Lynn

The sins of the fathers.........

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A client of mine who is in his late 50's and has a son

of 34 told me recently that after a few drinks one night

he dropped large hints to his dad that he had dabbled with

visiting escorts. My client said his son did not come right

out and tell him for sure but amongst other little inuendos,

mentioned the internet and what interesting sites there were

to browse when not being overlooked... or words to that effect.

Client asked "oh you mean the pornos" and the son replied, "no,

the ladies you can visit, they are everywhere!"

My client said he was taken aback and put on the spot as far as

responding to his son's conversation topic!

He quickly attempted to express surprise and amusement and then

steered the subject on another track... probably to save his own

discomfort etc.....

If your own son or other close male relative were to drop such hints

or even state they have taken the wg plunge.... would you, as a regular

escort user, be ready with the correct replies?

Just a thought, I would imagine there are many sons who would be shocked

to the core if they discovered their old dads were at it with us lot!

:D

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No chance of that, both my sons know I punt!

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No chance of that, both my sons know I punt!

Bravo to you, Ghenghis. Nothing to be ashamed of at all.

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I thought you were going to say they discovered they are both members of Punternet!!!! LOL!!

Imagine that.... :(:D

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One definitely has punted

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A client of mine who is in his late 50's and has a son

of 34 told me recently that after a few drinks one night

he dropped large hints to his dad that he had dabbled with

visiting escorts. My client said his son did not come right

out and tell him for sure but amongst other little inuendos,

mentioned the internet and what interesting sites there were

to browse when not being overlooked... or words to that effect.

Client asked "oh you mean the pornos" and the son replied, "no,

the ladies you can visit, they are everywhere!"

My client said he was taken aback and put on the spot as far as

responding to his son's conversation topic!

He quickly attempted to express surprise and amusement and then

steered the subject on another track... probably to save his own

discomfort etc.....

If your own son or other close male relative were to drop such hints

or even state they have taken the wg plunge.... would you, as a regular

escort user, be ready with the correct replies?

Just a thought, I would imagine there are many sons who would be shocked

to the core if they discovered their old dads were at it with us lot!

:D

I wonder if your client knows how to delete his history properly :(

I must admit I always look through my dads lol

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I wonder if your client knows how to delete his history properly :D

I must admit I always look through my dads lol

Oh god, I'm gonna do that later. IT would be awful if I found my dad was a member on here. Horrible thoughts going through my head now, my mum commented the other day that my dad is gonna start using WGs for his "needs", I thought she was joking, just hope she was!

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Ghenghis

Re: The sins of the fathers.........

No chance of that, both my sons know I punt!

Bravo to you, Ghenghis. Nothing to be ashamed of at all.

Nothing to be ashamed of indeed. Highly unusual though that a father

would let his children know.... or that adult offspring would be ok with

their dad visiting escorts.

I have asked a few clients if they are sure they know how to delete their website and browsing history....

some have said " I think I know " :D

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Highly unusual though that a father

would let his children know.... or that adult offspring would be ok with

their dad visiting escorts.

Its different for guys though isnt it? Dads I would have thought are proud of thier offspring spreading thier seed so to speak and ok this is the reverse but if there were no issue in relation to the mother in or out of the picture then why not?

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Um, recall my grandfather's Canadian cousin always used to call his father ---a man of some disrepute who chased his future wife to Canada, married her then spent the rest of his life 'cheating' --- 'Fred' and not 'Dad.'

'Why?' I asked

'Ah', he said 'Once when mother was away, back in England (she left more than once) the old man took me to a hostess club.'

'When we got there he said, "You don't call me Dad. here. I won't look right'.

'So what do i called you? I asked'

'Fred'.

'So i called him Fred after than, and it kinda stuck'

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Nothing to be ashamed of indeed. Highly unusual though that a father

would let his children know.... or that adult offspring would be ok with

their dad visiting escorts.

I have asked a few clients if they are sure they know how to delete their website and browsing history....

some have said " I think I know " :D

Maybe that's what was going on here, Adele. Son browsed fathers history and so dropped the subject into the conversation to see if the old fellow would open up.

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Not at all.

I decided I wanted to be honest with them and when the opportunity arose I took it. I knew they were both capable of understanding me and trusted them enough that they would not shun me afterwards.

It has left me with a just as strong relationship with them and less opportunity for someone to blackmail me.

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Not at all.

I decided I wanted to be honest with them and when the opportunity arose I took it. I knew they were both capable of understanding me and trusted them enough that they would not shun me afterwards.

It has left me with a just as strong relationship with them and less opportunity for someone to blackmail me.

Sorry Ghengis - I meant Adele's client not you. Sounds like a pretty cool relationship you have with your sons.

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I wonder if your client knows how to delete his history properly :D

I must admit I always look through my dads lol

....and does he know how to hide his tracks, or....?

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With the eldest at 15, my sons are too young to be having such discussions with them (thank god!). I suspect as they get older I'll find other convenient excuses :(.

I was taken aback once when discussing the fact I have sons with a WG last year and she matter of factly offered to "take the eldest's virginity when he was old enough". She was only half joking as well :(.

I declined the offer. He can pay for his own :D.

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Oh well like father like son LOL :D

Nothing at all to be ashamed of and at least it will give you something in comman to talk about :(

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My Dad is a dark horse, I've known for years that he is majorly into rubber. He recently mentioned 'happy endings' in a round about conversation about massage, bless him he's a lovely man, retired now but worked hard before then. I hope he's had many 'happy endings' because he certainly deserves them :)

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Havn't got son's only daughter's, 18 & 21. Just hope they never end up in this profession & i book an appointment with them:eek:, but atleast if they tell their mum i'm not bothered, we're divorced:D............... some 16 yrs ago!

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Would not be at all surprised if my son had not deduced my punting.

On the Like father.......Tidying the spare room after he and a GF had stayed, I found Buttman's "Big Butt Babes II" left in the video and a bottle of Booty Lube under the bed. think I'll wait a while longer before mentioning, maybe keep for his visits to me in the final nursing home!

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I have been punting for over 20 years, and have a son who is nearly 25 now, I am not against or for him using escorts, but I know my did used escorts, as im sure many of our own fathers did, and im not ashamed of him doing that, neither would I be critical of my son doing so.

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I guess it depends on if the said Father is meant to be happily devotedly in love with Mum or not and if they are sharing the same computer and the son is not so much admitting using wgs himself, as much as telling him he knows that he does.

If the Father is divorced, widowed or single then I really don't think there is a problem, but if he is married and with the sons Mother, then it is not see easy to come clean.

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My client said he was taken aback and put on the spot as far as

responding to his son's conversation topic!

:D

Adele, just noted where you're located and I'm suprised your client didn't just come back with something along the lines of 'I know, after Harriett Harman promoted sex on the internet I had a look myself. Have you met anyone halfway decent ?' :( A bit of humour is always a good way to retorte to these 'delicate' situations (covers his back too just in case the son had been looking at his internet and was fishing :)).

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The first time,I realised my dad was a sexual being, was when he fessed up to my mum about having an affair with a woman he worked with. There were fireworks, and it was a bad time. However, what made it all the more nasty was me picking up the phone and hearing a woman say disgusting things down the phone to me about my dad when I was 13 yrs old, as my mum in the end forgave him.I then handed the phone to my mum who then spoke in a way I never heard her speak to anyone again. Yes my dad the stupid idiot, had managed to pull a bunny boiler psycho woman and we had to get the police involved.

When I told him I was going to amsterdam many years later,he put two and two together, and made some jokes. Wouldn't surprise me ,if Iam honest which is bad to suggest about your own father cheating,but if you manage to turn a professional woman in a very demanding job into a psycho like my dad did over leaving her for his wife, maybe my dad doesn't need to visit prostitutes because he is such a stud. ?

Or maybe he does see WGs because more chance of not getting a psycho stalker on his tail like before as he had bad judgement in women? apart from my mum obviously.

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I guess it depends on if the said Father is meant to be happily devotedly in love with Mum

This pretty much , add to the mix the father having given the children a somewhat religious upbringing you a have recipe for disaster

where coming clean is sadly out of the question :cool:

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