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Personally,the lady's attire is very important to me.By wearing something mouth - watering , be it a simple black no. and heels , a pair of great jeans and a t-shirt, the sharp secreatary look , sexy lingerie etc etc, I love that intake of breath as I think 'WOW' !!

However, I feel somewhat awkward about specifying what I want, partly because;

- I know SFA about fashion and the correct description of specific attire

- I dont want to embarrass the girl by asking for clothes she may not have in her wardrobe

- being too specific may come across as being somewhat ' fetish ' thereby giving the girl some concerns or putting her off

- the girl may have her own ideas on what she feels good in and might not really like what my preferences

Another poster stated that he couldnt count the number of times the WG opened the door in a plain dressing gown !! Never happened to me thank god but it has happened where the lady's has been dressed in a way which causes unnecessary disappointment. Some girls have extensive pictures on their profiles which can make it much easier to chose the particular type of attire that you like in the knowledge that the lady most likely has the outfits and shoes ' in stock '. I would really appreciate if this facility was made more widely available.

So I was wondering of the girls, do you find that it is really only a small number of clients are really bothered with specifying any type of clothing and shoes,how do you cope with those clients that do specify and is it really a bit of a pain having to pander to the individual whims of the client when really you know whats best for you.??

For the guys, how important is this for you or are you really bothered.? If it is important, in your experience have the ladies been more than happy to oblige ? Would you like some assistance so that your requirements can be communicated easily over that short telephone call?

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Agreed -- sexy lingerie can be a huge turn on, a real cock tease:D; high heels, Basques, fishnets -- yes please :) I try and ask if the lady would be willing to indulge in thus; I often take my cue from the profile and pictures :) :)

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well i reckon for next one i am gonna request tight jeans. Yum!

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well i reckon for next one i am gonna request tight jeans. Yum!

Yes, they do look nice, but how the hell do you get them off her?

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Yes, they do look nice, but how the hell do you get them off her?

slowly slowly slowly

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slowly slowly slowly

Lol, getting tight tight jeans off is the most unsexy thing in the whole world!! You can't do it nicely. In fact i can get my wetsuit off in a far more sexier manner than a pair of tight jeans. Even with help!

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Yes its only been a really small number of clients who have asked me to wear a specific kind of clothing. One being to answer the door in some sexy underwear, stockings and heels only and the other to wear a maids outfit.

I ordered said maids outfit from internet and answered the door wearing it. I had already told the client that I had ordered it and hoped it came on time which it did and when the client came in I mentioned how relieved I was that it had turned up on time and he said "oh I was only joking about the outfit". :)

In general though the only time I would roll my eyes if a client requested specific attire would be if it was a uniform as I would feel like a bit of a twit answering the door dressed as a policewoman or something (see above!). Any other request such as those you mentioned are perfectly acceptable. I usually wear a sexy black tight dress and heels but if a client asked me to wear jeans and a t-shirt or something then I would be more than happy to oblige.

I had a request from a gentleman a few weeks ago who was really specific and wanted the secretary look with pencil skirt and seamed stockings and even though I didn't have them I went and got them. So as long as its not something I'm going to have trouble finding then its not a problem at all. :)

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So I was wondering of the girls, do you find that it is really only a small number of clients are really bothered with specifying any type of clothing and shoes,how do you cope with those clients that do specify and is it really a bit of a pain having to pander to the individual whims of the client when really you know whats best for you.??

I have no hesitation whatsoever is pandering to any specific types of clothing, footwear (not strictly true, if I think back to a request for farmyard worn wellingtons for a client to lick and I had to refuse on the grounds of Health and Safety) and have worn some absolutely feckin' ridiculous, mind boggling stuff, all in the name of a client getting off.

What does get my eyes rolling is when a client has been asked if he would like me to dress a certain way, bring anything with me, he hasn't made a request, I arrive in the little black dress then he mentions he would have loved to have seen me in some latex clothing, or a corset, or tan nylons.

The other side of the coin is the client who reqests you bring several outfits you are wearing on you webby images to change into, you cart along a suitcase and he decides he may only want you to change into one of them (which you knew fine well would be the case before you started packing).

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It does seem to be just a few clients that request a specific attire.

Often these relate to roleplay requests, saucy secretary, naughty nurse, French maid, school girl etc.

There are however, clients who just like a certain feel to an outfit, be it soft and silky or hot and sticky pvc!

I am more than happy to oblige as long as enough notice has been given.

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I'm really not bothered what the lady wears, preferably just something that comes off easily, and quickly. :)

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Personally,the lady's attire is very important to me.By wearing something mouth - watering , be it a simple black no. and heels , a pair of great jeans and a t-shirt, the sharp secreatary look , sexy lingerie etc etc, I love that intake of breath as I think 'WOW' !!

However, I feel somewhat awkward about specifying what I want, partly because;

- I know SFA about fashion and the correct description of specific attire

- I dont want to embarrass the girl by asking for clothes she may not have in her wardrobe

- being too specific may come across as being somewhat ' fetish ' thereby giving the girl some concerns or putting her off

- the girl may have her own ideas on what she feels good in and might not really like what my preferences

Another poster stated that he couldnt count the number of times the WG opened the door in a plain dressing gown !! Never happened to me thank god but it has happened where the lady's has been dressed in a way which causes unnecessary disappointment. Some girls have extensive pictures on their profiles which can make it much easier to chose the particular type of attire that you like in the knowledge that the lady most likely has the outfits and shoes ' in stock '. I would really appreciate if this facility was made more widely available.

So I was wondering of the girls, do you find that it is really only a small number of clients are really bothered with specifying any type of clothing and shoes,how do you cope with those clients that do specify and is it really a bit of a pain having to pander to the individual whims of the client when really you know whats best for you.??

For the guys, how important is this for you or are you really bothered.? If it is important, in your experience have the ladies been more than happy to oblige ? Would you like some assistance so that your requirements can be communicated easily over that short telephone call?

Being naked is my ideal so the ladies attire is irrelevant, failing that an all over fishnet body stocking in red and very high porn heels. Obviously the WG might not want to answer the door dressed just like that so i dont mind what she has on then as long as it comes off asap.

Those ladies that tell me on the phone that they dont have a body stocking or porn heels i simply ask them to wear something they consider sexy, sometimes when i get their i dont think it is sexy but seeing as its shortly coming off i am not that fussed as long as everything else is as i am requiring.:);)

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I like to think she's made an effort. An hour of Dior make up and shoes in the photo can be a let down if she arrives looking 'natural.'

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I had a request from a gentleman a few weeks ago who was really specific and wanted the secretary look with pencil skirt and seamed stockings and even though I didn't have them I went and got them. So as long as its not something I'm going to have trouble finding then its not a problem at all. :)

Sounds nice and also that you went to the trouble and also it's something you could wear in other situations perhaps.

I think not stating some sort of preference is almost asking for trouble. Client doesn't think about it until she's about to open the door and then would like to have backdated his request. I'm finding more and more that some indication along specific lines works well. Even if she doesn't follow it exactly, she has an idea of the sort of 'image' in my head for the session.

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I love dressing up, it helps put me in the right frame of mind, so am happy to take requests where possible and as others have said, will try and fulfill requests by buying items when possible as I'm sure it will come in useful another time.

The hardest request I had to fulfill so far was wearing my normal everday clothes, as it meant that I was just 'me'. I guess I felt a bit vunerable and not so sexy. Thankfully the person didn't see it that way and soon put my mind at rest.

Of course it is harder when you are on tour, as you can only take so much with you and it's bound to happen that the one request you get is an item you have left at home.

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I find that fish net's remind me of Rab C Nesbits grubby string vest got to be stockings hold ups at a push other than that I am easy.:)

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I ordered said maids outfit from internet and answered the door wearing it. I had already told the client that I had ordered it and hoped it came on time which it did and when the client came in I mentioned how relieved I was that it had turned up on time and he said "oh I was only joking about the outfit". :)

So you knifed him? Purely as a matter of academic interest, what did you do with the body?

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So you knifed him? Purely as a matter of academic interest, what did you do with the body?

She posted it to me and I cut it into joints.

Fancy a curry? :)

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Personally,the lady's attire is very important to me.

For the guys, how important is this for you or are you really bothered.? If it is important, in your experience have the ladies been more than happy to oblige ? Would you like some assistance so that your requirements can be communicated easily over that short telephone call?

I'm with you on that, how she's dressed is quite a big factor for me. Having said that I've never actually made a request for specific attire, until now that is. I'm seeing a girl on Tuesday who is happy to have photos taken and I've requested one or two things.

well i reckon for next one i am gonna request tight jeans. Yum!

Definitely with you on that one!!

Lol, getting tight tight jeans off is the most unsexy thing in the whole world!! You can't do it nicely. In fact i can get my wetsuit off in a far more sexier manner than a pair of tight jeans. Even with help!

Believe me, it can be done!!! :):):)

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Lol, getting tight tight jeans off is the most unsexy thing in the whole world!! You can't do it nicely. In fact i can get my wetsuit off in a far more sexier manner than a pair of tight jeans. Even with help!

You daft bugger, carissa. now you will get loads of requests for you to wear your wetsuit.

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I'm really not bothered what the lady wears, preferably just something that comes off easily, and quickly. :)

I agree with you- don't want to waste too much time waiting for her clothes to come off.

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So you knifed him? Purely as a matter of academic interest, what did you do with the body?

What a strange thing to say. Have you been watching too much Taggart? :)

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She posted it to me and I cut it into joints.

Fancy a curry? :)

LOL!!! :) x

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Yes its only been a really small number of clients who have asked me to wear a specific kind of clothing........

In general though the only time I would roll my eyes if a client requested specific attire would be if it was a uniform as I would feel like a bit of a twit answering the door dressed as a policewoman or something (see above!). Any other request such as those you mentioned are perfectly acceptable.

...... So as long as its not something I'm going to have trouble finding then its not a problem at all. :)

Thanks Hannah, you have addressed my query.:)

So my understanding from your post is that provided the requests are easy to comply with and they are within normal type dress codes you are happy to comply and thats fine. You do not go in for uniforms and although personally I never request uniforms, I can understand how a punter would feel awkward about requesting you to wear fetish type gear as you are not comfortable with this whilst other WGs might have no problem at all -- how is the guy supposed to know where you draw the line ? He doesnt want to ask for something and be turned down --- he wants the thing to run smoothly.

I have no hesitation whatsoever is pandering to any specific types of clothing, footwear (not strictly true, if I think back to a request for farmyard worn wellingtons for a client to lick and I had to refuse on the grounds of Health and Safety) and have worn some absolutely feckin' ridiculous, mind boggling stuff, all in the name of a client getting off. What does get my eyes rolling is when a client has been asked if he would like me to dress a certain way, bring anything with me, he hasn't made a request, I arrive in the little black dress then he mentions he would have loved to have seen me in some latex clothing, or a corset, or tan nylons.

The other side of the coin is the client who reqests you bring several outfits you are wearing on you webby images to change into, you cart along a suitcase and he decides he may only want you to change into one of them (which you knew fine well would be the case before you started packing).

Thanks Mel :). Now whilst you seem prepared to draw the line much further up the spectrum than say Hannah, you do say that some of the gear that you have worn for clients was ' feckin' ridiculous' .:) Again here, you would be rolling the the eyes and thinking that the guy is a bit of an eejit,albeit you are prepared to go ahead within reason. I presume no punter wants to book a WG who he suspects she is thinking is a bit of an eejit. This is the dilhema.:)

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I like to think she's made an effort. An hour of Dior make up and shoes in the photo can be a let down if she arrives looking 'natural.'

'Fraid I wouldn't be able to supply the shoes - they went back to John Lewis after the photo shoot ;-D

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