RhiaCharles

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In the US, (well, in most states) because of the illegal status of paid-for-sex, most ladies have a system set up whereby clients have to be screened to ensure they are not cops and of course lunatics. This involves having the client's real name, work website, work number and ID shown on arrival. They also ask for references from other SP's (they use the term service providers). I have toured in the States and the checks were totally accepted by every one I met. I have also, and still do talk to other SP's to determine someone's authenticity especially if they have said they have seen someone I know.

I think this may possibly happen here if the law changes - even though Labour are out.... Gents, would you be willing to bare all or just give up your hobby totally?

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I could never give up on my hobby !

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In the US, (well, in most states) because of the illegal status of paid-for-sex, most ladies have a system set up whereby clients have to be screened to ensure they are not cops and of course lunatics. This involves having the client's real name, work website, work number and ID shown on arrival. They also ask for references from other SP's (they use the term service providers). I have toured in the States and the checks were totally accepted by every one I met. I have also, and still do talk to other SP's to determine someone's authenticity especially if they have said they have seen someone I know.

I think this may possibly happen here if the law changes - even though Labour are out.... Gents, would you be willing to bare all or just give up your hobby totally?

I wouldn't have a problem with this, but it might be a bit hard on a copper who enjoys the odd punt!

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Well wouldnt want my life story, name, address, etc. published to the world...

But I dont mind someone phoning up and checking me out if they are concerned for their safety. I do the same by reviewing FRs, asking for info on here, etc to make sure Im safe when punting..Why shouldnt she?...

And since I usually punt in a localised area, the local parlours probably know more about me than I do :eek:

Ive been asked for "references" before....but only once to make sure Im genuine. And if she asks if Im on here or who to ask for "references" then I'll tell them.

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In the US, (well, in most states) because of the illegal status of paid-for-sex, most ladies have a system set up whereby clients have to be screened to ensure they are not cops and of course lunatics. This involves having the client's real name, work website, work number and ID shown on arrival. They also ask for references from other SP's (they use the term service providers). I have toured in the States and the checks were totally accepted by every one I met. I have also, and still do talk to other SP's to determine someone's authenticity especially if they have said they have seen someone I know.

I think this may possibly happen here if the law changes - even though Labour are out.... Gents, would you be willing to bare all or just give up your hobby totally?

I would never give my real details to strangers who could be dishonest for all i knew. Blackmail is also a possibility here so for my personal security and safety i wouldnt do this even if it was the law which i couldnt envisage coming in, its been proved time and again personal data on people gets leaked the whole time.

The Agency Stansted Escorts posted on here last year that they required a electoral roll check before allowing punters to punt with their WGs, they certainly would never get my business.

So i would punt with the many WGs who wouldnt want their involvement in punting to be known by others, IMO this would be a lot of ladies. In punting there will always be a way round giving your details.:eek:

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I would be very wary about giving away full personal information about myself. But I would have no problem about you talking to other ladies that I have seen.

Although that doesnt help a first-timer.

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I think this may possibly happen here if the law changes - even though Labour are out.... Gents, would you be willing to bare all or just give up your hobby totally?

If HH and gang have their evil way, then, yes, I rather think that that is the way I / we will have to go.

Probably it is rather like getting into the swimming pool in May - you hover nervously before (finally) diving in, and, actually, it isn't as cold as you feared! When you go away with a lady, passports need to be shewn, and you are going to seem a very odd couple if each hands over his/her passport furtively and separately!

But much like a punter's first FR, how will a first timer, a virgin, if you will, establish his bona fides?

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Its a tricky one but I guess once you have done your research on both sides all should be well. For instance, I dont think a cop would take the trouble to put together a comprehensive website. A quick ad on craigslist is the usual way to hook the bait I believe. When I popped over to illegal shores (not that I did anything remotely illegal of course, your honour; moral turpitude is so not my shade :) I did ask my dinner date for his ID (how rude is that? :eek: and I also asked if he had any inclination towards law inforcement. The poor chap asked me the same questions and gifted me with a birthday card. It must be a nightmare to have assignations over there. I have a few friends who work like this all the time in the states. I think we are very lucky here.

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I would never give my real details to strangers who could be dishonest for all i knew. Blackmail is also a possibility here so for my personal security and safety i wouldnt do this even if it was the law which i couldnt envisage coming in, its been proved time and again personal data on people gets leaked the whole time.

Exactly. Girls enter the sex industry because they are skint, in debt, and need money. Therefore, I would urge all punters to question the wisdom of setting themselves up for potential blackmail.

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Exactly. Girls come into the sex industry because they are skint, in debt, and need money. Therefore, I would urge all punters to question the wisdom of setting themselves up for potential blackmail.

This is why in 26 years i have never done an Outcall to my home, i happily use a hotel instead. I would say it must be a minute number that go in for Blackmail which is of course a serious crime, but i just wouldnt take the risk personally.

Quite rightly WGs need to feel safe and secure but i wont be giving away my safety and security, no way.:eek:

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Exactly. Girls enter the sex industry because they are skint, in debt, and need money. Therefore, I would urge all punters to question the wisdom of setting themselves up for potential blackmail.

So what would you do then, if you lived in the US and that was the only way to see an lady?

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Exactly. Girls enter the sex industry because they are skint, in debt, and need money. Therefore, I would urge all punters to question the wisdom of setting themselves up for potential blackmail.

Some also enter it because it's something they think they can "do"........lots of people enter all lines of work because they need the money - in fact the majority of people do just that. They don't however seek out to blackmail the people they come into contact with.

Personally I would say there is more money to be made by building up consistent, regular business than in blackmail and of course we've had many on here tell us how much money we are probably making so no need to go down that route.

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This is why in 26 years i have never done an Outcall to my home, i happily use a hotel instead. I would say it must be a minute number that go in for Blackmail which is of course a serious crime, but i just wouldnt take the risk personally.

Yes, blackmail is an extreme example. But I have seen first hand (yes, first hand) what one WG can do to another WG: little notes through the neighbour's letterboxes "There is a dirty whore at number 66 who has AIDs and has perverted men visiting 24 hours a day. Protect your children from disease ..." etc etc. If they will do that to their own sisters, what chance is there for us? :eek:

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Yes, blackmail is an extreme example. But I have seen first hand (yes, first hand) what one WG can do to another WG: little notes through the neighbour's letterboxes "There is a dirty whore at number 66 who has AIDs and has perverted men visiting 24 hours a day. Protect your children from disease ..." etc etc. If they will do that to their own sisters, what chance is there for us? :eek:

Same here. A lovely WG i punted with had all her revealing pictures posted to her parents by a very malicious colleague she had a minor so she thought falling out with.:)

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Some also enter it because it's something they think they can "do"........lots of people enter all lines of work because they need the money - in fact the majority of people do just that. They don't however seek out to blackmail the people they come into contact with.

Personally I would say there is more money to be made by building up consistent, regular business than in blackmail and of course we've had many on here tell us how much money we are probably making so no need to go down that route.

Most WGs are honest in my experience Strawberry but it only takes one bad provider to ruin a punters life, and i certainly understand it works the other way.:eek:

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Some also enter it because it's something they think they can "do"........lots of people enter all lines of work because they need the money - in fact the majority of people do just that. They don't however seek out to blackmail the people they come into contact with.

Personally I would say there is more money to be made by building up consistent, regular business than in blackmail and of course we've had many on here tell us how much money we are probably making so no need to go down that route.

Very few WGs would blackmail punters. Very few men would rape a drunken woman hitchhiking on a quiet country road late on a Saturday night. But few women would be foolish enough to do that. They would take a taxi. D'oh!

It's all about exposing yourself to risk. Some people are happy to keep the risk to an absolute minimum.

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Yes, blackmail is an extreme example. But I have seen first hand (yes, first hand) what one WG can do to another WG: little notes through the neighbour's letterboxes "There is a dirty whore at number 66 who has AIDs and has perverted men visiting 24 hours a day. Protect your children from disease ..." etc etc. If they will do that to their own sisters, what chance is there for us? :eek:

Dont think thats its just wg who stoop to that level, clients do too. I know (yes first hand) of fellas who do the same sort of thing, likewise massage parlours in small towns who dont like indies setting up. Some people are nasty, girls, fellas, parlour owners, thats just the way it is unfortunately, but please dont run away with the idea that all wg's are like that, as I am sure you are not either teabag eh?

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My own experience is to stick to well known and well reviewed Independant Escorts which I think reduces risk.

Providing everything about me such as home address, place of work would make me think twice and I'd have to be 100% sure that she was entirely genuine before revealing this sort of detail. Identity theft does happen and I'd hate to think that my details had been sold on and I'd been cloned :eek:. In one instance, I did provide personal information as part of the ladies own check. Before I gave the information I did thorough research on her before I made the booking, so was satisifed that she was legitimate.

I have been asked to give details of a previous lady I'd seen to an Escort as part of her security check. Before giving this out I checked with the lady concerned. This was out of courtesy and secondly to ensure that she was okay to reveal the fact I'd been a client.

I never make bookings close to home, always out of the area and always do my research and try to mitigate risk. If god forbid I was ever blackmailed I'd go straight to the Police and suffer the indignity and stress of the investigation. Not pleasant but blackmailers never stop until they have got everything. Although I cannot see what the blackmailer would hope to gain from me. I'm not an MP, High Court Judge, or an A list celeb. Just an ordinary bloke doing an ordinary job trying to make a living like a lot of people.

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Dont think thats its just wg who stoop to that level, clients do too. I know (yes first hand) of fellas who do the same sort of thing, likewise massage parlours in small towns who dont like indies setting up. Some people are nasty, girls, fellas, parlour owners, thats just the way it is unfortunately, but please dont run away with the idea that all wg's are like that, as I am sure you are not either teabag eh?

I couldn't run away with anything - not with my gammy leg. Other than that one point, I find us in agreement! Perhaps it's the beginning of an entente cordiale. Before you know it we'll be sipping Pimms in your garden while picking the petals off daisies.

"He loves me. He loves me not ..."

"She loves me. She loves me not ..."

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So what would you do then, if you lived in the US and that was the only way to see an lady?

But it isn't. Last time I was in Washington D.C. I went into a bar which was frequented by hookers. A pleasant blonde approached me, we cut a deal over a bowl on peanuts and then went back to her place.

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There is no way that I would participate in such a scheme.

Lets face it, we have all seen a few bitch queens coming through Punternet over the years who have kissed and told wholesale!! :eek:

We have also seen some decidedly dodgy punters too.

Therefore a little bit of privacy works in both sides favour.

IF this became mandatory then I would set up a web-based service a bit like the CRB where for a small fee I would do relevant checks to prove that each party was who they said they are and give them a Punter or WG number that on reference to my web-site would give that reassurance. That way ladies could check out bona fide customers and punters could punt knowing the lady was legally safe for them to punt.

I would call it PunterVet (Trademark of Ghenghis) (Copyright of Ghenghis)

However I think the current law is going to be changed.

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A pleasant blonde approached me, we cut a deal over a bowl on peanuts and then went back to her place.

... and then, once I'd paid and taken my trousers off, she produced her badge, and the door flew open and ten large men rushed in waving guns and ...

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I seem to remember reading a thread about a WG who threatened a punter for wasting her time, and demanded that he paid £30 to her maid, and if he didn't pay her, she would report him to his employer, as he had mistakenly used his work phone, with work answerphone recording, to book her and then cancel.

If some less trustworthy WG's had your work details, full ID etc, and they were short of £ to service their drug habit, or to pay their rent, or to pay their pimp, then the consequences could be horrible.

Trust etc. works both ways.

I had to give my ID to an agency before they would accept a booking, I just hope they destroyed the information as soon as they registered me.

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