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Jaded WGs - anything a punter can do?

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Hi ladies and gents, just thought I'd throw a quick question out there.

I've been seeing this Japanese girl on & off for over a year now. I'm very comfortable with her, and her with me, but our last couple of sessions have lacked a bit of a spark. May be knowing each other too long is the issue but to me she's become a bit jaded with the job. Is there anything you can suggest to perk her up a bit as I'd like to keep seeing her?

I know this happens after awhile but I thought I'd ask.

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Hi ladies and gents, just thought I'd throw a quick question out there.

I've been seeing this Japanese girl on & off for over a year now. I'm very comfortable with her, and her with me, but our last couple of sessions have lacked a bit of a spark. May be knowing each other too long is the issue but to me she's become a bit jaded with the job. Is there anything you can suggest to perk her up a bit as I'd like to keep seeing her?

I know this happens after awhile but I thought I'd ask.

Just tell her you won't be seeing her anymore. Either she will perk up and you will go on seeing her - or she won't and you have not lost anything as you look elsewhere.

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Maybe she has got complacent with your a regular, Is she really Japanese or was her great granny? :)

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Perhaps you're both talking too much. Whoever initiates it, talking about her dissatisfaction with the job (how have you deemed her jaded otherwise, unless it's what she shows you) will never encourage a sexy booking.

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Is she really Japanese or was her great granny? :)

That is kind of irrelevant.

But FFS this is a commercial transaction where the guy is not satisfied with the service he is getting.

Either he tells her to shape up or he ships out. Not like she is the only 'Japanese' escort.

In summary - a no brainer.

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That is kind of irrelevant.

But FFS this is a commercial transaction where the guy is not satisfied with the service he is getting.

Either he tells her to shape up or he ships out. Not like she is the only 'Japanese' escort.

In summary - a no brainer.

Yes your right she needs to change or he should move on, but my point was that there are hardly any genuine Jap girls hooking In UK.

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Hi ladies and gents, just thought I'd throw a quick question out there.

I've been seeing this Japanese girl on & off for over a year now. I'm very comfortable with her, and her with me, but our last couple of sessions have lacked a bit of a spark. May be knowing each other too long is the issue but to me she's become a bit jaded with the job. Is there anything you can suggest to perk her up a bit as I'd like to keep seeing her?

I know this happens after awhile but I thought I'd ask.

Tell her how you feel and if things dont improve go elsewhere, its that simple IMO.

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It's her job to give you pleasure and not yours to work out why she is so jaded and perk her up.

A one-off or so is just one of those things but every time and you risk confusion with a non-commercial relationship.

Try a new lady.

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It's her job to give you pleasure and not yours to work out why she is so jaded and perk her up.

A one-off or so is just one of those things but every time and you risk confusion with a non-commercial relationship.

Try a new lady.

How many posts does it take to (i) say the same thing and (ii) convince the OP to try another lady?

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How many posts does it take to (i) say the same thing and (ii) convince the OP to try another lady?

Maybe you should start a poll if your really that interested.

OR maybe you could consider not just you has an opinion:rolleyes:

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The OP ends "I would like to keep seeing her", so to suggest he sees other ladies is not really the answer to the question.

Maybe you could book her again, and if you get the same impression, suggest you sit and talk to the lady, maybe take her a little something might make her appreciate you care, and showing some respect at all times does help.

Im not sure if any of these suggestions are new to you, are if you do all of them, but maybe changing the routine would freshen things up with you both, and I find that to have a sunny/friendly/lighthearted feel about the booking might be useful.

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Thanks to everyone for their input. What I will do is to leave it a few weeks (change the rountine) and then try again. If things are still 'off' then I'll look to move on and except that things have run their course.

I used to see 3-4 WGs on a regular-ish basis in day's gone by, which helped to keep things fresh, so may be I'll go back to that.

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Hi ladies and gents, just thought I'd throw a quick question out there.

I've been seeing this Japanese girl on & off for over a year now. I'm very comfortable with her, and her with me, but our last couple of sessions have lacked a bit of a spark. May be knowing each other too long is the issue but to me she's become a bit jaded with the job. Is there anything you can suggest to perk her up a bit as I'd like to keep seeing her?

I know this happens after awhile but I thought I'd ask.

If she's REALLY Japanese I be prepared I'd be more than willing to have a go.;)

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I think it's a fact of life that in a non commercial sexual arrangement, the initial thrill will go off after a while, in fact I think sex counsellors etc. will say that from about a year to eighteen months it is a normal thing to happen.

It can be hard to face up to that especially if it was initially so brilliant and with an escort where the sexual element is usually the be all and end all, the difference will be all that more noticable.

I think the OP should consider whether it's the overall relationship that has become jaded rather than the girl herself.

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Maybe you could book her again, and if you get the same impression, suggest you sit and talk to the lady, maybe take her a little something might make her appreciate you care, and showing some respect at all times does help.

For heaven's sake we are dealing with straight commercial sex. In the opinion of the OP the WG is not giving him the level of service that she used to and that he expects. Answer - tel her get it right or move on.

Punters should not be expected to be social workers - there are enough bearded and/or hairy legged women desperate to provide the 'appreciate you care' and 'show respect....' shoulder to cry on.

Do you sit down with your plumber or mechanic and discuss his less than perfect workmanship? No you tell him - get it right.

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... but our last couple of sessions have lacked a bit of a spark... Is there anything you can suggest to perk her up a bit

Try a cattle prod ;)

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For heaven's sake we are dealing with straight commercial sex. In the opinion of the OP the WG is not giving him the level of service that she used to and that he expects. Answer - tel her get it right or move on.

Punters should not be expected to be social workers - there are enough bearded and/or hairy legged women desperate to provide the 'appreciate you care' and 'show respect....' shoulder to cry on.

Do you sit down with your plumber or mechanic and discuss his less than perfect workmanship? No you tell him - get it right.

The OP asked if there was anything we could suggest to perk her up a bit as he would like to keep seeing her....

I didnt say he should be a social worker, and were not not talking about a plumber or mechanic, stick to the facts, the title of the thread is "anything a punter can do".

The OP was not asking to be told to move on, or tell the escort to get it right as you suggest, but was looking for ways to perk her up.

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mebbe be a better lover. consider her needs. I am sure she will repay in spadeloads...

(Awaits beng branded a super fluffie)

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mebbe be a better lover. consider her needs. I am sure she will repay in spadeloads...

(Awaits beng branded a super fluffie)

How about a performance related bonus, payable after the event. If that does not work, she really is jaded.

Jack

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The OP asked if there was anything we could suggest to perk her up a bit as he would like to keep seeing her....

I didnt say he should be a social worker, and were not not talking about a plumber or mechanic, stick to the facts, the title of the thread is "anything a punter can do".

The OP was not asking to be told to move on, or tell the escort to get it right as you suggest, but was looking for ways to perk her up.

I think Scorchin's reference to mechanics and plumbers is relevent. If I have a workman come to my house, I always offer him a cup of coffee and a selection of biscuits. I know it's tantamount to bribery in some eyes but I think of it as making a connection, a bond. If I suspect he is a gay, I will hold his gaze for a little longer than normal in the hope that unspoken expectations will elicit a thorough job.

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Whatever you think is best.

I hope the OP is happy with the response you gave out and that having the escort dressed as a plumber seeing to his taps might be the spark she needs.

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mebbe be a better lover. consider her needs. I am sure she will repay in spadeloads...

(Awaits beng branded a super fluffie)

No, you may have hit the nail on the head. Asian girls, especially those in P4P, usually have an extremely high sex drive. Humpity hump, pumpity pump, squirt just doesn't do it for them.

Try starting with a long DATY session as an appetizer................;);)

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I think Scorchin's reference to mechanics and plumbers is relevent. If I have a workman come to my house, I always offer him a cup of coffee and a selection of biscuits. I know it's tantamount to bribery in some eyes but I think of it as making a connection, a bond. If I suspect he is a gay, I will hold his gaze for a little longer than normal in the hope that unspoken expectations will elicit a thorough job.

I did that with a guy who came to replace my windscreen. But then he started banging on about his Subaru Impreza and how it pissed all over my car (a BMW 320i, so his probably does, in terms of raw power). And he'd ate the biscuits by this time.

He was quite gross and so I didn't feel like testing the 'iron' connection and therefore dismissed the idea of some sort of 'faux' bonding as futile.

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I did that with a guy who came to replace my windscreen. But then he started banging on about his Subaru Impreza and how it pissed all over my car (a BMW 320i, so his probably does, in terms of raw power). And he'd ate the biscuits by this time.

Next time buy Hob-nobs.......these custard creams are not going to get a good response.

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I did that with a guy who came to replace my windscreen. But then he started banging on about his Subaru Impreza ...

...He was quite gross

I understand your concerns. There is always the danger of the workman crossing the boundaries of propriety – WGs are the same. However, I remember when a friendly gas man went beyond the call of duty and generously unblocked my sticky exit vent. And to this day, I fondly recall the way he puckered his lips when he complimented me on my shiny pipework.

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