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WG hang ups

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I was with a girl today, good session and enjoyable. But she did not want me to touch her down there becuase she was wet and embarresed by it. That does strike me as an odd thing that a sign that you were actually aroused by a guy you'd be embarrased about.

I had a partner some years ago while very active was also embarrassed about the same thing.

As a man I think, a hard on and pre cum must make the woman confident shes doing the business right. If I've got a girl wet then I'm doing a good thing right?

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I was with a girl today, good session and enjoyable. But she did not want me to touch her down there becuase she was wet and embarresed by it. That does strike me as an odd thing that a sign that you were actually aroused by a guy you'd be embarrased about.

I had a partner some years ago while very active was also embarrassed about the same thing.

As a man I think, a hard on and pre cum must make the woman confident shes doing the business right. If I've got a girl wet then I'm doing a good thing right?

guess that can described as slightly odd! Was she a reatively new girl into the industry? If so that might explain some of the said embarrassment...

Did she advertise RO and everything? If she did, and she didn't want to be touched "there" it would make sirens go off in my head.....

As for hang ups, yep, I got loads, but when I work, I have to play the sex goddess so I forget about the wobbly thighs/cellulite/stretchmarks etc etc etc (which are hardly noticable, but I have a hang up about them personally)

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Definately a new girl. I don't think she was misleading me just inexperianced to seperate work from personal feelings.

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Everyone has hang ups but I love Mr bunny knowing I am pleased with his actions....

As carissa said she must have been new but I wouldn't say it was a bad thing as it shows a very good side of her :confused:

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Maybe she was just making an excuse, and chose one which you could take as flattering to you so that you would not be offended.

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Maybe she was having her period and was not confident about the sponge.

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Oh man i get far too wet it's embarrassin but i'd not go to that extreme as then that would even worse! Bless her. I hate my weight but men seem to like it i guess so a market for it thank god!! But god do i envy such slim beautiful women working out there, give me your bodies :rolleyes:! xx

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Maybe she was just making an excuse, and chose one which you could take as flattering to you so that you would not be offended.

That was exactly my thoughts as well. Why on earth would a women become an escort if she was so easily embarrassed about something so natural? She'd be better off being a wife. More likely she didnt' want to be touched in the la la area.

But then maybe I am just a cynical old bag :rolleyes:

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Maybe, maybe maybe...........................why didn't you ask her ???????!!!!!!!! :rolleyes::rolleyes::)

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Maybe, maybe maybe...........................why didn't you ask her ???????!!!!!!!! :rolleyes::rolleyes::)

Nats, do you really think if he asked her she would give him an honest answer?

For example similar to it:

1 Darling: I overdone with my KY there, and don't know you found out about my "artificial wetness".

2 Babes: I've got a sponge down my fanny, because I am on my period and don't you to feel it with your fingers or tongue.

3 Honi: I just don't like you fingering me or go down on me, because you are crap in it...

4 Luv: If you will touch my fanny right now, I will cum instantly, and then I will be useless to attend to your needs further, as I just will asleep after straigh away.

Somehow, I think not! :o

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Nats, do you really think if he asked her she would give him an honest answer?

For example similar to it:

1 Darling: I overdone with my KY there, and don't know you found out about my "artificial wetness".

2 Babes: I've got a sponge down my fanny, because I am on my period and don't you to feel it with your fingers or tongue.

3 Honi: I just don't like you fingering me or go down on me, because you are crap in it...

4 Luv: If you will touch my fanny right now, I will cum instantly, and then I will be useless to attend to your needs further, as I just will asleep after straigh away.

Somehow, I think not! :rolleyes:

Number 3 is a winning line! :)

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Each and everyone of us have hang ups, whilst it seems an unusual one for a wg to have it may be a new experience for her but we are not inside her head so cannot really say definately, I can only comment on my own experience with confidence in so far that the first time I got really wet to the point of cuming I was so embarressed I locked myself in the bathroom and cried - I even visited the dr's as I thought there was something wrong with me - much to the dr's and my embaressment - his answer was less forplay!!!!!

I was in my early 30's and had no clue as to the workings of my body in that respect and even though I knew the sensation of getting wet and aroused were pleasurable it is not exactly the thing that is discussed at Mothers knee or in the reluctant sex education classes at my Catholic Boarding school.

Though it is fair to say it is really only when I became a working girl that I learned that men like it and that whilst not all women get wet it is not abnormal and it is ok and natural to get this way let alone enjoy it.

Beth

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I'm sure the girl was new and not out to trick me, as I said IRL I've met a girl with this thinking before. I don't want to interrogate her about it and I respected her limits. It was a nice punt after all.

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I've been there, wasn't that it was embarrasing for me per say, I just didn't like the amount of attention paid to it, made me feel like I was doing something wrong.

Took an enterprising guy to tell me that most don't get that kind of wet often so are more likely to react with more enthusiasum when they do, which of course also means drawing attention to it.

After that I relaxed a bit more about it, and to his credit discovered he was right.

They guys like it when it happens and i shouldn't feel uncomfortable about something so natural and the fact that they draw attention to it.

So now it doesn't bother me at all when it happens and is brought to attention during a punt.

Trouble is it took me a while after becoming an escort to get that advice, and a lot of akward questions to other women.

Sometimes, if you don't know the answer to something it can be scary in a am I normal kind of way?

And unless someone tells you it's natural you worry that it's not.

hope this helps.

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It's not something I have a hang up about it, although it has been said a few times how wet I am which slightly embarassed me.

We're all women, we all have hang ups, difference is that with a bit of experience we learn to leave them at the door before the client comes in. Laura is a confident woman... me on the other hand...

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I've been there, wasn't that it was embarrasing for me per say, I just didn't like the amount of attention paid to it, made me feel like I was doing something wrong.

Took an enterprising guy to tell me that most don't get that kind of wet often so are more likely to react with more enthusiasum when they do, which of course also means drawing attention to it.

After that I relaxed a bit more about it, and to his credit discovered he was right.

They guys like it when it happens and i shouldn't feel uncomfortable about something so natural and the fact that they draw attention to it.

So now it doesn't bother me at all when it happens and is brought to attention during a punt.

Trouble is it took me a while after becoming an escort to get that advice, and a lot of akward questions to other women.

Sometimes, if you don't know the answer to something it can be scary in a am I normal kind of way?

And unless someone tells you it's natural you worry that it's not.

hope this helps.

thanks Tammy -- interesting post -- interesting thread .

I am somewhat baffled as to how why a lady might feel awkward about her ' wetness ' when it is the clients hope and intention to produce this very result.Surely,it can only be interpreted as a positive by the client and an endorsement that there is at least some reality in the intimacy of the experience which the lady is offering.

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thanks Tammy -- interesting post -- interesting thread .

I am somewhat baffled as to how why a lady might feel awkward about her ' wetness ' when it is the clients hope and intention to produce this very result.Surely,it can only be interpreted as a positive by the client and an endorsement that there is at least some reality in the intimacy of the experience which the lady is offering.

Did you know that the orgasm can create feelings in a womans body that remarkably resemble the same feelings as the need to urinate?

:o

So when you are unsure of yourself, and possibly question the wetness...

I'll let you work the rest out for yourself. :(

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Nats, do you really think if he asked her she would give him an honest answer?

For example similar to it:

1 Darling: I overdone with my KY there, and don't know you found out about my "artificial wetness".

2 Babes: I've got a sponge down my fanny, because I am on my period and don't you to feel it with your fingers or tongue.

3 Honi: I just don't like you fingering me or go down on me, because you are crap in it...

4 Luv: If you will touch my fanny right now, I will cum instantly, and then I will be useless to attend to your needs further, as I just will asleep after straigh away.

Somehow, I think not! ;)

Haha! Xenia you are probably right lol ;):D

I like your excuses they made me laugh :)

Number 1 does sound more like it or could be number 2 :) xxx

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