Lynn

Would you see me again?

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No not me! ;)

This is what some new clients say as they leave and have had

a smashing time. I always say "of course, I am happy to see you

any time!" or something similar... because most of the time it is

true.

However, as happened last week.... I was saying goodbye to a man

after our appointment and I knew without doubt that he would not

be welcome back. He asked if I would see him again and heard myself

replying yes. If he rings again I just won't answer the phone.

The reason was a rare one for me... he should have cleaned 2 things -

teeth and todger... before coming to his appointment!

It is so uncommon for me to meet guys like this that I am just so unused

to asking them to shower or use my mouthwash.... I find that I endure

the meeting and get through it but vowing not to see him again.

My belief is that if I were to ask a man to go and clean his teeth or wash

himself, it would absolutely spoil the appointment, he would know I was not

happy with things as they were....

I know some ladies say they just tell the guy straight out, please go and

shower/clean teeth etc but I have a feeling this may not always be the case.

So my question is to the ladies really..... how do you deal with this when

those men ask if you will see them again and you know you just don't want to?

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So my question is to the ladies really..... how do you deal with this when

those men ask if you will see them again and you know you just don't want to?

Exactly the way you did - I smile and say yes, and then never answer the phone to them again!

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How about "I'd love to see you again but only if you brush your teeth and wash your cock, balls and arsehole properly next time :D"

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How about "I'd love to see you again but only if you brush your teeth and wash your cock, balls and arsehole properly next time :D"

I think this might be one of those threads where punters and WGs fall into two different camps. I agree with Lighttouch, but I think I would have put it a bit more gently(!), along the lines of, "Weeell, yeeeees, but I need to give you some advice..." Let's face it, after that he'd probably feel too embarrassed and/or insulted to contact you again anyway. ;)

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Yes and he might get a bit nasty but then just say

"Look other girls would simply say they would love to see you again and then never answer the phone when you ring, you are a nice guy and I don't want that to happen to you"

And I'll bet that he will suddenly realise why all those girls never answered his phone. After all he probably asked the question because he suspected something was going wrong.

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No not me! ;)

This is what some new clients say as they leave and have had

a smashing time. I always say "of course, I am happy to see you

any time!" or something similar... because most of the time it is

true.

However, as happened last week.... I was saying goodbye to a man

after our appointment and I knew without doubt that he would not

be welcome back. He asked if I would see him again and heard myself

replying yes. If he rings again I just won't answer the phone.

The reason was a rare one for me... he should have cleaned 2 things -

teeth and todger... before coming to his appointment!

It is so uncommon for me to meet guys like this that I am just so unused

to asking them to shower or use my mouthwash.... I find that I endure

the meeting and get through it but vowing not to see him again.

My belief is that if I were to ask a man to go and clean his teeth or wash

himself, it would absolutely spoil the appointment, he would know I was not

happy with things as they were.... I know some ladies say they just tell the guy straight out, please go and

shower/clean teeth etc but I have a feeling this may not always be the case.

So my question is to the ladies really..... how do you deal with this when

those men ask if you will see them again and you know you just don't want to?

I suspect the vast majority of clients would have no difficulty complying with a policy of a WG which requires them all to shower and mouthwash before any intimacy occurs, provided he is happy that his booking time is not being cut short. If he has a problem with this, then you do have a problem on your hands. You can text or mail details of this request once the booking has been confirmed. You should not then have the embarrassing situation where you have to personalise the hygiene issue with the client after intimacy has begun which admittedly might turn everything very sour.

Why wait for a guy to ask you if you would see him.? If he was a good client, then why not pay him the compliment of letting him know that his custom would be welcome again. Due to the acting skills of the WG during the booking, the client may well not know whether his repeat business would be welcome . I saw in an other post that some girls dont like regulars at all , which I thought was really interesting. Some have posted that by acknowledging to the client he would be welcome again would a] give out a dangerous signal that you ' fancied ' him and he might then turn into a stalker or b] that this amounted to unacceptable touting for business. I really dont go along with these views.

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. I find that I endure

the meeting and get through it but vowing not to see him again.

That would put me off seeing you as it makes you appear desperate rather than polite. You have every right to tell somebody as ignorant as him to go forth and multiply.

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Exactly the way you did - I smile and say yes, and then never answer the phone to them again!

This is my MO too.

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Re: Would you see me again?

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Originally Posted by ADELE View Post

. I find that I endure

the meeting and get through it but vowing not to see him again.

That would put me off seeing you as it makes you appear desperate rather than polite. You have every right to tell somebody as ignorant as him to go forth and multiply.

er.......... not quite sure how me not wanting to spoil a meeting for the guy,

is being "desperate" ;)

now if I were to see that stinkyfella again and again..........

yes that would indeed mean I was desperate!

;)

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No not me! ;)

This is what some new clients say as they leave and have had

a smashing time. I always say "of course, I am happy to see you

any time!" or something similar... because most of the time it is

true.

However, as happened last week.... I was saying goodbye to a man

after our appointment and I knew without doubt that he would not

be welcome back. He asked if I would see him again and heard myself

replying yes. If he rings again I just won't answer the phone.

The reason was a rare one for me... he should have cleaned 2 things -

teeth and todger... before coming to his appointment!

It is so uncommon for me to meet guys like this that I am just so unused

to asking them to shower or use my mouthwash.... I find that I endure

the meeting and get through it but vowing not to see him again.

My belief is that if I were to ask a man to go and clean his teeth or wash

himself, it would absolutely spoil the appointment, he would know I was not

happy with things as they were....

I know some ladies say they just tell the guy straight out, please go and

shower/clean teeth etc but I have a feeling this may not always be the case.

So my question is to the ladies really..... how do you deal with this when

those men ask if you will see them again and you know you just don't want to?

Punters like this are either ignorant of the very basics of sexual contact, being clean or simply dont care. If i were a WG i would do what you would do, just not answer the phone if he rings again.

There are no excuses for being smelly in my view, some are just dirty pigs.

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Why not just tell him? Are you afraid of possible violence or something?

Perhaps the guy didn't realise he was that bad.

I don't think it would hurt so much if you said politely "I always ask the men I see to take a shower and brush their teeth please. It's customary and I ask everyone to do it."

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My belief is that if I were to ask a man to go and clean his teeth or wash

himself, it would absolutely spoil the appointment, he would know I was not

happy with things as they were....

I know some ladies say they just tell the guy straight out, please go and

shower/clean teeth etc but I have a feeling this may not always be the case.

So my question is to the ladies really..... how do you deal with this when

those men ask if you will see them again and you know you just don't want to?

Adele, it can feel awkward to ask a guy to clean himself properly but the client should be made aware that escorts have a certain standard they require from a client. In my early days of escorting I have kicked myself afterwards for being too embarrassed to say anything and I'm convinced there are a small percentage of clients who purposely arrive minging because they get off on the fact an escort wants the money so much, or aren't assertive enough so they'll put up with a dirty dick and smelly balls. If I let it go then chances are another escort on his list of 'to see' is going to have to deal with it. I don't mind reminding them to have another wash if they are visiting the loo during an appointment either.

Fresh breath is a difficult one as I'm sure many aren't aware they have bad breath but a packet of mints, offer of breath freshner and on occasions a discussion on the importance of regular dental check-ups and oral hygene has done the trick. ;)

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Adele, it can feel awkward to ask a guy to clean himself properly but the client should be made aware that escorts have a certain standard they require from a client. In my early days of escorting I have kicked myself afterwards for being too embarrassed to say anything and I'm convinced there are a small percentage of clients who purposely arrive minging because they get off on the fact an escort wants the money so much, or aren't assertive enough so they'll put up with a dirty dick and smelly balls. If I let it go then chances are another escort on his list of 'to see' is going to have to deal with it. I don't mind reminding them to have another wash if they are visiting the loo during an appointment either.

Fresh breath is a difficult one as I'm sure many aren't aware they have bad breath but a packet of mints, offer of breath freshner and on occasions a discussion on the importance of regular dental check-ups and oral hygene has done the trick. ;)

On balance I think you have the right approach. I go to all sorts of lengths to arrive fresh and clean but I know that no matter what I do my breath can, on occasion, be a bit iffy. Nerves as much as anything.

I always ask and am always assured its OK.................but I still have doubts and Adele's post does not reassure me.

I'd rather be told...................and wander off to the bathroom for a mouthwash.;)

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What proportion of punters ask "Would you see me again" after the event?

Are they under the misconception that it's a date?

Do they want 'approval', it's very odd.

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What proportion of punters ask "Would you see me again" after the event?

Are they under the misconception that it's a date?

Do they want 'approval', it's very odd.

I must be odd then..........for I have asked that.

It's a way to get told you were OK, behaved well etc.

What's wrong with that?

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I must be odd then..........for I have asked that.

It's a way to get told you were OK, behaved well etc.

What's wrong with that?

Firstly, as above in the thread, you're highly unlikely to get the truth, just platitude. Secondly, the onus is on the punter whether he returns or not. imo you'd have to have done something really bad for a wg to make the effort of ensuring she doesn't take another booking from you.

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Firstly, as above in the thread, you're highly unlikely to get the truth, just platitude. Secondly, the onus is on the punter whether he returns or not. imo you'd have to have done something really bad for a wg to make the effort of ensuring she doesn't take another booking from you.

You sound so caring:confused:

I don't think it does any harm to show that you care about what the girl thinks.

Some seem to take a strange joy in presenting a cold-hearted approach..............don't you:cool:

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What proportion of punters ask "Would you see me again" after the event?

Are they under the misconception that it's a date?

Do they want 'approval', it's very odd.

I must admit it's something I've never asked, but it always cheers me when I get feedback where the lady says I would be welcomed back.

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You sound so caring:confused:

I don't think it does any harm to show that you care about what the girl thinks.

Some seem to take a strange joy in presenting a cold-hearted approach..............don't you:cool:

I'm not 'cold-hearted' at all :)

The punting world is largely a world of pretense.

I know I am clean, polite, and (usually!) have paid the correct money upfront. I would never knowingly do anything that the wg would object to. I also try to smile a little bit nowadays since I am less nervous. :D

I feel that's about all the wg could reasonably be looking for in a punter.

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I'm not 'cold-hearted' at all :)

The punting world is largely a world of pretense.

I know I am clean, polite, and (usually!) have paid the correct money upfront. I would never knowingly do anything that the wg would object to. I also try to smile a little bit nowadays since I am less nervous. :D

I feel that's about all the wg could reasonably be looking for in a punter.

It came over as cold to me.

I think too many punters............and girls...........think that showing a little kindness and warmth is a sign of weakness in what is essentially a business transaction.

You can still be honest..............tell the poor sod about his breath, BO or whatever...................and warm and kind within the bounds of it being business.

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It came over as cold to me.

I think too many punters............and girls...........think that showing a little kindness and warmth is a sign of weakness in what is essentially a business transaction.

You can still be honest..............tell the poor sod about his breath, BO or whatever...................and warm and kind within the bounds of it being business.

wgs must operate in a world where there's a small/remote chance that any punter, seemingly mild-mannered and pleasant, could suddenly switch on them and get violent. Reducing the risk of this occurring, I would imagine, is paramount.

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wgs must operate in a world where there's a small/remote chance that any punter, seemingly mild-mannered and pleasant, could suddenly switch on them and get violent. Reducing the risk of this occurring, I would imagine, is paramount.

Are you suggesting that they DAREN'T say anything about hygene etc for fear of a violent reaction?

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Are you suggesting that they DAREN'T say anything about hygene etc for fear of a violent reaction?

It's certainly a possibility.

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I must admit it's something I've never asked, but it always cheers me when I get feedback where the lady says I would be welcomed back.
I've been known to say "I look forward to seeing you again." After all, the lady can just blush or smile demurely or even rush up to me, throw her arms around my neck and say "Ooow - yes please!" At least then I know where I stand. :)

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I've been known to say "I look forward to seeing you again." After all, the lady can just blush or smile demurely or even rush up to me, throw her arms around my neck and say "Ooow - yes please!" At least then I know where I stand. :)

When they call you 'silver tongue' you know you are onto a winner!

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