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Well i saw a WG last week and she told me that i should get a girlfriend, well i met this WG last week she was very nice i had a great time but whilst i was resting after round one we got talking, she asked if i had a girlfriend then told me that i should get a girlfriend i then explained i was not looking for one and then when i was getting changed we where talking again about general things then she said it again.

Was she trying to tell me not to see her again in a subtle way? or was she just giving some life advice. please could someone give me some advice on this because this has been playing on my mind since seeing her.

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You are probably best to email the girl in question and ask for an honest answer.

Without knowing you, or the girl in question, or the exact conversation I don't think anyone can give you the answer you are looking for.

There could be loads of reasons why she said it... but as we weren't flys on the wall during your punt I don't think its exactly right to speculate.

If it is playing on your mind, I would email the girl

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Hi

Well i saw a WG last week and she told me that i should get a girlfriend, well i met this WG last week she was very nice i had a great time but whilst i was resting after round one we got talking, she asked if i had a girlfriend then told me that i should get a girlfriend i then explained i was not looking for one and then when i was getting changed we where talking again about general things then she said it again.

Was she trying to tell me not to see her again in a subtle way? or was she just giving some life advice. please could someone give me some advice on this because this has been playing on my mind since seeing her.

As Carissa advised best to ask her. Its a natural subject to come up at a punt so i wouldnt worry about it necessasarily meaning she was hinting that she didnt want to punt with you again.:D

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Hi

Well i saw a WG last week and she told me that i should get a girlfriend, well i met this WG last week she was very nice i had a great time but whilst i was resting after round one we got talking, she asked if i had a girlfriend then told me that i should get a girlfriend i then explained i was not looking for one and then when i was getting changed we where talking again about general things then she said it again.

Was she trying to tell me not to see her again in a subtle way? or was she just giving some life advice. please could someone give me some advice on this because this has been playing on my mind since seeing her.

She probably just meant get a girlfriend. I would not read too much into conversations around punting as its the equivalent to your hair dresser asking how your day has been or are you going anywhere nice, truth is there not even interested but it beats awkward silences.

But after all said and done I would get a girlfriend and stop wasting your money on prostitutes;)

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When it first happened i thought you no a little chit chat like your hairdresser but then it hit me what a weird thing to say its like going to a hairdresser she does your hair then at the end of it says you might as well just shave all your have off yourself.

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Hi

Well i saw a WG last week and she told me that i should get a girlfriend, well i met this WG last week she was very nice i had a great time but whilst i was resting after round one we got talking, she asked if i had a girlfriend then told me that i should get a girlfriend i then explained i was not looking for one and then when i was getting changed we where talking again about general things then she said it again.

Was she trying to tell me not to see her again in a subtle way? or was she just giving some life advice. please could someone give me some advice on this because this has been playing on my mind since seeing her.

How old are you? It may be (if you're quite young) that she was suggesting your energies would be better put to forming RL relationships than getting too heavily involved in the unreality of readily-available shagging.

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Hi

Well i saw a WG last week and she told me that i should get a girlfriend, well i met this WG last week she was very nice i had a great time but whilst i was resting after round one we got talking, she asked if i had a girlfriend then told me that i should get a girlfriend i then explained i was not looking for one and then when i was getting changed we where talking again about general things then she said it again.

Is this just the one WG?

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Yea just the one WG seeing her the first time.

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Hi

Well i saw a WG last week and she told me that i should get a girlfriend, well i met this WG last week she was very nice i had a great time but whilst i was resting after round one we got talking, she asked if i had a girlfriend then told me that i should get a girlfriend i then explained i was not looking for one and then when i was getting changed we where talking again about general things then she said it again.

Was she trying to tell me not to see her again in a subtle way? or was she just giving some life advice. please could someone give me some advice on this because this has been playing on my mind since seeing her.

Maybe she thought you were such a smashing bloke that she couldn't understand why your single, yes I've had the same thing mentioned In conversation when I told her I was single, I wouldn't read to much Into It, the lady was probally just making small talk.

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Maybe she thought you were such a smashing bloke that she couldn't understand why your single, yes I've had the same thing mentioned In conversation when I told her I was single, I wouldn't read to much Into It, the lady was probally just making small talk.

Or she liked you and was fishing for you to ask her out. It does happen

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yep hairdresser type chit chat by the sound of it, if she was interested in you a different approach would have been used, given that it was your first encounter with her, it was nt even a profound physcological judgement .

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It would be the sort of thing i would say if i thought they client was really nice, as in "You're lovely, you'd make a good boyfriend". OR maybe she was maybe making a subtle hint for you to take her out as a girlfriend...? you never know.

But i think she meant it as you are wasted being single, in that you'd make a lovely boyfriend :-) xx

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It would be the sort of thing i would say if i thought they client was really nice, as in "You're lovely"

Wow! thats what a nice young escort said to me recently. Have I clicked?

She did follow it up with "do you have lots of money"

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I had my first punt recently too. The lady also asked me if I had a girlfriend. I said that I didn't and she looked at me shocked and said, "Why not?" and then proceeded to give me lots of advice on how I should go about trying to find someboy. I wasn't moaning about being single - I'm honestly not looking for anybody at the moment - but that was just how the conversation went. I found it a bit of a turn on, to be honest. It was like she was interested in me and genuinely cared (yes, I know - that's what she's paid for yada, yada).

As with many things in life, how you are feeling affects how you perceive things and how you interpret what people say to you. If you're feeling low in self-esteem then you will more likely perceive things negatively than if you were in a happier frame of mind. She could say exactly the same thing to two different people and both could walkaway with completely different interpretations.

I think the lady you saw was trying to make you feel comfortable. She sounds nice. I wouldn't worry about it at all.

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What she meant is easy to work out

She said for you to get a girlfriend-so you get one and take her with yo to next session with WG

Obvious the WG clearly runs both ways and would like a threesome

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What she meant is easy to work out

She said for you to get a girlfriend-so you get one and take her with yo to next session with WG

Obvious the WG clearly runs both ways and would like a threesome

Either the insight of a modern punting genius or the ravings of a lunatic. I've no idea,

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Anno what is going on here, you want us to tell you that the girl really really liked you for you and not your wallet and was hinting at you that she wanted more.

Reality is she has a memory of a goldfish, or ran out of things to say.

S x

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Suggesting a punter should "get a girlfriend" is equivalent to her being told "Surely a nice girl like you doesn't have to do this?" It shows a lack of respect, tolerance and understanding.

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Wow! thats what a nice young escort said to me recently. Have I clicked?

She did follow it up with "do you have lots of money"

Your In there fella! :confused:

Suggesting a punter should "get a girlfriend" is equivalent to her being told "Surely a nice girl like you doesn't have to do this?" It shows a lack of respect, tolerance and understanding.

I'm guessing It wasn't ment In a negative way, like Kirsty19 said, It's something she might say to a guy she thought was nice, so It could be ment and taken as a compliment, If the punter can attract a gf If he so wishes, but If he Is hopeless or scared of women outside WG's then maybe he would feel sad.

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Suggesting a punter should "get a girlfriend" is equivalent to her being told "Surely a nice girl like you doesn't have to do this?" It shows a lack of respect, tolerance and understanding.

Fuck me the head of MI5's Linguistics department has hacked tea Bags account:rolleyes:

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Your In there fella! :confused:

I'm guessing It wasn't ment In a negative way, like Kirsty19 said, It's something she might say to a guy she thought was nice, so It could be ment and taken as a compliment, If the punter can attract a gf If he so wishes, but If he Is hopeless or scared of women outside WG's then maybe he would feel sad.

Hi Jerboa. Yes, she may not have meant it in a negative way, but we all know the road to Hell is paved with good intentions. Bernard Manning was simply trying to make people laugh, wasn't he? The Nazi's were merely trying to build a better nation, weren't they? Harold Shipman was just trying to bring a bit of pain relief to a few old folks, wasn't he?

We should not forget the victim here! The girl's comments have left Thebandit's head spinning with confusion after his first ever punt. All he wanted was a quick blowie and a shag - not psychological warfare!

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I think it is a little unfair to equate the WG with racist comedians, far right political parties guilty of genocide and everyone's favourite homicidal GP, good ole Doc Shipman. :confused:

I'm sure WG's comments were probably meaningless chit chat, intended to be complementary if anything. You'll bounce back thebandit!

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Agree with Tea Bag, but disagree with using extreme examples. The WG should not nose into the punter's life, and vice versa.

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Suggesting a punter should "get a girlfriend" is equivalent to her being told "Surely a nice girl like you doesn't have to do this?" It shows a lack of respect, tolerance and understanding.

Agree with Tea > can someone please make it a item in the WG basic practice training manual not to ask any of the following at a first meeting:

  • How often do you do this?
  • Where did you see me?
  • Are you married /engaged / do you have a girlfriend?

in return, I will promise never to ask:

  • How often do you do this?
  • Why do you do this?
  • Are you married /engaged / do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

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The "Where did you see me?" isn't being nosey, it's finding out which adverts are working and which aren't worth the bother. :confused:

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