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What is your type?

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I apologies if this has done before, I did put some keywords into the search, but couldn't find anything.

I was talking to a friend recently, who believed that as she was in her 40s and a BBW, she was not going to get any or much work escorting. She had spoken to someone in the chat room and they had told her that they had no wish to punt with women their own age, who they could pull in a bar; when they can get a much younger, fitter, beautiful girl for their money. Where I agree that some men will be thinking in this way, I tried to reason with her that no two men are the same and everyone has their 'type' and she would be someones.

So, my question is. Do you have a type and what is it? Do you like various types or even what do you consider to be value for money? A beautiful young woman or a lady who is more skilled, or both? Or something entirely different? You might even have a type depending on your mood?

I would do a poll, but I don't now how to :mad:

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I find the underlying question interesting - whether she would get work. It's a logical error IMHO to then make it dependent on what most men - and in our small sample we have on here - will declare as their 'type.' If a woman is 19 and has the body of a porn star, she'll pick up some temporary work even if she is a moron devoid of any niceties. Bt the main thing that distinguishes a successful escort is not looks or age but having a reasonable head for business. It's about marketing a service, not picking up chaps in the local pub. There are successful escorts much much older.

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I find the underlying question interesting - whether she would get work. It's a logical error IMHO to then make it dependent on what most men - and in our small sample we have on here - will declare as their 'type.' If a woman is 19 and has the body of a porn star, she'll pick up some temporary work even if she is a moron devoid of any niceties. Bt the main thing that distinguishes a successful escort is not looks or age but having a reasonable head for business. It's about marketing a service, not picking up chaps in the local pub. There are successful escorts much much older.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

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I apologies if this has done before, I did put some keywords into the search, but couldn't find anything.

I was talking to a friend recently, who believed that as she was in her 40s and a BBW, she was not going to get any or much work escorting. She had spoken to someone in the chat room and they had told her that they had no wish to punt with women their own age, who they could pull in a bar; when they can get a much younger, fitter, beautiful girl for their money. Where I agree that some men will be thinking in this way, I tried to reason with her that no two men are the same and everyone has their 'type' and she would be someones.

So, my question is. Do you have a type and what is it? Do you like various types or even what do you consider to be value for money? A beautiful young woman or a lady who is more skilled, or both? Or something entirely different? You might even have a type depending on your mood?

I would do a poll, but I don't now how to :mad:

Breathing, a pulse....

But seriously, I ogle a wide range of women on a daily basis, but when I'm punting there are specific things I look for:

Age: generally a more mature lady, mid-30s upwards,although, the market being what it is, I have seen quite a number of ladies in their 20s. Certainly no teens or early 20s though, far too young for me.

Build: I like a lady who has a bit of something to get hold of - say size 12 and upwards. I'm quite attracted to BBWs, but I've never been with a really big lady. I'm not overly attracted to barrage balloon boobs (i can get that at home) so anything from an A-cup upwards will attract me, the ladies whose main selling point is JJ cups don't. SIze 0 type girls make me shudder!

Hair: No preferences on length, I prefer darker ladies (black, brunette). Redheads are a bit of a fantasy for me although temperementally I find them a bit sary. (Having said that I saw a redhead a few weeks ago who was very sweet, laid back and gentle.)

Ethnicity: I prefer seeing caucasian ladies. Some Indian women are strikingly beautiful but, I don't know, I just don't see punting with them. I've seen a few Oriental ladies but they seem a little resereved for my taste. I rarely see ladies of Afro-Caribbean origin - I find 'white coffee' coloured skin attractive, but really dark skin just doesn't appeal to me. I generally avoid girls from Eastern Europe, Brazilians etc as I want to be assured that communication won't be an issue.

Face: I generally don't book with stunningly beautiful Miss World types, maybe due to a lack of self-assurance on my part. Looks to me are less important than personality - I wouldn't knowingly book someone whose face I found hideous(!), but I'm more likely than a lot of blokes on here to go with a girl who might conventionally be considered 'plain'. My ideal is the girl next door type, with not too much make-up and attractve, lively eyes.

Body hair: Hairy armpits don't appeal to me but I enjoy the more natural look, even if trimmed, down below. Being shaved doesn't stop me seeing a lady - that would limit my activities far too much! Matching collar and cuffs is always preferable, which (I guess) is more likely with a brunette than a blonde.

Personality: Not domineering and overly assertive in style, not "hey, I'm a loony, wild party girl", definitely not pee-loving 'cumsluts', and I don't want a PSE. A good profile matters to me - I like intelligence, a riounded personality, a suggestion of genuine empathy, a warm, lively personality with a hint of a sense of humour.

Sorry but you did ask! :(

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So, my question is. Do you have a type and what is it?

I have found the ladies I visit are based more on attitude and personality than measurements and numbers, and you can tell alot from that first e-mail reply and even more from a phone-call. I have been with ladies sized 8-18 and its not their dress or bra size which determined if I had a good time or not. Warmth, sensuality and tenderness win over measurements and service lists every time. I spend alot of time kissing, really enjoy it and its an important part of a booking for me. But its tricky to find this out short of asking outright upfront. So I guess thats the most important thing of being "my type". Being with a good/great kisser rarely has any connection to thier bust size or hair colour.

Physically, I have a weakness for long wavy hair, a nice smile and an impressive cleavage, so get drawn in that direction and feel more comfortable with ladies in the 30-45 age bracket. I really have a thing for red-heads, but find them so few and far between /sigh. Other than looking for a good kisser, I tend to keep my criteria fairly flexible as I wouldnt want to rule out a fantastic lady due to any silly self imposed restrictions like being a cup size or dress size outside my preferences.

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Its not so much what you look like, if you can laugh and chat you do well, I look after a couple of girls early 20's well fit, leggy, nice bums but it appears that more and more punters want to see the maid, 45, size 14.........its because she has the gift of the chat, personality call it what you want, a real talented lady.

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when i first started punting it was exclusively with young leggy blondes,then it became blondes in general,now it is usually ladies in the early 20 's to late 40's age range and blondes,brunettes or redheads,to get a repeat visit they need to have more than just the looks and body:)

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I have seen all sorts of types working and doing well everything from the grossly overweight to when I was in Amsterdam years ago there was one who was reputed to be the oldest in the world and I think she was certainly in her 70's if not 80's at the time and very busy for it. More about how you market yourself in the end.

Last night in my local Bordello in the bar there was the range from 19-50 and a mixture of sizes all seemed to be doing OK.

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Attractive facially with a good body (shapely hips, nice ass, etc) and nice coloured eyes (ie., green, blue, etc) contrasted by dark hair like black or brunette. Ideally I like girl whose dress size is around 8 - 10, but I have been tempted by BBW's from sizes 16 - 18+.

Being relatively young myself I prefer girls within the 20 - 30 age range though I can appreciate a slightly more mature woman. I'm not a fan of the pornstar look (or experience for that matter) big fake boobs, stick figure, tons of make-up and etc, I much prefer a more natural and healthy looking girl with something of a girl-next-door o quality to her.

I have a thing for girls with somewhat big noses although of course the nose has to go with the face and be attached to a good looking girl.

Ethnicity wise I generally have a preference for Caucasian girls especially Eastern European (Polish, Russian, etc).

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I may go once with a WG because she is beautiful. If I go back again it is because she is also interesting and attractive as a person.

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I've been all different sizes from a size 10 to 18, all different hair colours, blonde, red, brunette,black and of course different ages from teens, 20's & 30's and never had a problem getting clients. Like most of the gents here have already said attitude and personality are very important and if she hopes to have regular clients (some girls like regs and others don't) then building a rapport is key.

As for marketing well some ladies like to put BBW, MILF, GILF, GFE, PSE that has never appealed to me, I just plod along doing my own thing and don't put myself in one particular box.

Maybe tell your friend to have a look at some ladies sites that are similar to her age/size etc and see which style suits her and how she would like to be portrayed and what type of clients she hopes to attract.

xx

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Do you have a type and what is it?

Yes, big tits.

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I've been all different sizes from a size 10 to 18, all different hair colours, blonde, red, brunette,black and of course different ages from teens, 20's & 30's and never had a problem getting clients. Like most of the gents here have already said attitude and personality are very important and if she hopes to have regular clients (some girls like regs and others don't) then building a rapport is key.

As for marketing well some ladies like to put BBW, MILF, GILF, GFE, PSE that has never appealed to me, I just plod along doing my own thing and don't put myself in one particular box.

Maybe tell your friend to have a look at some ladies sites that are similar to her age/size etc and see which style suits her and how she would like to be portrayed and what type of clients she hopes to attract.

xx

You mean you're not a BBW PSE CIM HS/WS SFBM CCS GILF CD? How disappointing. :mad::(

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You mean you're not a BBW PSE CIM HS/WS SFBM CCS GILF CD? How disappointing. :mad::(

No I'm more B&Q, M&S, RAC with a little HMV thrown in for good measure.

Some people are just sooooo picky! :D

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Wow, how fascinating!!!! I have really enjoyed reading your replies and I do hope there are many more as it makes very interesting reading from both punters and wgs.

I think in my friends case, she has very low self esteem at the moment and needs to work on that first. You have proven my theory beyond doubt that it is more about the person than the 'image', which can easily be asserted in a good profile.

I think Dawn French is a great example of how someone who is not stick thin and 18 oozes sex appeal and confidence. Of course you have to make an effort with your presentation, but love who you are and others will love you too! :mad:

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I think Dawn French is a great example of how someone who is not stick thin and 18 oozes sex appeal and confidence.

Absolutely. I think Dawn, Katy Brand and Elaine C Smith are all very sexy, and none of them are exactly size 0 types.

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I've been all different sizes from a size 10 to 18, all different hair colours, blonde, red, brunette,black and of course different ages from teens, 20's & 30's and never had a problem getting clients. Like most of the gents here have already said attitude and personality are very important and if she hopes to have regular clients (some girls like regs and others don't) then building a rapport is key.

As for marketing well some ladies like to put BBW, MILF, GILF, GFE, PSE that has never appealed to me, I just plod along doing my own thing and don't put myself in one particular box.

Maybe tell your friend to have a look at some ladies sites that are similar to her age/size etc and see which style suits her and how she would like to be portrayed and what type of clients she hopes to attract.

xx

Charlotte, can I just say that you are a good looking women. All power to you.

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Breathing, a pulse....

But seriously, I ogle a wide range of women on a daily basis, but when I'm punting there are specific things I look for:

Age: ....

Build: ....

Hair: ...

Ethnicity: ...

Face: ....

Body hair: ....

Personality: .....

Sorry but you did ask! :D

Do we have to be that specific? :mad: Well I've always been a sucker for a pretty face.

When I started I only went for stunning young white thin leggy platinum blondes with gorgous face and bright eyes and DD chest who were (hopefully) warm, friendly and fun.

Now I tend to see who I feel like seeing but look back I have tended to go for certain types:

Age: Usually younger than me (30) but tend to go for about 23-26 years old. I have seen one woman older than me and two or three younger than 22.

Build: Tended to be size 10. A couple of size 8 / 6, one or two size 12s, never been with 14 or higher. Usually gone for C to DD chest but have seen girls with smaller dont think Ive seen many with bigger than E chest.

Hair: Usually blonde or brunette. Dont think Ive ever been with a red head. Not sure why just havent. No Grey hairs or bald girls. Usually long straight hair.

Ethnicity: Doesnt really bother me. but usually been white english. Have been with one Thai, two indians, and mixed race but Ive never seen an afro carabean girl. Seen european, EE, south american . But to be honest apart from the communication or the odd accent I wouldnt notice much difference.

Face: Yes theyve all had a face. I always go for stunning miss world types. :( Usually gone for bright blue/green eyes but most girls dont advertise their eye colour. And usually cant tell behind the blurred face.

Body hair: Not really bothered. As long as they havent got a hairy chest. But down below most girls seem to wax the whole lot off and get paranoid when they have got even the slightest hair popping out. Wouldnt mind a neat little runway strip thou.

Personality: Warm, friendly, fun, relaxing, and easy to talk too. Been one who didnt want to talk about anything and responded to everything with a yes/no/ <shrug> which was horrible. Been the odd one of the "Im fit, and god dont I know it" which is just annoying.

So taking all the above into consideration my type is stunning young white thin leggy platinum blondes with gorgous face and bright eyes and C/DD chest whose warm fun and friendly. Oh nothing changes then.... :o

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I think in my friends case, she has very low self esteem at the moment and needs to work on that first.

Have you considered telling your friend to go on a diet, sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. :mad:;)

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I'm not overly attracted to barrage balloon boobs (i can get that at home) so anything from an A-cup upwards will attract me, the ladies whose main selling point is JJ cups don't. :mad:

Tony, am intrigued as to why you found it necessary to take Bald plumber to task on another thread and yet find it acceptable to post this, which those of us who are well endowed in the chest department could find incredibly offensive if we were that way inclined?!

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Tony, am intrigued as to why you found it necessary to take Bald plumber to task on another thread and yet find it acceptable to post this, which those of us who are well endowed in the chest department could find incredibly offensive if we were that way inclined?!

I certainly didn't intend it as an offensive term, simply as easily referenced imagery, and I am happy to apologise to any lady who does choose to take offence at it. My reference is also far less specific, relating as it does to the whole of womankind, than the previous post to which you refer, which, it was indicated, applied to someone who is a regular poster on here.

I have seen WGs refer to their oiwn busts as barrage balloons, and I do not in any way regard one size of chest or another as a 'bad' thing, or a reason for criticism of a lady.

Besides, I would imagine that barrage balloons, intended as they were to protect cities from aerial bombing during the war, were regarded quite positively! :mad:

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I apologies if this has done before, I did put some keywords into the search, but couldn't find anything.

I was talking to a friend recently, who believed that as she was in her 40s and a BBW, she was not going to get any or much work escorting. She had spoken to someone in the chat room and they had told her that they had no wish to punt with women their own age, who they could pull in a bar; when they can get a much younger, fitter, beautiful girl for their money. Where I agree that some men will be thinking in this way, I tried to reason with her that no two men are the same and everyone has their 'type' and she would be someones.

So, my question is. Do you have a type and what is it? Do you like various types or even what do you consider to be value for money? A beautiful young woman or a lady who is more skilled, or both? Or something entirely different? You might even have a type depending on your mood?

I would do a poll, but I don't now how to :mad:

Hi Kate,

Tell your friend that she has nothing to worry about. Prostitution in Britain is a vast market and there is room for any woman of any shape, age and form.

There are a lot of men who like BBWs and even super-sized BBWs get clients. You can talk to the BBWs on here about it.

As for age, there are three main websites: Judy's, Secret Boudoir and Vintage Vamps, who have call girls on their books who are in their 60s, 70s and 80s- and those gilfs get booked by young men.

What is important is not age or looks but attitude; whether she builds up a large regular client base will depend on her ability to put a man at ease, make him believe that he is the most important man in her life, for the time he's paid for at least and if he leaves with a smile on his face then she knows she's succeeded.

As for me, I like tall, blonde, slim milfs in their 30s and 40s and I'm always on the look out for more - so if you know any, send them my way !

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I suppose my type is principally about personality. Just someone who is a good laugh really and fun to spend time with.

Obviously there is the physical side. My ideal would be blonde, big tits, not too slim but not chubby, quite tall... but that's a secondary concern.

Your BBW mate would get business I'm sure.

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I find that whatever rules or marked preferences I think I have can be proved not to be true in an instant.

I don't like silicone - but there are couple I cheerfully book over and over

I don't like BBWs - but there are couple, who might fit that description, I eagerly book over and over.

I am dubious about under 23s - But I've had brilliant times with some 18s & 19s.

One thing that has been constant, is that I would never book a face or a body solely on account of the physical appearance.

I want sexual knowledge and competence, someone who will subject this old bod to deliciously wicked sensations and also give every appearance of enjoying my explorations of themselves.

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The best thing about this punting lark is that you don't need "a type". I punt for variety and will continue to do so.

I guess it's interesting though that the two ladies I would describe as my regulars are both over 35 (but apart from that are quite different in body shape and looks). I'll go back and see them time and time again because I enjoy their company as much as I do the sex.

It doesn't stop me looking for that next "spice of life" encounter inbetween times though :mad:.

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