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Hypothetical Question - What would you do??

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Oki, got a little question, doubt it would happen, but if it did, just wondering what you gents would think/do/say.

Ok, so, husband gets back home from work, and over dinner the wife/gf asks if he would mind if she started escorting. Would you hit the roof???

Obviously answer depends on circumstances, but if you punted say, twice a month, and so were a regular punter, what would you do??? other than keel over in shock at the thought your Mrs wants sex again, or might actually got get a brazilian, or might even you have REGULAR sex again!

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Say that I'd read up a bit about all that stuff, post-Harman. Introduce her to SAAFE and some other Boards, and ask a few aimless questions to assess whether she knew what she was intending. Suggest that she spoke to an established lady or two. Accept it.

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Oki, got a little question, doubt it would happen, but if it did, just wondering what you gents would think/do/say.

Ok, so, husband gets back home from work, and over dinner the wife/gf asks if he would mind if she started escorting. Would you hit the roof???

Obviously answer depends on circumstances, but if you punted say, twice a month, and so were a regular punter, what would you do??? other than keel over in shock at the thought your Mrs wants sex again, or might actually got get a brazilian, or might even you have REGULAR sex again!

I wouldnt be too happy and would be concerned about her personal safety, security and sexual health. If thats really what she wanted i would support her but make it clear i wasnt for the idea. I dont do jealous so that wouldnt be an issue for me. It would be a massive decision so i would advise her to think long and hard and look into the logistics carefully and research the whole thing. I wouldnt want to directly benefit from what she might earn either, so that would be strictly her money.

Overall i would try everything i could to dissuade her, but ultimately support her if her mind was set.

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Say that I'd read up a bit about all that stuff, post-Harman. Introduce her to SAAFE and some other Boards, and ask a few aimless questions to assess whether she knew what she was intending. Suggest that she spoke to an established lady or two. Accept it.

Sounds reasonable to me. I keep joking to her how popular BBW webstes are!

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I wouldnt be too happy and would be concerned about her personal safety, security and sexual health. If thats really what she wanted i would support her but make it clear i wasnt for the idea. I dont do jealous so that wouldnt be an issue for me. It would be a massive decision so i would advise her to think long and hard and look into the logistics carefully and research the whole thing. I wouldnt want to directly benefit from what she might earn either, so that would be strictly her money.

Overall i would try everything i could to dissuade her, but ultimately support her if her mind was set.

Same here. Sorry I wouldnt want her escorting.

Sorry you only have to read some Frs ( have a read of Volvics over the 2007 era. Especially Wanda's) and the dangerous punters section to work out why.......

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I dont beleive it, you guys are all pussy whipped, a real man would throw her out on the street, straight after dinner, if only to give her some motivation to make a success of her new life.

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First of all she's been frigid since the birth of the youngest so i'd be mightily amused after initially choking. Otherwise i'd be interested to hear why, in case it was due to failings on my part. Deep down it doesn't necessarily fill me with woe that she would be inclined to have sex with others more the fact that she wanted to charge for it and have sex with those she may not particularly like doing it with.

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Throw her out. Totally unacceptable that she would think that I might put up with it.

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I'd be intrigued to find out why - she would not earn much if the service that I have received is anything to go by, but I'd be willing to provide advice and training that might be necessary......:)

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'Throw her out'?????

You're all quite certain that the house is yours, then? :)

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You are right, so might be a good idea to make sure all conversations regarding your wife/partner's intention to take up escorting are taped. And also make sure she clears up the dishes after dinner, before she hits the streets.

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WOW! I should be suprised by the responses here but am not. Alot of you would throw your partners out for wanting to use her body to make a living, yet you will happily spend your wages paying for sex.

Basically you can shag around for pleasure and pay for it yet your partner cannot do the same for purely monetary (not pleasure) reasons.

That is avery archaic view IMO. Why should she not be afforded the same freedoms as her male counterpart.

Surely hers would be a more valid reason for having sex with strangers than yours. It is a job after all and surely you can all see that it is just sex and there is no emotional attachment.

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WOW! I should be suprised by the responses here but am not. Alot of you would throw your partners out for wanting to use her body to make a living, yet you will happily spend your wages paying for sex.

Basically you can shag around for pleasure and pay for it yet your partner cannot do the same for purely monetary (not pleasure) reasons.

That is avery archaic view IMO. Why should she not be afforded the same freedoms as her male counterpart.

Surely hers would be a more valid reason for having sex with strangers than yours. It is a job after all and surely you can all see that it is just sex and there is no emotional attachment.

I think you'll find., as this thread shows, there's still a lot of Victorian morality/hypocrisy around Danielle.

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Oki, got a little question, doubt it would happen, but if it did, just wondering what you gents would think/do/say.

Ok, so, husband gets back home from work, and over dinner the wife/gf asks if he would mind if she started escorting. Would you hit the roof???

Obviously answer depends on circumstances, but if you punted say, twice a month, and so were a regular punter, what would you do??? other than keel over in shock at the thought your Mrs wants sex again, or might actually got get a brazilian, or might even you have REGULAR sex again!

I would hit the roof! I would probably end the relationship as well.

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I think you'll find., as this thread shows, there's still a lot of Victorian morality/hypocrisy around Danielle.

I can see that. I just find it astonishing that on a forum soley about punting/escorting that people who visit WG's still hold the view that 'There is nothing wrong with visiting escorts but I wouldn't allow my wife to be one'.

Thankgod I have a very undertsanding/trusting partner.

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Oki, got a little question, doubt it would happen, but if it did, just wondering what you gents would think/do/say.

Ok, so, husband gets back home from work, and over dinner the wife/gf asks if he would mind if she started escorting. Would you hit the roof???

Obviously answer depends on circumstances, but if you punted say, twice a month, and so were a regular punter, what would you do??? other than keel over in shock at the thought your Mrs wants sex again, or might actually got get a brazilian, or might even you have REGULAR sex again!

A marriage is built on love, trust and fidelity.

To come home and find that your wife wants to be a prostitute?

Although the fluffies on here say they would support her decision, I suspect that deep down, they would do what every other man would do - throw her out.

Throw her out - it's what a Man would do.

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Not altogether a hypothetical question in my case as my other half did suggest it once, many years ago. Not sure how serious it was and it was definitely some sort of 'buzz' she was after rather than the money. I must admit I was fairly intrigued by the idea but I also pointed out that she really didn't have any idea what she'd be getting into and suggested she do her research first (rather along the lines Pabulum suggested above). Nothing came of it although the idea seemed to make her gratifyingly randy for a while... Like I said it was many years ago!

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Thankgod I have a very undertsanding/trusting partner.

He never gets jealous, he never complains? What about the difference in money earned ? He never resents the money?

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He never gets jealous, he never complains? What about the difference in money earned ? He never resents the money?

If the bloke doesn't object to his partner escorting, and all that entails, why on earth would he resent extra money coming into the house? I can't speak for Danielle but my main account is a joint one with my wife anyway, so it would go into the common fund. Personally I'd love it if my wife, through whatever occupation, earned enough for me to be a 'kept man'! Or at least allowed me take a job where my salary wasn't an issue.

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A decent man might actually ask her what has prompted her to feel this way, why she wants to do this and sit down to talk to her.

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He never gets jealous, he never complains? What about the difference in money earned ? He never resents the money?

No he does not get jealous or complain. He knows why I do this job (its for my son) and knows full well we could not afford the extra help that my son needs without me doing this. Qualified occupational therapists cost a bloody fortune as do extra home tutors (my son only gets two hours a day provided by the authorities, which is nowhere near enough if he is going to have any chance of being semi independant).

My partner knows I truely adore him and no matter how many men I have sex with in my work time, I would never become emotionally embroiled with someone else.

In fact my hubby takes most of my pics including the ones with other men involved and helps with my website and often buys me new outfits for work.

Its called trust something some people on here need to learn.

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Honestly I would severely doubt that I'm anywhere near secure enough to be comfortable with my even hypothetical partner becoming an escort. Although it's meant just to be paid sex and blah, I'd more than likeily be unable to cope with the concept of my partner escorting.

On top of being quite insecurity I'm also a massive worrier and would be concern for a numerous reasons (safety, sexual health, etc) and I'd probably worry myself ill over her.

Plus as mentioned I believe what I assume would be a significant difference between our earned income would possibly (or eventually) cause tension within the relationship, I've seen the resultant effects and arguments that can happen.

With all that said I'd have a serious talk with her and ask if she considered the full extent of the decision of escorting, express the issues I had with it to her and attempt to presuade her to pursue another option, but if she decided to escort regardless I'd probably end things on the best terms possible before things went bad.

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I'd be amazed ; she doesn't normally talk in her sleep.

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A decent man might actually ask her what has prompted her to feel this way, why she wants to do this and sit down to talk to her.

Indeed, as i would do. My main concern would be her safety and like another poster said this aspect would greatly trouble me, and i would worry about her.

I certainly wouldnt chuck her out, my love for her would mean i would go along with what she wants with reservations.:)

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A marriage is built on love, trust and fidelity.

To come home and find that your wife wants to be a prostitute?

Although the fluffies on here say they would support her decision, I suspect that deep down, they would do what every other man would do - throw her out.

Throw her out - it's what a Man would do.

If a marriage should be based on love, trust and fidelity, does that mean that all the blokes on here that are attached should be hung, drawn and quartered???

If happily (or not so happily as the case may be) are happy to visit prostitutes then surely they shouldn't mind if their Mrs wanted to be one. Anything else is hypocritical in my view...

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