lou4fun

Making bookings for pleasure

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Of late I am receiving more and more bookings that cancel just before the appointment. I am use to my share of time wasters but these seem to get their jollies from making the booking. It would be quite laughable listening to their reasons of canceling except for the loss of income. Could this be part of the buzz, a form of power tripping. Surely they all cant be giggling schoolboys daring each other to call the local whore. Some weeks I go without a single time waster or cancellation so I guess it might be my turn.

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Lou, It must be the heat that is getting to them, turning them into little prankster school boys.

Be thankful they are just no show timewasters, and not walkers. I can cope with no shows, they to me are just stupid timewasters. Its the walkers that i find hard to mentally deal with, and I've only ever had one, I couldn;t cope with loads of them.

I did hear of a serial walker last year. He kept making appointments, turning up, girl answers door and then he would leave without saying a word. Did it to a lot of girls I heard. Doubt he ever did a booking, just got his kicks from walking.

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It sends shivers down my spine when l get a walker. l wonder if they are up to anything sinister.

l have started to have selected days where l dont do an appointment system at all. l explain this to the clients when they call. My takings on those days are considerably higher.

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Lou, It must be the heat that is getting to them, turning them into little prankster school boys.

Be thankful they are just no show timewasters, and not walkers. I can cope with no shows, they to me are just stupid timewasters. Its the walkers that i find hard to mentally deal with, and I've only ever had one, I couldn;t cope with loads of them.

I did hear of a serial walker last year. He kept making appointments, turning up, girl answers door and then he would leave without saying a word. Did it to a lot of girls I heard. Doubt he ever did a booking, just got his kicks from walking.

That's a strange one, I get my share of timewasters myself but don't give out the apartment number until clients get there.

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That's a strange one, I get my share of timewasters myself but don't give out the apartment number until clients get there.

most girls do that hon, but it doesnt stop the walkers/timewasters unfortunately

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Of late I am receiving more and more bookings that cancel just before the appointment. I am use to my share of time wasters but these seem to get their jollies from making the booking. It would be quite laughable listening to their reasons of canceling except for the loss of income. Could this be part of the buzz, a form of power tripping. Surely they all cant be giggling schoolboys daring each other to call the local whore. Some weeks I go without a single time waster or cancellation so I guess it might be my turn.

Probably the same dickhead, can you recall knocking back someone recently who gave the impression that they may possibly become a potential twat? ;)

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The most annoying thing about these idiots is when you turn away potentially genuine clients.

That is why on the odd occasion l just say to the callers l am not doing the appointment system today. Just call when you turn up then you will possibly be seen straight away or l will give you an estimated wait time.

Another tip is l give the gents who say they will come a different number that they have to call when they arrive so as to cause minimum disruption to a client l already have in. lt means l wont be answering lots calls while client in, just the special one that will only ring if a client is outside. l turn main phone off during the service.

Most of the time it works well .Sometimes the men have a wait. Sadly there is a risk of arriving and finding the wait too long.(Hasn't happened often) But they are made aware of this risk when they call. lf it is a regular who calls l will reserve them a slot but warn them that one of my phones will be on.

The difference in income on those days is really high.

The other thing is, the extra sim only costs a pound so l bin it at the end of the day.

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Other local ladies could possibly be getting friends or pimps to make fake bookings. l am pleased to say l never have had the time or the interest to look on line at other ladies in my area.

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Of late I am receiving more and more bookings that cancel just before the appointment. I am use to my share of time wasters but these seem to get their jollies from making the booking. It would be quite laughable listening to their reasons of canceling except for the loss of income. Could this be part of the buzz, a form of power tripping. Surely they all cant be giggling schoolboys daring each other to call the local whore. Some weeks I go without a single time waster or cancellation so I guess it might be my turn.

Strangely enough, I've had more than my fair share of timewasters this week. It started on Monday with a guy I've seen before cancelling and then I found out he was seeing one of my friends instead! He had booked us both on the Saturday for the same time on Monday then cancelled me on Sunday.

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Lou i feel awful for you. I have had the same thing a lot of the last few months.

Personally i do check who is showing as available on the same day as me in mk and coventry and i have noticed that there is a particular lady on in mk and cov when i get a lot of no shows, obviously i couldnt ever prove anything but i just bare it in mind when im working.

It comes down to several factors i think,

Lack of intelligence.... (lets face it they cant think of anything better to do and if they actually find this funny they must be highly immature to boot

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Lack of respect....(we are common whores remember)

Lack of money....(possibly they resent the fact that they would have to pay for it)

Lack of common sense ....(if you dont know how long the meeting will be, dont book yet)

Lack of insight ....(they honestly do think we sit around waiting for them and them alone all day)

I am prepared to believe that occasionally something may happen to stop a guy cancelling (his children or family having an accident) that would push contacting me to the bottom of the pile and understandably so too.

These would be rare though. If you are in a meeting with your boss, excuse yourself to the toilet and tx to cancel, if you are propping up the bar with your boss do the same, if you are stuck in a traffic jam, use your phone, its why the damned thing is called a mobile ffs. If you just dont feel like it or cant be bothered or you got to the cash point and your wife has withdrawn a few hundred quid to make cupcakes for a WI fete ...PHONE US AND CANCEL.

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I am prepared to believe that occasionally something may happen to stop a guy cancelling (his children or family having an accident) that would push contacting me to the bottom of the pile and understandably so too.

This happened to me recently. A new client booked, then changed his mind twice about the time of booking. I was ok with this both times

and was then waiting for his arrival. No show.

He emailed me a week later explaining he had a small car accident as he was coming to me. No one was hurt but car damage of course.

I have no way of knowing if this was true but told him I quite understood that he had a lot to deal with and of course

did not think to phone me there and then to cancel.

However, the fact that he waited a week to get in touch made me consider him a timewaster. I explained to him that had he been on his way

to an important business meeting or a family event etc, he would certainly not have

waited a week to inform those people why he had not shown up!

So I concluded that his view was.... oh it is only an escort meeting so it doesn't matter. I disagree of course, it matters to me!

;)

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It sends shivers down my spine when l get a walker. l wonder if they are up to anything sinister.

I always walk if I don't like the look of the goods, nothing sinister in that. ;)

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I always walk if I don't like the look of the goods, nothing sinister in that. ;)

I share your confusion here.;) I dont stay in case i appear sinister by leaving, i couldnt care less about that, if the WG had been honest i wouldnt be walking in most cases in the first place.

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I always walk if I don't like the look of the goods, nothing sinister in that. ;)

Thats fair enough if someone has mis advertised themselves. There are however a number of guys that simply get thier kicks out of booking and walking out. Its not about the girl, they never intended on receieving a service, its just a power thing that makes them feel superior. The fact that people like this then have the girls address can cause an understandable unease.

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Thats fair enough if someone has mis advertised themselves. There are however a number of guys that simply get thier kicks out of booking and walking out. Its not about the girl, they never intended on receieving a service, its just a power thing that makes them feel superior. The fact that people like this then have the girls address can cause an understandable unease.

I just dont like any guy having my addess unless they are a paying punter. Am glad it doesn't happen to me that often. But when it happens l wonder if they are a robber or a newspaper reporter.

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I had one very odd guy visit me at the old HOD. I walked in and he already had a smirk on his face. He asked me what services i provided (you mean you didnt bother asking before you booked me i thought) so i asked him nicely which services he enjoyed. He started flapping his arms around saying" no, no, im sorry but no, i shouldnt be here, i asked for , no no". What exactly did you ask for on the phone i asked ( i was worried someone had sold me as something i am not). Someone older he said???? Well i am mid thirties i said, no, no, this is all wrong im leaving now " he said. You know what darling, too right you are, there is the door and goodbye!!!

His issue seemed to be that i would not just reel off a list of services, he got very nervy when i asked him what he liked. It was almost like i was being set up or he though he was, very very wierd.x

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At least they cancel but I what I cant understand is they book on the phone then ring back 5 minutes later to cancel.

Years ago when I worked at HOD they wer 15 of us girls one Sunday and a gent came in and said after seeing about 12 of us said I think I'll leave it. I think these are the real timewasters. I'm happy if they ring up and cancel it is when they dont show and you have turned other work away on the strength of a booking.

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At least they cancel but I what I cant understand is they book on the phone then ring back 5 minutes later to cancel.

Years ago when I worked at HOD they wer 15 of us girls one Sunday and a gent came in and said after seeing about 12 of us said I think I'll leave it. I think these are the real timewasters. I'm happy if they ring up and cancel it is when they dont show and you have turned other work away on the strength of a booking.

If a guy cancels he cancels, im disappointed in the loss of a booking but not pissed off at the guy , at least he had the manners to cancel.

I remember those walk in days, 8 gorgeous glamorous girls go in one by one to say hello to a guy with a bad attitude, what does he always say to the receptionist....IS THAT ALL YOU GOT??? FFS

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Of late I am receiving more and more bookings that cancel just before the appointment. I am use to my share of time wasters but these seem to get their jollies from making the booking. It would be quite laughable listening to their reasons of canceling except for the loss of income. Could this be part of the buzz, a form of power tripping. Surely they all cant be giggling schoolboys daring each other to call the local whore. Some weeks I go without a single time waster or cancellation so I guess it might be my turn.

Lou, have you checked your stats to see if you have been listed anywhere new recently ? Every once in a while I get a change in pattern ie. more enquiries, twatty phonecallers, strange emails and often it's down to being listed somewhere new without me knowing.

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At least they cancel but I what I cant understand is they book on the phone then ring back 5 minutes later to cancel.

Years ago when I worked at HOD they wer 15 of us girls one Sunday and a gent came in and said after seeing about 12 of us said I think I'll leave it. I think these are the real timewasters. I'm happy if they ring up and cancel it is when they dont show and you have turned other work away on the strength of a booking.

Caparably, I went into Steam and Sun near Kings Cross Station and there were about 12 girls in and around the lounge to pick from. All but one were East European, and I did not fancy spending £80 for 30 minutes with any of them, whereas previously there had been 2 or 3 I would have booked with and had fun.

Sometimes a punter can be in a mood when he wants one particular type of lady, sometimes he is just looking for a reason to eliminate her from the short list, and sometime he is so desperate for a bonk he would shag a rabid dog.

I have walked a few times from Steam and Sun, but as you paid an entry fee for use of the facilities, the establishment are not missing out totally.

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I really do think that to make a booking and then do a no show is abysmal, and can see where the escorts are coming from in this case, but the thread does seem to be getting a few replies, and the more I read it, the more I think that someone should explain that real honest punters who book an escort, or book ahead into parlours, are not part an parcel of this thread, even though we are some of the ones that read it.

In over 20 years of Punting, I have had to cancel an appointment 3 times, and each time I have contacted the person and given what I know is the truth, where'as, I have been stood up a few times with the bill for the hotel still to be paid, and no reason why a no show, have travelled to parlours to keep an appointment and the lady does not show up for her work, have gone to parlours at the expected time and waited for over half an hour as the parlour accepted someone else's booking and assumed I would wait, and some parlours getting the booking all wrong.

But yes I do make bookings for pleasure, and like many others keep them, I then slate the lady who does a no show, and does not make any effort to explain why, but that does not stop me from making other bookings.

Also its not always the punters at fault, there has been known to many others, the scenario of other escorts in the area getting friends to make false bookings to a rival, and making their tours a bit of a wasted time.

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I just got a text from a guy calling himself Paul, saying he wanted to book me. Thankfully I still had his number in my phone from a previous time when he booked me twice (with one cancellation and one no show) and sent him one back saying, "Does that mean you're not James the timewaster any more?" Needless to say, he didn't text back :)

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I've had a few of these this last week or so. Extremely irritating - just book and then don't show up. :)

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I try only to do 1 incall a day and if I get a timewaster get very upset if I have turned a genuine guy who may have met me before out call in a hotel is better as try and chat to guy in room before I set off had a guy mess me around a few weeks ago sounded so genuine never called room as number he gave me was for the hotel bookings centre so trusted him a cab into manchester from my home 30pounds return went to Malmaison not in room mobile on answer phone asked at reception was guest in that room no guest that name or in that room ok not the end of the world but how weird is that guy we all get it but 99.9% of guys are genuine Annaxx

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I try only to do 1 incall a day and if I get a timewaster get very upset if I have turned a genuine guy who may have met me before out call in a hotel is better as try and chat to guy in room before I set off had a guy mess me around a few weeks ago sounded so genuine never called room as number he gave me was for the hotel bookings centre so trusted him a cab into manchester from my home 30pounds return went to Malmaison not in room mobile on answer phone asked at reception was guest in that room no guest that name or in that room ok not the end of the world but how weird is that guy we all get it but 99.9% of guys are genuine Annaxx

Please use punctuation Anna as no-one can make out what you are saying if it all appears as one big mass of text do you know what I mean thanks.

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