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Are Overnights just sleeping and a bit of sex or do you do more?

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I do many overnights; most include dinner and/or a trip out to a concert/some other event as well as sex and sleeping. ;)

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Overnights normally include a meal a trip out sleep and sex,

but on occassion you get the 'fun' of sitting indoors, sex, sex, listen to all their mental problems, try to sleep but have someone poking you or playing with your hair or stroking your face, they cry for awhile, sex sex, more poking and stroking, a bit more depressing moaning on their part about how their life is so bad, followed by slobbering over your face, licking your make up off, sweat dripping in your eyes, sex more poking and sex until finally you give up trying to get any sleep at all as they just wont leave you alone and you lay there praying for daylight.

Its why I hate overnights.

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I've obviously missed out on the crying and the slobbering pmsl! ;) Is it an age thing, d'ye think?

*wanders off to check daniellexx's profile*

I see you're over a decade younger than me... is it older or younger clients that do this? I've honestly never had that.

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I love overnight bookings a few drinks lovely meal and getting to know each other no rush some guys want plenty of sex others holding each other in the morning for them is a bonus everyone has different tastes Annaxxxx

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sex, sex, listen to all their mental problems, try to sleep but have someone poking you or playing with your hair or stroking your face, they cry for awhile, sex sex, more poking and stroking, a bit more depressing moaning on their part about how their life is so bad, followed by slobbering over your face, licking your make up off, sweat dripping in your eyes, sex more poking and sex until finally you give up trying to get any sleep at all as they just wont leave you alone and you lay there praying for daylight.

Tell me about it.

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Overnights should really include a meal or show or both, you can't expect the lady to stay in the room for 12hrs.......;)

Much like a date really :)

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Overnights normally include a meal a trip out sleep and sex,

but on occassion you get the 'fun' of sitting indoors, sex, sex, listen to all their mental problems, try to sleep but have someone poking you or playing with your hair or stroking your face, they cry for awhile, sex sex, more poking and stroking, a bit more depressing moaning on their part about how their life is so bad, followed by slobbering over your face, licking your make up off, sweat dripping in your eyes, sex more poking and sex until finally you give up trying to get any sleep at all as they just wont leave you alone and you lay there praying for daylight.

Its why I hate overnights.

AH, so thats why you include rates for 48 hours....

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Based on what overnighters cost and what tends to actually happen I give them a miss

plus if I pay for an hour and the WG is not what I wanted, then its only an hours money lost not a wad

I have had a few O/Nighters and one wanted me to hear her CD's.....

Take it from me they are overrated (not the CDs),

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I've obviously missed out on the crying and the slobbering pmsl! ;) Is it an age thing, d'ye think?

*wanders off to check daniellexx's profile*

I see you're over a decade younger than me... is it older or younger clients that do this? I've honestly never had that.

I have found it is the late 40's - late 50's I have had this problem with. I guess the problem was I gave too much of myself to them during previous shorter bookings and they wrongly assumed I would enjoy listening to their woes. The slobbering was the worst ever. He was above me and it was just dribbling out of his mouth onto my forehead, urgghh *runs off to be sick at the memory*

I am not the most nurturing person when working (As it is something I do all the time due to my son) and having a 20 odd stone bloke crying over and over really irked me.

I am not a therapist nor do I ever want to be and I ended up stopping all contact with him afterwards as seeing an escort was not helping his emotional well being and would never fulfill his needs as he need mental help not physical.

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Based on what overnighters cost and what tends to actually happen I give them a miss

plus if I pay for an hour and the WG is not what I wanted, then its only an hours money lost not a wad

I have had a few O/Nighters and one wanted me to hear her CD's.....

Take it from me they are overrated (not the CDs),

I'm sure if anyone wanted me to hear her CD's I'd say "whats it worth?" ;)

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I have found it is the late 40's - late 50's I have had this problem with. I guess the problem was I gave too much of myself to them during previous shorter bookings and they wrongly assumed I would enjoy listening to their woes. The slobbering was the worst ever. He was above me and it was just dribbling out of his mouth onto my forehead, urgghh *runs off to be sick at the memory*

I am not the most nurturing person when working (As it is something I do all the time due to my son) and having a 20 odd stone bloke crying over and over really irked me.

I am not a therapist nor do I ever want to be and I ended up stopping all contact with him afterwards as seeing an escort was not helping his emotional well being and would never fulfill his needs as he need mental help not physical.

Although I'm not 20 stone and I don't do the crying stuff I have once or twice confided some personal angst to a WG who has given the appearance of being sympathetic. If she gives the pretence of interest then if I'm in that frame of mind I might regard it as part of the service. Some guys get legless and beat up or glass some poor bastard to get rid of some of their pent up emotions; others pay a girl for her time and company and might perhaps unload on her - forgive the pun. Maybe that guy didn't need mental help, just an ephemeral release for his unhappiness: I'm sure you were being richly paid to listen to him, possibly more than a therapist. Have a heart.

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Overnights should really include a meal or show or both, you can't expect the lady to stay in the room for 12hrs.......:)

Much like a date really :)

Overnights are a waste of money in my opinion :rolleyes:

If ladies expect 8 hours of being wined and dined then 2 of shagging they should arrange their fees accordingly, Some of the fee's they dream up are quite comical in all honesty ;)

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I have found it is the late 40's - late 50's I have had this problem with. I guess the problem was I gave too much of myself to them during previous shorter bookings and they wrongly assumed I would enjoy listening to their woes. The slobbering was the worst ever. He was above me and it was just dribbling out of his mouth onto my forehead, urgghh *runs off to be sick at the memory*

I am not the most nurturing person when working (As it is something I do all the time due to my son) and having a 20 odd stone bloke crying over and over really irked me.

I am not a therapist nor do I ever want to be and I ended up stopping all contact with him afterwards as seeing an escort was not helping his emotional well being and would never fulfill his needs as he need mental help not physical.

I've had several overnights, I've been lucky they were great, some ladies shouldn't do them, some punters shouldn't either. Both, (or in one case all) parties should be into having a bit of a mad night. An inital bout of sex then out for a good meal, then a good night out followed by lots of sex plus in my opinion some wine or whatever in the room. Some sleep and then more sex in the morning and a late departure, (with the 2 girl it was one girl dropped off at Piccadilly station at 5pm and the other one in Lincolnshire at 7pm). If you're up for a rollercoaster of a booking then you'll enjoy it, if your a punter who has real hang-ups about what he's doing , you shouldn't do overnights.

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Although I'm not 20 stone and I don't do the crying stuff I have once or twice confided some personal angst to a WG who has given the appearance of being sympathetic. If she gives the pretence of interest then if I'm in that frame of mind I might regard it as part of the service. Some guys get legless and beat up or glass some poor bastard to get rid of some of their pent up emotions; others pay a girl for her time and company and might perhaps unload on her - forgive the pun. Maybe that guy didn't need mental help, just an ephemeral release for his unhappiness: I'm sure you were being richly paid to listen to him, possibly more than a therapist. Have a heart.

Sweetie he was a reg who I gave a great discount to (under £500 for 14 hours).

There are pent up emotions but then there are emotional problems that you cannot expect any non trained person to listen to and feel comfortable with.

I can happily chat about everyday problems but become a bit shocked and lost for words when someone starts on about self harming, thoughts of suicide and thoughts of harming others. I am not trained to deal with that type of dark emotion and to be honest I shouldnt have to deal with it. It made me very uncomfortable and ill at ease.

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Sweetie he was a reg who I gave a great discount to (under £500 for 14 hours).

There are pent up emotions but then there are emotional problems that you cannot expect any non trained person to listen to and feel comfortable with.

I can happily chat about everyday problems but become a bit shocked and lost for words when someone starts on about self harming, thoughts of suicide and thoughts of harming others. I am not trained to deal with that type of dark emotion and to be honest I shouldnt have to deal with it. It made me very uncomfortable and ill at ease.

Yes, that is way way too heavy. He did need proper help.

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Overnights are a waste of money in my opinion :)

If ladies expect 8 hours of being wined and dined then 2 of shagging they should arrange their fees accordingly, Some of the fee's they dream up are quite comical in all honesty ;)

Overnights are not my bag. But I disagree that the fees charged for 10-12 hours of company and sex are over the top. On average they appear to be in the GBP600 to GBP1000 range. Hardly the stuff of dreams and comedy.

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Are Overnights just sleeping and a bit of sex or do you do more?

There was a thread last year from memory entitled Overnights - How much action?

No doubt someone who can dredge it up for you will be along shortly.

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I've only ever booked one overnight. I originally booked a 2 hour session with a girl I'd previously seen 3 times, and during the initial booking emails she offered me a 14 hour overnight for £375. Her 2 hour fee was £200 so I jumped at the chance of 14 hours for very little more.

She said it had been a quiet time for bookings and she was using this to try and pick up some extra work, and hopefully get regular customers.

I found an overnight good in the respect that there was no rush. We spent the first 2 hours in the bedroom, then off down to the bar for a couple of drinks and a chat. I asked if she wanted a meal, but she had already eaten before arriving. I wasn't that hungry so we left it at just drinks.

Back to the room for round 2. We chatted some more while kissing and cuddling, then more sex followed in the early hours. Neither of got any sleep or wanted any sleep, but it did seem like a long night, and there's only so much to chat about. She had slept through the day to prepare for it. I hadn't and was shattered the following day.

Would I book another overnight? No. I prefer a max of 2 hours. Overnight for me is too long.

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Overnights normally include a meal a trip out sleep and sex,

but on occassion you get the 'fun' of sitting indoors, sex, sex, listen to all their mental problems, try to sleep but have someone poking you or playing with your hair or stroking your face, they cry for awhile, sex sex, more poking and stroking, a bit more depressing moaning on their part about how their life is so bad, followed by slobbering over your face, licking your make up off, sweat dripping in your eyes, sex more poking and sex until finally you give up trying to get any sleep at all as they just wont leave you alone and you lay there praying for daylight.

Its why I hate overnights.

Danielle, I understand you had a one or two dreadful overnights meetings, but I can't understand why you hate them all based on the few previous experinces.

I am sure we all had horrible one hour meeting, does not mean you not going to accept them in a future also.

Of course with a quickie 1-2 hours meetings its less possibility when its going to go wrong, but then its less possibility when its going to go right also!

I did had one client almost at the beginning when I started escorting, and he booked me for an overnight in London. It was the most awful night I ever experienced. (it was only my third overnight). When I was travelling back on the train, I said to myself: "never ever overnights again", not just with this guy, with anybody for any amount of money. I could not consider to see anybody for a long meetings after this experience, just because whats happened with this client.

To cut long story short: when he contacted me next time (he always booking overnights), I passed him as a discarded client to my friend Lana. (yes, I know it was horrible thing to do, and she knew it, but prepared to take a challenge). She met him on dosen or so occasions and completely "re-trained" him. He is fine as silk now! I never could do that!

I'don't exactly know how she "re-educated" him, but he completely changed, and I don't dread to see him anymore for a overnight for a last 8 years or so, (at least once in 2 months), neither does Lana.

I should put some kind of epilogue to it, but cant right now.

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Danielle, I understand you had a one or two dreadful overnights meetings, but I can't understand why you hate them all based on the few previous experinces.

I am sure we all had horrible one hour meeting, does not mean you not going to accept them in a future also.

Of course with a quickie 1-2 hours meetings its less possibility when its going to go wrong, but then its less possibility when its going to go right also!

I did had one client almost at the beginning when I started escorting, and he booked me for an overnight in London. It was the most awful night I ever experienced. (it was only my third overnight). When I was travelling back on the train, I said to myself: "never ever overnights again", not just with this guy, with anybody for any amount of money. I could not consider to see anybody for a long meetings after this experience, just because whats happened with this client.

To cut long story short: when he contacted me next time (he always booking overnights), I passed him as a discarded client to my friend Lana. (yes, I know it was horrible thing to do, and she knew it, but prepared to take a challenge). She met him on dosen or so occasions and completely "re-trained" him. He is fine as silk now! I never could do that!

I'don't exactly know how she "re-educated" him, but he completely changed, and I don't dread to see him anymore for a overnight for a last 8 years or so, (at least once in 2 months), neither does Lana.

I should put some kind of epilogue to it, but cant right now.

I'd like some more reeducation from Lana but sadly I'm broke.

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Most of the overnights I have had have been good fun sex, meal more sex etc, I think its important for the guy and the girl to have had a shorter appointment at some time before the overnight so your comfortable to be with that person for that length of time.

Shelly :)

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Why not have an 'overday' instead of overnight. If I was going to do it I'd like to meet her about 8am ish and finish about 10pm.

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I do like the unrushed ambience of overnights but really being a one-pop guy I really can't justify the expense when it comes down to it. Generally the only 'extra' from a dinner date (at usually about twice the price) is an extra quickie in the morning before the date ends.

I did half wonder about bookng for a dinner date and then another seperate booking for the girl to come back for an hour in the morning but that would really be taking the pee. :)

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Why not have an 'overday' instead of overnight. If I was going to do it I'd like to meet her about 8am ish and finish about 10pm.

This is what i do with a variation. I book a 121 at around 10am then go to a party at 1pm and leave their at 9pm, or same time for the 121, party 1-6pm and have another 121 at 8 or 9pm. Both scenarios cost no more than £460-480 and i would have got to shag up to 9 ladies during the day (body willing) and been very well fed at the party.:)

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