brummyboy2008

Tip or Gift?

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Saw one of my regular girls this week, her fee for an hour is a very reasonable £100. I always give her £120. I took her chocs and a bottle of wine, costing another £20.

Ladies, which would you prefer, the gift or the extra cash?

My problem is I don't like to turn up empty handed; if I gave her the extra cash I'd probably still take a gift.

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Paying her over her agreed fee is not a good idea, she may think she is undercharging and will eventually increase her rates which will affect all her other punters. :mad:

Personally I sometimes take a bottle of wine to one of my regulars, it is the thought that counts. :(

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Little gifts that the client has thought about mean alot and are preferable to money. They dont have to cost alot either

One of mine always brings me my favourite solid bubble bath from lush while another brings me things to do with discworld, i.e he downloaded the cartoon series for me (terry pratchett my fav author).

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Hi.

If its an overnight booking, or some of more than a few hours, i do think its a good idea if you know the lady to take something she will appreciate, but the best way to thank someone, I think is to tell others who would like to know.

A small gift here and there will be just that, but a good review, might bring in extra work for the escort, and a great time for someone who might have gone elsewhere.

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Saw one of my regular girls this week, her fee for an hour is a very reasonable £100. I always give her £120. I took her chocs and a bottle of wine, costing another £20.

Ladies, which would you prefer, the gift or the extra cash?

My problem is I don't like to turn up empty handed; if I gave her the extra cash I'd probably still take a gift.

I bring myself and with a regular i on occassion bring a gift, never for a newbie to me, i have tipped a number of times for going above and beyond making the punt absolutely fantastic.

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Definitely gifts! It's such a sweet kind thing to do and shows you care. I salute all men that do that, unfortunately i've not met any :-( Booo. Fellas of the north east buck your ideas up! he he

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:mad: I would also say gifts as these need thought and they also don't need to be expensive....:(

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Paying her over her agreed fee is not a good idea, she may think she is undercharging and will eventually increase her rates which will affect all her other punters. :mad:

Personally I sometimes take a bottle of wine to one of my regulars, it is the thought that counts. :(

I pay over the agreed fee for any girl I like enough the first time to visit again.

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I usually take a small gift, bottle of wine, chocs, whatever, but nothing extravagant. I'm always slightly gobsmacked when I see a WG say how some punter once gave her an item of jewellery worth several grand or similar. It makes it a bit easier if the lady indicates in her profile the sort of gifts she likes, but not so much if it's jewellery (which isn't worth turning up with unless it's expensive), or a bottle of perfume that costs £60 or something.

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A bottle of wine or choccies; or both, maybe flowers.

I don't generally tip. I'd go with Jimmy on that, at least with Indies.

Mostly, the gifts I take are drunk, eaten or admired during the meeting so it's a kind of mutual thing.

Buying expensive jewelry and such is a no no. That, to me, is all about control and saying to the girl that you can buy anything you want.............including her.

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Definitely gifts! It's such a sweet kind thing to do and shows you care. I salute all men that do that, unfortunately i've not met any :-( Booo. Fellas of the north east buck your ideas up! he he

Kirsty.

If we ever meet up, your on a coffee and cheese butty, oh go on make it a cheese baquette just because your worth it!.

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Little gifts that the client has thought about mean alot and are preferable to money. They dont have to cost alot either

One of mine always brings me my favourite solid bubble bath from lush while another brings me things to do with discworld, i.e he downloaded the cartoon series for me (terry pratchett my fav author).

Complete tangent... but agree Terry Prachett is a wonderful writer, some one who for my money ought to win literary prizes... but the people who decide these things seem to have a complete bias against fantasy, science fiction, crime... really against any genre other than mainstream fiction.

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Complete tangent... but agree Terry Prachett is a wonderful writer, some one who for my money ought to win literary prizes... but the people who decide these things seem to have a complete bias against fantasy, science fiction, crime... really against any genre other than mainstream fiction.

What the ****'* this got to do with my thread?

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What the ****'* this got to do with my thread?

Well, erm, Terry Pratchett is a very GIFTED writer and, um, as all his readers know, A Wizard's Staff Has A Knob On The TIP. ;);)

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Tip always - and at the start

Assuming its a WG who will respond by means of the extra £20 to participate in something 'extra'

seems to work on orientals who generally are more 'fleible' once incentivized.......

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Ladies, which would you prefer, the gift or the extra cash?

Not all girls are obsessed with gifts and cash. I’m sure many girls would rather have a sincere “Thank you” at the end of a punt.

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Not all girls are obsessed with gifts and cash. I'm sure many girls would rather have a sincere "Thank you" at the end of a punt.

Rather than a metallic silver Mercedez SL 500 ;)

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I don't expect either but quite a few have brought me chocolate and one person was extremeley thoughtful and bought me a toy Aston Martin (My dream car!) and chocolate! I am always very touched when someone brings a gift because it shows they have taken the time to read my website, but its never expected.

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Paying her over her agreed fee is not a good idea, she may think she is undercharging and will eventually increase her rates which will affect all her other punters. ;)

Personally I sometimes take a bottle of wine to one of my regulars, it is the thought that counts. ;)

Ah - the last of the big spenders!!......

But I do agree with you. I've never tipped a lady or paid her more than the agreed price but with one exception. Some years ago I saw someone regularly - some 24 times over more than 2 years - and our meetings always ran over, and not by minutes, but hours sometimes. She never altered her price or asked for more but on our 23rd meeting I insisted on upping her fee - by an extra £50 as I recall - and after our 24th meeting she announced her retirement!!

As to gifts, I certainly wouldn't contemplate giving one unless I knew the lady pretty well when I have given the occasional bunch of flowers or box of chocolates, or the odd Xmas present. Wine or champagne, however, I don't see as a gift as it is something I expect us to share during the event.

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Wine or champagne, however, I don’t see as a gift as it is something I expect us to share during the event.

Don't you hate it when you take along a decent Cabernet Sauvignon and she sticks it in the cupboard and brings out a Ros

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Don't you hate it when you take along a decent Cabernet Sauvignon and she sticks it in the cupboard and brings out a Ros

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You may jest, but I have had her do just that - or, at least, she'd already opened a bottle and it seemed churlish to refuse!

Ahh, the old "I've opened a bottle already" routine. It's a difficult one to counter without allowing her the opportunity to feign offence. You could say the wine is corked - but the chances are it has a screw top. I once said I was allergic to Chardonnay. She thought I was referring to her daughter!

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I've only twice given a money tip as I prefer to take a small gift to girls I've seen several times.

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Ahh, the old "I've opened a bottle already" routine. It's a difficult one to counter without allowing her the opportunity to feign offence. You could say the wine is corked - but the chances are it has a screw top. I once said I was allergic to Chardonnay. She thought I was referring to her daughter!
I did ask a lady if she liked pinot noir, but she thought I was asking for water sports!

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