bigwang

Intimitaded by the hot/younger girls

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Even though they are hookers and you are paying them adn its a job and transaction do you sometimes get too scared to go for the hottest ones.

For example, I was in Prague and a stunning 18 year old looking student type was there. And I was to shy/embarassed to go up to her so go for older slighlty less attractive women. Then when I got out I see some real old dude go with the cute teen.

Me bieng only just older than her I feel embarassed to go with or approach hot young girls for paid sex. I mean if she was super hot and mid 20s I wouldnt feel that way.

I wish I could just get the balls and then enjoy it. Anyone else no what Im on about and any advice.

I missed out on a few beauties due to it.

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The great thing with this hobby Is you don't need to be embarassed, you pay and the lady Is happy, as long as your not a nutter, or unwashed, drunk why wouldn't you choose the lady you want?

Oh and how was your holiday to Europe? :)

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I thought that was one of the reasons of punting is being able to go for what you would normally be unable to do without paying...fulfilling your fantasies dreams and desires :)

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I'm intimidated full stop, but improving! I think it is a sign of low self esteem.

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Bigwang, if this has happened to you on more than one occasion then you should go for it and get your feet wet. Once you've got your confidence that first time, you'll be ok for the next one. Good luck!

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I feel for you bigwang as I had lots of different hangups about age, looks, race when I first started punting. A woman who used to run sex parties in manchester gave me the confidence to get past them all. She pointed out that it was a commercial transaction and that the vast majority of girls could not care less what you looked like or how old you were. Money, personal hygiene and not being an obvious nutter were all that mattered.

The next time you spot a really beautiful girl force yourself to approach her and you will find she is very welcoming. It will be like all things easier the more often you do it. If you do not just think that the big old hairy man (me) will choose her and surely you would not like that !

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haha I know its crazy off me..but

1. I dont really want to pay for sex. So wouldnt want girl my age to know.

2. I kinda feel sorry for young girls

3. I kinda feel more 'freind' terms with girls my age. And more like talking to them than 'paid for' sex.

4. I think that sex wont be that great. Due to above reasons and her lack of skills, perhaps her embarassment, inexperience etc...

So, maybe thats what put me off the young looking cute ones. It was specifically young ones that were very attractive.

I dunno?

I mean I should take advantage of it. Scoring the hottest girls my age or younger would not be done easily or free anyway. It was really the cute youthful small ones. I mean some 18 year old girls I think I may even been with? but they looked more womanly grown up. But I wouldnt mind the cute ones but kinda feel sorry for them.

Next time I'll think with my dick. Guess thats what happens when you think to much and punt sober.

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Surely you can also be intimidated by an escort who is older than you? I'm always worried that a mature escort who really knows about sex will think I'm crap at going down on her :D

I find the mature escorts know what they want in the bedroom and I just hope I can deliver :)

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I doubt if you are missing much, not picking younger girls, there are exceptions but the ones I have tried have tended to be a bit stiff, awkward, and sometimes absolutely clueless. I personally think anyone under 27 is a risk.

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I doubt if you are missing much, not picking younger girls, there are exceptions but the ones I have tried have tended to be a bit stiff, awkward, and sometimes absolutely clueless. I personally think anyone under 27 is a risk.

Well I musy have been lucky then:

Milena - HoD

Ella - MKEscorts

Megan - Annabellas

Rihanna - Madam Beckys Kittens

Karolina - Madam Beckys Kittens

All under 27 and all have given me a fantastic and full on service.

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I doubt if you are missing much, not picking younger girls, there are exceptions but the ones I have tried have tended to be a bit stiff, awkward, and sometimes absolutely clueless. I personally think anyone under 27 is a risk.

A rather sweeping statement.

I must have been lucky then:

Milena - HoD

Ella - MKEscorts

Megan - Annabellas

Rihanna - Madam Beckys Kittens

Karolina - Madam Beckys Kittens

All under 27 and all have given me a full on and a fantastic raunchy time.

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haha I know its crazy off me..but

1. I dont really want to pay for sex. So wouldnt want girl my age to know.

2. I kinda feel sorry for young girls

3. I kinda feel more 'freind' terms with girls my age. And more like talking to them than 'paid for' sex.

4. I think that sex wont be that great. Due to above reasons and her lack of skills, perhaps her embarassment, inexperience etc...

So, maybe thats what put me off the young looking cute ones. It was specifically young ones that were very attractive.

I dunno?

I mean I should take advantage of it. Scoring the hottest girls my age or younger would not be done easily or free anyway. It was really the cute youthful small ones. I mean some 18 year old girls I think I may even been with? but they looked more womanly grown up. But I wouldnt mind the cute ones but kinda feel sorry for them.

Next time I'll think with my dick. Guess thats what happens when you think to much and punt sober.

You 'think' and 'feel' too much, BW. Give that big wang of yours a chance to have a little fun - and do the thinking for you for awhile, after you have made your donation and removed your clothes - and trust the WG to do her part to make the session a happy one. Once your big brain has passed the torch to your lower little brain, let the good times roll!

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Also do you guys feel embarassed (if perhaps you are ugly or whatever) and they are much more attractive than you.

Do you not feel embarassed them looking at you when having sex.

I aint that bad I just have bad skin and Im really self-consious of it. Why I never approach girls in real life. So, even with the prostitute I dont really want them close to me lookign at my bad skin etc....though in teh brothles some is dark so it aint to bad.

But for example, when in Thailand I was neverous/unconficdent around the girls in daylight, so would only go out at night etc...and discos etc...but come sunrise Id feel real ugly and hide away again haha.

haha I know I maybe crazy!! Just your thoughts?

Do you guys not give a fook?

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Also do you guys feel embarassed (if perhaps you are ugly or whatever) and they are much more attractive than you.

As I understand it the only face that is going to be under any sort of close scrutiny is that of the Queen (Gawd bless yer Marm), and I think she has got over any embarrassment factor by now.

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As I understand it the only face that is going to be under any sort of close scrutiny is that of the Queen (Gawd bless yer Marm), and I think she has got over any embarrassment factor by now.
Now there's a lady who could REALLY pour her heart out on this board!:D

Given her experiences with her assorted daughters-in-law, she could probably use some useful advice from our own dear ladies here. :)

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Also do you guys feel embarassed (if perhaps you are ugly or whatever) and they are much more attractive than you.

Do you not feel embarassed them looking at you when having sex.

Not really because this is basically meant to be a business transaction and not dating so what you look like shouldn't really matter. Show up on time, respectful, with a clean cock and probably most important of all with the money.

I believe that it has been proven that upon receiving sums of money women (WG or otherwise) almost immediately become extremely aroused in response and the giver of money (man) becomes much more better looking and that's a scientific fact.

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Also do you guys feel embarassed (if perhaps you are ugly or whatever) and they are much more attractive than you.

Do you not feel embarassed them looking at you when having sex.

I aint that bad I just have bad skin and Im really self-consious of it. Why I never approach girls in real life. So, even with the prostitute I dont really want them close to me lookign at my bad skin etc....though in teh brothles some is dark so it aint to bad.

But for example, when in Thailand I was neverous/unconficdent around the girls in daylight, so would only go out at night etc...and discos etc...but come sunrise Id feel real ugly and hide away again haha.

haha I know I maybe crazy!! Just your thoughts?

Do you guys not give a fook?

I think I understand where you are coming from. I think you feel awkward about punting with girls of a age you believe you should perhaps be dating.As a result , I guess you then feel even more uncomfortable ' punching above your weight ' when booking these young stunners.

You sound like you are punting because you dont have the confidence to go out on the chase for a girl and you feel guilty booking a stunning young girl in substitute. Have I got all this right ?

Every man knows his own situation and therefore you must do whats best for you but with limited knowledge of your situation, I would counsel against taking the easy route to sex at your age and instead I think all your efforts should be focused on finding girls in civvy street and hopefully developing a relationship with one or more of them-- probably not what you want to hear.

In my own case, I have no problem in booking a stunning young legally aged escort.This is because I do this for the pure sex, the pure fantasy.I am not interested whatsoever in seeking these girls or any girl of any age in civvy street as I am married.If I was single and looking for sex and/or a relationshio , all my energies would be directed to civvy street .

good luck. :)

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With respect, using wgs does not stop anyone of any age pursuing girls in civy st. Like the majority of single punters I suspect, I am looking for girls in civy st as well. Its is likely that the op would find using wgs useful in the meantime to build up his social/sexual confidence. The main drawback as has often been stated, is the cost factor.

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With respect, using wgs does not stop anyone of any age pursuing girls in civy st. Like the majority of single punters I suspect, I am looking for girls in civy st as well. Its is likely that the op would find using wgs useful in the meantime to build up his social/sexual confidence. The main drawback as has often been stated, is the cost factor.

Yes,I accept that of course, indeed I know a few single guys who punt ,whilst also being on the look out in civvy street but their focus is nearly wholly on civvy st -- punting is very much an aside and also these guys are middle aged. For me punting is unfortunately not an aside but very much a part leisure pursuits.!:)

The op is I think a young guy and I think therefore punting should be well down on his 'to do' list--- on the sexual side , IMO he should be putting practically all his efforts into civvy street.

He should do the right thing and wait until he is married before he starts punting !!:D:D

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With respect, using wgs does not stop anyone of any age pursuing girls in civy st. Like the majority of single punters I suspect, I am looking for girls in civy st as well. Its is likely that the op would find using wgs useful in the meantime to build up his social/sexual confidence. The main drawback as has often been stated, is the cost factor.

You won't want to hear this but I agree with advice/suggestion given to you earlier and I would forget this punting lark for now. You need to put yourself out in civvy street and have a go. You are too young (assuming you are early 20's), imo, to be seeing WGs and this is clouding your thinking/judgement. You need to experience a proper relationship with a nice girl somewhere and, the hard part, accept she probably isn't going to be as stunning as the WGs you can pay for.

Some guys your age get themselves all mixed up and confused because they are unable to separate their emotions from paid for sex. Think of it like this, you are paying for sex - she is interested in your cash, not you - this is a business transaction. She is not going to be your girlfriend.

Like you I am single and I pursue girls in civvy street but I'm probably more experienced than you when it comes to relationships as I am older than you. Punting for me is a way to have sex because for me its a physical need and I am very fussy about the type of girl I would get together with in civvy street. If you are fussy then you get less sex and seeing WGs helps me to fill this void.

Apologies if I come across as patronising, its not my intention. Just giving my view based on where I think you are.

I wish you the best.

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thoughtful good replies guy, you guessed right mainly.

Thing is I am not really a social person nor am I interested in relationships.

I do however enjoy and would enjoy perhaps say 'fuk buddies'.

Also, I have really hgh standards in what i find attractive even if I am not off that level. (I know good looking freinds that will fuk anything whereas I may not be so good looking but only want attractive girls)

But how one goes about doing that with no interest in the other person, limited interest in being social and self-consiousness of bad acne etc...is as a result turned me to using prostitutes.

Though I have had and get girls even approach me in the past I still feel a bit 'clueless'...but I am like that in general haha.

I dont like using the prosititutes at home becuase after the deed I feel.

1. I wasted money

2. I couldve got a girl for 'free' or more 'real' though perhaps not as good looking.

3. Just generally embarassed using the prostitutes.

I'm 'scared' 'annoyed' by girls wanting 'relationship' 'social connection' not just sex..but feel like if I use them for sex they know this and wont hang about long.

Off course this is in 'real life'. You could go to clubs and get sluts just for sex. But that aint my thing either.

I'm overall pretty confused about what I wanna do and girls in general. I know I have a good body and large penis. Not bragging. So, it makes me feel I wanna be promiscoius. Im athletic and have a strong sex drive. Relationships and one girl just doesnt fulfill me. But I feel retarded busting my ass off at gym, eatign well then spending money that I dont have on hookers for sex.

Not that I should be rewarded copious sex with beatufiul girls cause Im the only guy in the world who goes to the gym, eats well and has a decent sized penis lol.

I get bored with a girl. I really wanna fuk loads of different girls. haha.

But then my face slighlty and skin aint so good so that lets me down and my confidence.

I liked in Thailand you could just bounce about different girls everyday. Change when you wanted. Commit a week, get bored change, cheat etc....

If only life at home was like that. But then again Thai girls dont have much variety.

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Think less, fuck more!

If you think less, you won't get confused. Works for me. I'm like a zombie!

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Think less, fuck more!

If you think less, you won't get confused. Works for me. I'm like a zombie!

yeh I mean I couldnt give 2 craps about girls in general tbh and couldn be arsed trying to chase them

I just want easy sex with hot girls...and unless you brad pitt that aint gonna happen

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Great. All the more for me. :confused:

Seriously, ask yourself if it is you or them or both. Younger women often think faster and move faster and are a lot fitter. That can be a lot to handle and keep up with. However there are still some that can do the GFE and mind-read (within limits) rather than just throw themselves into the only way they can.

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p4p makes it easy though it does feel a bit empty afterwards..but I was always depressive loner so why would it be any different once I come out the brothel....life is life...sex dont change it...thats other issues.

I use porn a lot for my boredom as I dont liek other highs much...so I think when I then go to hookers its just an extension of this.

Before anyone says crap like you need to find a decent girl and have a good releationship etc...the point is I am kinda always been this way. Anti-social, alone etc...its nice to have a nice girl around but still it doesnt fulfill me sexually.

But then again niether does sex, I still go back to wathcing copious hours of pron. And I really like it. So, pscycholigally haha this is prob deep down some problem from porn addiction from a young age. I just spend a lot of time on my own by choice and I like playing with my bigwang. The porn is free and no soical or other issues. Without porn Id be even more depressive lonely. Getting a gf would not cure that. Shed just be an advanced extension of my porn habits.

I dont like to drink, party, drugs etc..etc. these days....I just discovered masturbation one day (loner teen years) and really it has been my most consistent joyful pleasure in life.

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