mmole

WG Satisfaction

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Hello everyone, a question to the ladies; I'll be brief and won't go into the background of this but I'd like to do the following (amongst a million other things !)

* kissing / cuddling / massage

* receive blow job

* recieve Smoking blow job

* take photo / video of a lady for personal use, she would be clothed, semi, toys / whatever

* watch girl on girl

Not really to meet for full sex.

My dilemma (one of them !) is that whenever I have met with a WG before it has been for mutual pleasure and after some nice foreplay (or kinky games) normally gone to full sex whereby we are both satisfied.

However if I ask for any of the above then I am the only recipient and would feel bad about leaving without having given back any satisfaction.

Not withstanding that some see visiting a WG as paying for a service my main issue would potentially be leaving someone sexually frustrated (as I know what that feels like) and I'd hate to do that. Would I be too selfish by asking for things just for myself without giving the pleasure back ?

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Hello everyone, a question to the ladies; I'll be brief and won't go into the background of this but I'd like to do the following (amongst a million other things !)

* kissing / cuddling / massage

* receive blow job

* recieve Smoking blow job

* take photo / video of a lady for personal use, she would be clothed, semi, toys / whatever

* watch girl on girl

Not really to meet for full sex.

My dilemma (one of them !) is that whenever I have met with a WG before it has been for mutual pleasure and after some nice foreplay (or kinky games) normally gone to full sex whereby we are both satisfied.

However if I ask for any of the above then I am the only recipient and would feel bad about leaving without having given back any satisfaction.

Not withstanding that some see visiting a WG as paying for a service my main issue would potentially be leaving someone sexually frustrated (as I know what that feels like) and I'd hate to do that. Would I be too selfish by asking for things just for myself without giving the pleasure back ?

Welcome to the board.;) It seems to me your mixing up dating to punting here. In punting you pay the WG the agreed fee, you dont have to sexually satisfy her, its not compulsory, most ladies wont refuse to see you if you dont satisfy them.

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Hello, it's nice to finally join the forum. Thank you for your reply, I'd realised that punting is viewed as a service provided by the ladies but even so I'd had to play and leave someone wanting.

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Hi mmole, welcome to the board. I empathise with your view, as I always like to feel that the lady has enjoyed our meeting to (and I don't do full sex), but I agree with Smithy on this. The point of a punt is for you, the client, to get the satisfaction you seek. Most ladies aren't in this for their own sexual gratification - they have their own sources for that - and if they get it it's a bonus. A lot of ladies enjoy the friendly intimacy of a nice kiss and cuddle, and demonstrating their BJ skills, and a lot say (and some mean it!) that their greatest satisfaction is knowing that their client has left happy with his experience and may well want to repeat it with themm.

Just lay back and enjoy it mate! ;)

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I don't offer some of the services your looking for...

However, you forget to take into account that WG Satisfaction can be gained, or rather work Satitisfaction can be gained by making sure you go away satisfied.

A lot of ladies take great pride in knowing that they have made the clients day, rather than just getting off themselves.

So I don't think it will be so impossible to find what you are looking for.

Welcome to the board.

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Tammy - we like good wine .. well cared for , nicely ripened ..and red ..of course. [skater]

Not to mention fruity, full-bodied (in the nicest possible way) and (probably) rich! ;):)

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I also agree as you can get satisfaction in many ways, and knowing the client has left happy and fulfilled then that surely is enough.

Hello and welcome also ;)

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Hi mmole, good to see another fellow Hampshire punter on here ;)

I think your concerns are unfounded, I think a good many w/g's don't really care that much about 'getting off' themselves. That's why it's such a result when you find a girl that does enjoy herself.

Or am I being too cynical here?

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Tammy - we like good wine .. well cared for , nicely ripened ..and red ..of course. [skater]

Not to mention fruity, full-bodied (in the nicest possible way) and (probably) rich! ;):)

I am fruity, but the other two elude me. :) Oh well back to the drawing board.

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To be honest I'm a shoe on the other foot kind of person and always put myself in anothers place which is why I over analyse a situation. I'd prefer to come away from a transaction with both parties happy or satisfied (however that satisfiaction is derived). The aspect of leaving someone sexual frustrated was bugging me the most I think.

Thank you for the positive comments, hope I can contribute positively to the forum from now on in.

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To be honest I'm a shoe on the other foot kind of person and always put myself in anothers place which is why I over analyse a situation. I'd prefer to come away from a transaction with both parties happy or satisfied (however that satisfiaction is derived). The aspect of leaving someone sexual frustrated was bugging me the most I think.

Thank you for the positive comments, hope I can contribute positively to the forum from now on in.

I am sure that the ladies will agree that if they were sexually satisfied by every client they see in a day, they would be shattered, so clearly this is a situation they would not want. However A WG who is good at her profession will leave those clients who are looking for it, the impression that it has been sexually satisfying occasion for her.

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Since my purse is among my most erogenous zone, I'll have moist silk panties the minute you paid me.

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BH you are just so naughty LOL :rolleyes:

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Hello everyone, a question to the ladies; I'll be brief and won't go into the background of this but I'd like to do the following (amongst a million other things !)

* kissing / cuddling / massage

* receive blow job

* recieve Smoking blow job

* take photo / video of a lady for personal use, she would be clothed, semi, toys / whatever

* watch girl on girl

Not really to meet for full sex.

My dilemma (one of them !) is that whenever I have met with a WG before it has been for mutual pleasure and after some nice foreplay (or kinky games) normally gone to full sex whereby we are both satisfied.

However if I ask for any of the above then I am the only recipient and would feel bad about leaving without having given back any satisfaction.

Good lord, darling..... the girls are happy with the money, as long as everything goes well with no dramas, and you get what your want - what ever that may be - then everyone is satiated. Believe me. Just ask for what you want in a polite and courteous manner and whenyou find a girl who fulfills the most of your criteria book her. Turn up in time, be clean and smelling fresh and wash your dick before hand, pay her the agreed fee, leave at the appropriate time and she'll be happy in many repects. Will she give a flying f**k if she cums??? I think we all know the answer to that.

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Since my purse is among my most erogenous zone, I'll have moist silk panties the minute you paid me.

Beautifully put BH

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I'd realised that punting is viewed as a service provided by the ladies but even so I'd had to play and leave someone wanting.

She must have been heartbroken. Hope you're proud of yourself :rolleyes:

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I am sure you will learn sooner or later about the subject, but sooner the better.

Money is the most satisfying factor for the WG and the rest will be one's imaginations ..

WGs job is to make you happy in whatever you feel comfortable and make sure you come back for more.... however, some girls (very few) are sexually very active and demanding sexually.. in this case .. you pay for it and run for your life ..:-) .. i have met few.. oh and they can kill you by sex..

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I think it is a good idea to look at the ladies profile and see what they offer. If she offers any of the services that you are looking for, then you can be pretty assured that she offers it because she wants to.

I don't do everything on your list, but the things I do offer on there, I would be more than happy to do as an isolated case, as I pride my ability in it and enjoy the reaction I get from the client. As a few others have already commented on here, there is job satisfaction to be gained in seeing a client leave with a big smile on their face and possible recommendation.

For that reason I would say, do your research, pick your lady and sit back and enjoy x

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Very interesting responses, thank you to everyone who read the post and responded. Originally my feeling was that it was a question for the ladies but have enjoyed reading the insight of the ladies and punters.

BurlesqueHoney ... I could probably make you squirt then !

Knowing that I won't be upsetting people too much by being selfish has taken a lot off my mind, I'm always clean, respectful and very easy going so know need to worry about that.

kissxkate, very tempting, as you can imagine I would be very unhappy if someone did something they didn't want to do (even if they did like / want money / be happy to meet someone new). The list is just an example but truth be told I probably have a list of sexual things I need to do before I die !

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Some girls enjoy it, others don't. If they do great, if not I'm not offended. Don't like faking though.

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You can have a passive 'you' time if that's your thing, and why not!? Everyone wants a treat sometimes, and it's not selfish, it's your chosen way to spend the paid time, and mutually agreed...?

I do know in advance if I'm to be the sole 'active' and it's fine with me, though fairly rare. Most of my meetings are of mutual activity participation.

But I do see some boys who have asked me if they can take a back seat and be 'done'. Well, I get to show off, and even learn new things...

I don't think you'd have any probs with your preferences.

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