DON'T want to bonk her any more, you'll stop all that?

Oh.

Sounds like a lot of marriages :eek:

Are you the Manga Correspondent for the Sun?? (OP I mean) as your headline is a draw in but the thread is pretty pointless.

Only a very few people (who I shall not insult by referring to them as inhabitants of a large mediterranean island) actually treat any lady, let alone a working girl, as a lump of meat of a servant. Most reasonable people, and I class a lot of Punternet male posters as such, treat ladies with respect at all times.

Yes, paying for sex saves some time and tends to also guarantee a good conclusion but that's where the money changes the dynamics, it is still to human beings relating to eachother.

Claire - I do like your meek side - it so suits you (LOL)

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Especially real women who take a pride in themselves as individuals and of course equal to any man.

Please explain to me what a real woman is, i have pondered on your statement and for the life of me i cant work out what one is.x

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Please explain to me what a real woman is, i have pondered on your statement and for the life of me i cant work out what one is.x

Areal woman has long red hair and is not afraid to speak out for herself . :eek:

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Always treat everyone with respect.

If I go to do some building work for someone in their home, I expect to be treated with respect, maybe get a cup of tea and chat too.

I treat escorts the same way. They are doing their job for the going price and they are humans, not slaves.

I've met plenty of people who do not behave this way; I've been treated like a work horse who should just do his job and f-off, but they are rare.

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Now when we come to our WGs we have the choice to say

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No, you see Otaku, if you show respect to a lady you date you are a gentleman, whereas if you show respect to an escort you are obviously a contemptible fluffy. :mad:

Shouldn't respect be afforded to everybody though, right from the cleaner up to the Mayor. By highlighting that there is a need for respect and that you feel the need to say that you are showing respect doesn't it stereotype WG in the first place?

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Shouldn't respect be afforded to everybody though, right from the cleaner up to the Mayor. By highlighting that there is a need for respect and that you feel the need to say that you are showing respect doesn't it stereotype WG in the first place?

I entirely agree.

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I am very curious how many people think that if they pay for a service

they can treat everybody like a slave and behave like the master.

There are so many examples in this forum for this behavior.

Smoking with a non-smoker, not to shower on request, etc etc...

The list is endless. There are always 2 fractions the one who says

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I treat all ladies, WG or not with the respect i believe they deserve. I dont compare a relationship with punting though because they are two completely different things IMO. Usually but not always sex is not free one way or the other in my experience.

Absolutely true, ask Paul McCartney. :mad::D

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I respect WGs

however I expect the service advertised

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Its like those famous quotes from racists from the 60's "I can't be a racist, some of my best friends are Jewish!" ;)

Methinks there is a lot too much protestation of being a respectful punter going on. ;)

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