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Who knows...?

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(I'm sure this topic has been done before, but meh, sue me :D )

...about your "habit"? Or for the girls, about your job/side-income?

For the girls I'm guessing a couple of close friends, a mum maybe, and possibly your other half.

For the guys, I'm guessing..... pretty much no-one. Or are a lot of you quite open about it amongst friends etc?

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(I'm sure this topic has been done before, but meh, sue me :D )

...about your "habit"? Or for the girls, about your job/side-income?

For the girls I'm guessing a couple of close friends, a mum maybe, and possibly your other half.

For the guys, I'm guessing..... pretty much no-one. Or are a lot of you quite open about it amongst friends etc?

No one. (Well except for the people on here and people Ive visted obviously) :)

Would never tell my friends or family.

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My mother and Father know although I did not tell them (my ex took that pleasure). My Father has denounced me as his daughter for beng a 'Sharmota' (whore). My mother prays for me regularly. My sisters do not know as my mother has asked me not to inform them as it would destroy the family.

My husband and all my close friends know as well as I am not ashamed of what I do.

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On my curriculum vitae (cv) :D

j/k

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Two of my closest friends know but only because both of them have admitted during conversation that they have paid for sex when the need arose. I've then empathised with them by saying that I've done so too. I even mentioned PN to one of them and-surprise, surprise, he already knew about the site :D

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Oh yes, before any girls take offence, I'm not implying that you SHOULD be ashamed of what you do! Far from it. But being fearful of people's reactions though, perferctly natural surely!

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Who knows? No one other than the party with whom I've made the arrangement. Why should they? Perhaps I'm old school but I believe that that matters of intimacy are a private affair. As an elderly, single Gent I have no guilt about it but I wouldn't want to embarrass close friends or family with the information.

I respect their privacy as I wish they do mine.

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Absolutely everyone that knows me unfortunately.

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Having been exposed to my family and friends in a rather spectacular fashion quite a lot of people.

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I told my best mate, and another friend, but I dont broadcast what I get up to, it could come back to haunt you.

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All my friends and my father (but not mother), not one negative reaction which tells me that the public perception of this little hobby is far from the negative impression that the papers seem to think everyone has about it.

I am single and have 'pay as you go' girlfriends, much cheaper in the long run and less hassle than a contract. :)

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I'm sure WG's find it hard to tell but have to tell someone for their own safety :)

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On my curriculum vitae (cv) :)

j/k

with complete references :)

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For the guys, I'm guessing..... pretty much no-one. Or are a lot of you quite open about it amongst friends etc?

No one in my circle of friends and family, to my knowledge, know about my little hobby and thats how I intend to keep it. I've got a friend who told me he has punted in Thailand and he was trying to gauge my reaction. We both agreed there was nothing wrong with it and the most information I gave was that I didn't think there was anything wrong with it whether you were on holiday in Thailand or here in England.

We both suspect the other does use WGs but we tend to joke about it as opposed to discuss it.

Another guy I know, old school friend, let slip that he's seen a few WGs and again he was trying to gauge my reaction. Gave him the same answer above but didn't get into a discussion about it as its a private matter for myself.

I persoanlly don't see it as something to discuss or brag about.

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The only person who knows the whole story is the very nice man who fixes my laptop.

It was easier to just tell him what I do, than to keep deleting things I didn't want him to find! :)

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No one except one person. I feel no need to tell anyone I know; it's none of their business, and I can't see what would be gained by either of us.

I met an ex-colleague of my ex-wife at a party once, so he knows, but it would be rather unlikely for him to tell my ex, and he doesn't know others outside that circle.

It would be nice to have someone to do MFF threesomes with, but there's other things to be getting on with.

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For me the least people that know the better, that way it protects me and my familly given the way society still think.

Shelly

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No one! I think it's best to leave that particular genie in its bottle.

I would love to have someone to talk about punting with, which is presumably the reason I post here. But given how some old friends reacted when I told them I'd come very close to having an affair, I just know how they would react to punting revelations.

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For me the least people that know the better, that way it protects me and my familly given the way society still think.

Shelly

True, who wants to boast about being a WG. :)

Personally, I would not want to know if anyone of my family or friends where one.:)::)

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Having been exposed to my family and friends in a rather spectacular fashion quite a lot of people.

I'm intrigued, are you going to tell us in what manner?

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I have told a few male friends who I have buddied up with in the past and my female friends within the industry know as we work together, other than that no one.

I don't know for sure why it is important to me, perhaps a little hypocritical, but I really want my teenage son to be monogomous in his relationships and feel that apart from perhaps losing respect for me, he may also question how relationships work, so I would be upset if he found out. I'd also likely not be able to do one of my other jobs again if I got found out, as it is one of those jobs that you have to stay squeaky clean for. For this reason I tend to keep my jobs very seperate. My Mum is also very opinionated and a bit of a snob and I think it wouldn't go down well with her.

So, best to keep it to the people that are a little less closed to it and don't think respect comes with closed legs :confused: Or are learning about relationships through my actions.

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As with any other activity I might mention it if the occasion arises. i tend to assume people know what I get up to anyway as I don't have wife or girlfriend and I'm not the sort to be content with sitting at home playing the mandolin.

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Well my best mate knows but sorted of guessed anyway. No one else though. It's nobody else's business plus I wouldn't like it if a girl I fancied found out. I like to keep all my little worlds separate and punting is one of those.

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Having been exposed to my family and friends in a rather spectacular fashion quite a lot of people.

I'm intrigued, are you going to tell us in what manner?

Some years ago when I was narried I started seeing an escort and it started turning into a relationship, at one point fairly early on she had bought a new digital camera and we tried it out taking some fairly intimate photographs. Later on the emails she had sent me with the photos on on and several revealing messages were then sent to my then but soon to be ex wife. As the saying goes the shit it the fan, my wife told lots of friends about it all and once during a phone call to me the kids then aged about 11 & 12 overheard her saying "At least I'm not having sex with a prostitute". I'm sure those members of PN who were on hear 8 years ago will remember it.

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My family, friends, fiance and his family and most of his friends. Anyone I get into conversation with in public. Bank staff, shop staff, anyone who asks. Anyone I overhear in public talking ignorantly about sex work.

I'm about as open as it's possible to get :confused: The only people I don't tell are my neighbours - terms of the lease and all that :D

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