Frank Smith

Do you have a girl you always go and see?

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A usual basically. I decided to do a few punts in the Watford area. 3 times I went to Watford, paying big money and I was heavilly dissapointed. More dissapointed than I have ever been because of the money involved. As the credit crunch as hit and my funds are low, I have found myself going to the same person over again just to now I am getting the full bang for my buck.

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If a punter is lucky, he will find a lady who he thinks is wonderful, rings all his bells, and gets on with well. If he is so lucky, and I have been, then he will prefer to spend his time (and money) with her, if and when he can, rather than chancing his luck.

To me, that is common sense, but I entirely appreciate that there are among us many for whom variety is the spice of life. To them, I wish joy, but that isn't my road!

You pays your money and you takes your choice?

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i have 4 or 5 ladies i see on a regular basis,each of who i always feel i have a great time with.i also see other new ladies as they take my fancy,which in 2010 has led to me seeing about 8 new ladies for the first time and have had repeat visits or intend to have repeat visits with all of them.

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Hi Frank,

Out of interest who did you see in Watford - there are some gr8 girls there?

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Ihave been seeing the same girl most weeks for 3 years. Unfortunately she is retiring in august to take up a secretarial career.

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Hi Frank,

Out of interest who did you see in Watford - there are some gr8 girls there?

From the other site, can't find their names now. Some "Indian" girl and 2 others who were both eastern European. One felt like I was having sex with a corpse it was that bad.

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A usual basically. I decided to do a few punts in the Watford area. 3 times I went to Watford, paying big money and I was heavilly dissapointed. More dissapointed than I have ever been because of the money involved. As the credit crunch as hit and my funds are low, I have found myself going to the same person over again just to now I am getting the full bang for my buck.

How much was this big money per punt Frank? Did these 3 WGs have FRs on here? Will you be doing FRs so other punters are aware of these ladies and/or naming them on here?

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there have only been 2 girls who i have seen that i would be happy to always see and both of them have retired

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How much was this big money per punt Frank? Did these 3 WGs have FRs on here? Will you be doing FRs so other punters are aware of these ladies and/or naming them on here?

Well, I'm still young but all of them cost atleast £80 and the Indian one was £120. I did look up field reports. For one of the EU girls, she generally had good feedback and kept on commenting on her profile how her pics were genuine and so on. As I said before, the feedback and FR's were generally good, but there were a few off ones suggesting that the place was an establishment, not a indie and the woman looked nothing like the lady in the photos (thought there were much more, 3-1 ratio, saying the opposite), but she replied to them all saying "early morning, did not have makeup", "fake user, never seen you before" and so on.

I thought I would chance it. When looking for the place she sounded very boring and came across rude on the phone and when I got there it was no different. She did A but even that felt uneventful.

The Indian one I went to, did not have much feedback but what was there was good, she had a video and actually did look quite the part in real life. I emailed before asking for a dom session, strap ons, fisting and so on, the stuff she listed on her do list. Got there, I spent the first ten minutes trying to explain to her what I wanted her to do. I thought she would just get on with it, like everyone else, but she wanted me to go though each step, how much time and so on. Turned out she never done dom, had no idea what she was doing and just hand some handcuffs she could not work. It was so awkward, I did cum and when I did, about 20 minutes in, she stopped. Questiond why, and she told me that it was cum once in a dom session, no matter the time booked.

Boy did I feel cheated, put me of the Watford area.

Edit: Misread your post. Thought you asked if there was FR's. Yeah, I will be doing some if I can find the names of these ladies.

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Yes i have a regular who i try and see every 2/3 week

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From the other site, can't find their names now. Some "Indian" girl and 2 others who were both eastern European. One felt like I was having sex with a corpse it was that bad.

i find it very hard to believe that you can't recall any of their names and £80 certainly isn't 'big money'.

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i find it very hard to believe that you can't recall any of their names and £80 certainly isn't 'big money'.

Well big money is relative but I was disappointed you overlooked several warning signs and still went through with the bookings.

No doubt an earlier post praising some Watfod WGs is correct and perhaps that poster could suggests some by PM if you ask him?

(I will admit the person who has most intrigued me in Watford is in a category not to be discussed on Punternet...)

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Sorry to hear you have had a shite time of it.xx

If you are looking for specialist services then it is no good just looking at the ladies regular punt fr,s, you need to drudge through them all to see if they have any fr,s for the particular things you want im afraid. If there is no mention of any of the services you like in any of her fr,s then she may not have done it yet. You do have to keep in mind though that a lot of guys who have fetish services do not do fr,s about them. I have lost count of the number of domination/strap on clients i have seen but i only have a few reports that mention it and i think only two that are of an actual dom session.x

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i find it very hard to believe that you can't recall any of their names and £80 certainly isn't 'big money'.

I'd be surprised if you can find a quality punt for £80ph. Not impossible mind you but weeding out the low price quality punts on the other site requires time and effort and going on your gut feel - you've got to be prepared for things not going to plan and just write it off and not dwell on it.

At the risk of sounding patronising Frank, you say you are quite young so funds are low but if you can't afford to do this properly I don't think you're going to get much enjoyment out of this.

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At the risk of sounding patronising Frank, you say you are quite young so funds are low but if you can't afford to do this properly I don't think you're going to get much enjoyment out of this.

But it is when you are younger that your willy surely will rule your wallet more,

I would suggest that he has less regular punts but pays more per hour, spend the time doing his research more carefully and perhaps only visit ladies with 95% posative fr,s to their name, visiting someone with a 1 in 3 ratio means you are going to stand a good chance of being the 1 in the 3 that does not have a good time.x

Or visit ladies for a 30 minute booking the first time round which is cheaper but will still give him a good idea of what the lady is like.x

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I have 3 regulars who never disappoint. Although I am now semi retired and have moved 350 miles from the area I still do my best to visit. Don't you believe that the younger you are the more your wallet is ruled by your willy. It gets worse (better?) as you get older but you need the right girl. Hence my 700 mile round trips to my three lovelies. Next trip on Wednesday!

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I'd be surprised if you can find a quality punt for £80ph. Not impossible mind you but weeding out the low price quality punts on the other site requires time and effort and going on your gut feel - you've got to be prepared for things not going to plan and just write it off and not dwell on it.

At the risk of sounding patronising Frank, you say you are quite young so funds are low but if you can't afford to do this properly I don't think you're going to get much enjoyment out of this.

Funds are a bit low, I know £80 is not a lot, but it was around £300 spent in 4 days. Yeah, there is a massive difference between £500 an hour and £80 an hour, but I am not too sure how good of an experience that really is. The girl I usually see for £80 does an excellent massage, biting my neck and everything, great oral, good sex and I am always pleased, and the most beautiful girl, literally, I have ever seen in person was £50 for half hour, gave great oral, the best by far, ever, great kissing and just too god damn beautiful. It is actually constantly on my mind, the fact I will never see her again (despite still using her name, the lady running the place said she went back home).

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But it is when you are younger that your willy surely will rule your wallet more,

That is just so not true ;)

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Since I moved and decided not to visit girls locally, no I don't. For a period of time in the 90s I did have girls I saw on a regular basis.

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Well, I'm still young but all of them cost atleast £80 and the Indian one was £120. I did look up field reports. For one of the EU girls, she generally had good feedback and kept on commenting on her profile how her pics were genuine and so on. As I said before, the feedback and FR's were generally good, but there were a few off ones suggesting that the place was an establishment, not a indie and the woman looked nothing like the lady in the photos (thought there were much more, 3-1 ratio, saying the opposite), but she replied to them all saying "early morning, did not have makeup", "fake user, never seen you before" and so on.

I thought I would chance it. When looking for the place she sounded very boring and came across rude on the phone and when I got there it was no different. She did A but even that felt uneventful.

The Indian one I went to, did not have much feedback but what was there was good, she had a video and actually did look quite the part in real life. I emailed before asking for a dom session, strap ons, fisting and so on, the stuff she listed on her do list. Got there, I spent the first ten minutes trying to explain to her what I wanted her to do. I thought she would just get on with it, like everyone else, but she wanted me to go though each step, how much time and so on. Turned out she never done dom, had no idea what she was doing and just hand some handcuffs she could not work. It was so awkward, I did cum and when I did, about 20 minutes in, she stopped. Questiond why, and she told me that it was cum once in a dom session, no matter the time booked.

Boy did I feel cheated, put me of the Watford area.

Edit: Misread your post. Thought you asked if there was FR's. Yeah, I will be doing some if I can find the names of these ladies.

For a young guy you have a very bad memory if you cant recall the names of these WGs, i hope their names come to you so you can do FRs on them.

As £80-120 is big money to you IMO that is even more reason to do your research that i and others have mentioned before on your previous threads where the end result was poor. If a lady came across as rude on the phone i always take that as a very bad sign and leave it at that and go elsewhere. In the Watford and surrounding areas there are no lack of WGs so you have plenty of choice.

My advice is to save up a bit more and go and punt with one of the many great Indies in Herts, i know you like Anal and i have already in the past recommended one very highly rated lady who offers it, in fact she has the 6th most FRs on Pnet now, Shanelle of St Albans, actually near the Galleria in Hatfield.

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If a punter is lucky, he will find a lady who he thinks is wonderful, rings all his bells, and gets on with well. If he is so lucky, and I have been, then he will prefer to spend his time (and money) with her, if and when he can, rather than chancing his luck.

To me, that is common sense, but I entirely appreciate that there are among us many for whom variety is the spice of life. To them, I wish joy, but that isn't my road!

You pays your money and you takes your choice?

I've had several "regulars" over my years of punting. My current lady I've been visiting for over two years and though I've sampled the market on occasions I always return because she is fun, attractive ( very IMO ), still manages to excite me and satisfies the mind as well as the body.

All things come to an end eventually so you must keep an eye on other options but for me at the moment, the end is nowhere near nigh !

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If a punter is lucky, he will find a lady who he thinks is wonderful, rings all his bells, and gets on with well. If he is so lucky, and I have been, then he will prefer to spend his time (and money) with her, if and when he can, rather than chancing his luck.

To me, that is common sense, but I entirely appreciate that there are among us many for whom variety is the spice of life. To them, I wish joy, but that isn't my road!

You pays your money and you takes your choice?

Yup, agree with that :rolleyes:

Over my punting life I think Ive had 4 regulars. One I still see a couple of times a month and seeing her for over a year now. One is a massuse, one no longer works and one other who Ive seen a couple of times.

Seen quite a few girls who I wouldnt mind seeing again.

Although having a regular is great and you gauranteed a fantastic time, there are something to watch out for:

you have to be careful not to end up falling for them.

And when your with someone you really like my god does the time fly quickly. Sometimes had a 2 hour or even a 3 hour booking and still run out of time.

You can also start to feel guilty if you havent seen them in a while, so even thou you might be thinking of seeing someone else you end up feeling guilty about not seeing your regular so go and see your regular instead.

And sometimes you dont want to see someone else if your regulars working at the same place on the same day in case you upset her or end up feeling jealous or anxious that shes in the next room with someone else or if no ones sees your regular while your there.

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There are massive advantages and also some potential disadvantages to seeing a girl on a regular basis.

First of all remember that both punters and girls are first and foremost human beings. Even though the girl is at work it would be very hard if not impossible for both parties not to develop a form of relationship, even if it is as basic as improved and excellent customer service. Mutual likes and dislikes no longer need to be discussed, and where either or both parties feel trusting enough discussions about life outside the parlour room/ independant flat etc become the norm. The mutual benefits are obvious.

The danger is when one party starts seeking or hoping for more than the relationship within the room.

If both parties are happy to meet away from work as friends, great.

On the rare occasion that both parties want to form a romantic relationship that is sustainable...wonderful.

But where the balance of hopes and intentions are tilted drastically to one side then problems will always arise.

Moi, I have been guilty of being the chaser and also been the chased, neither was a pleasant experience. Though I have, over the years, made many friends with whom I no longer punt where we have had the balance right.

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I've had regular girls but over time I found out that after around 4 punts with them it's just not the same and is a bit relationshipy. The buzz is not there and you start to know each other too much.

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I saw the same girl nearly every week for 3 years. I would not recommend it to anyone. I think deep down I thought we had something special and I stopped trying to forge relationships with women I met and kidded myself that perhaps next time I booked her we would take it that step further. When I look back she never did anything to build my hopes up it was just me being a silly fool. Every time we ran over I thought it was because she wanted to be with me every time she remembered a personal detail I thought it was because I was special to her.

When she became ill and retired I often wondered what had happened to her only to find out the other day that she owned the parlour that she worked from and was married all the time that I had thought I was going to whisk this poor, single girl off her feet. No wonder she could offer me a discount she probably earned 20 times more than me. Would probably still book her tomorrow though if she returned. Not many 6ft willing beauties come my way these days.

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