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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

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Mark

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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

Views please.

Mark

Just call her up and explain the situation and ask her politely - the worst she can do is say no.

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Well, personally I think you should pay again if you want to meet her a second time. Otherwise it's not fair on her.

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No harm in asking, speak to her remind her of what happened hopefully she'll agree. I'd be interested to hear the views of WG's here.

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i would say you could have the next meet at a reduced rate ie half of my advertized rate,you have to remember the girl could of missed another booking by taking your ,so her time is lost as well,but all you can do is ask

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You won't get a freebie. She isn't going to make a chunk of her day unavailable to paying clients to compensate for a situation with you that was no fault of hers. But she might be willing to offer a discount if you asked her. Although I believe most of the girls I know would have offered me a portion of my money back once I had explained that I had to leave and I'm inclined to think that the fact that she didn't suggests she wouldn't be willing to offer a discount now or at least not much of one.

I do sympathise but this is just one of those times where you have to roll with the punches as a punter.

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Def no freebies but it depends on her character whether you get a reduction. If you ending the meeting nicely with a smaile and a kiss, I feel that most decent escorts might have offered at that point to make it up to you at a discount next time. If she was and she didn't, maybe she was aware that you might expect a freebie - in which case offering a discount was not the way to go.

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WTF were you dong with your phone on during a punt???????????

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WTF were you dong with your phone on during a punt???????????

I hadn't got round to turning it onto silent!!!

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Well as some have said no worries in asking as she can only say no but it is unfair of you to expect her to go for free....:confused:

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If he'd received the call 5mins earlier it would have cost him nothing. Appts are cancelled all the time, it just so happens that money was exchanged on this occasion before the cancellation. I don't think it is wholly unreasonable myself but I would offer a discretionary amount for the hassle of cancelling so late first time.

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And for all we know the girl in question fancies the arse off of the guy and would love to have him as a regular so may be happy to offer (at the very least) a discounted rate. It can do no harm to ask.

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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

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Mark

I have been in a similar situation to this. 10 minutes after his arrival, his phone rang. It was a genuine emergency and he was visibly upset. As a realist, I understand not all events can be planned for and a little compassion goes a long way.

The gent came to see me a few days later and did offer the fee again. I did not feel justified to take it as I had done nothing more than make him a coffee on the previous occasion.

This gent is now a regular visitor. I somehow doubt he would be if I had requested my fee.

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I have been in a similar situation to this. 10 minutes after his arrival, his phone rang. It was a genuine emergency and he was visibly upset. As a realist, I understand not all events can be planned for and a little compassion goes a long way.

The gent came to see me a few days later and did offer the fee again. I did not feel justified to take it as I had done nothing more than make him a coffee on the previous occasion.

This gent is now a regular visitor. I somehow doubt he would be if I had requested my fee.

This is precisely the sort of professional attitude towards customer care that punters have come not to expect from most WGs. You are exceptional in every way. xxx

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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

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Mark

I've a few questions and opinions about this.

Questions:

1. Had you previously seen this girl?

2. How long and how much was the booking for?

3. What drink was she out getting for you?

4.Was the family emergency so serious to warrant leaving a stripped lady?

Opinions:

1. Try not to hand over the dosh till booking is complete.

2. You told her that should she should keep the money, so to expect her to honour a new booking gratis is a bit cheeky to say the least.

3. I wouldn't go back to her anyway if she accepted ALL the money, if she had any decency she would have maybe accepted half.

4. If you really cant afford to pay again then, and I say this in the most sincere and well meaning way I can, you should maybe not punting. It's ok for some to say Punting works out cheaper than being married and going through an expensive divorce ( Paul McCartney vs Heather Mills being an often quoted scenario), but if you are on a fixed income, average Joe Public then it's not.

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This is precisely the sort of professional attitude towards customer care that punters have come not to expect from most WGs. You are exceptional in every way. xxx

Bless your little perforations :confused:

In the last few years, I would say there has been a definite change in the way wgs view their business, not always for the better.

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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

Views please.

Mark

If I recall correctly, all girls are obliged to have a clause in their Service Provider Contract which promises a full refund or a 'Fuck-in-lieu' when there are extenuating circumstances for the cancellation of a punt at short notice or immediately prior to insertum vaginum. This is contractually binding and I direct your attention towards an excellent visual essay on the subject: "Barely Legally Boned".

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Bless your little perforations :D

I was born when she kissed me,

I died when she left me,

I lived for an hour when she loved me.

:confused:

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Arranged in the right manner, with respect then yes this would be a nice thing for her to offer. Like anything else though it all depends on the situation.

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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

Views please.

Mark

In answer to your question -- you booked and paid for the time, the lady reserved that time to the exclusion of others. IMO, you have no alternative but to offer to pay the next time and hope that she does the decent thing and gives you a good discount. My guess is that she will !

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notjing here to be ashamed of

a lot of guys love to get WGs round, wait till their almost undressed then spring a sad excuse on them like

sorry its a family emergency

I always use

"OMG my wifes waters have broken I have to rush off to maternity"

another favourite is

"OMG my wife has texted me she has followed me here and is waiting outside

Or even

"OMG I wanted a transexual not a real woman"

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Hello all

Apologies if this has already been discussed.

I booked to see a girl last night. Got there, she stripped, i paid the money. She asked if i wanted a drink and i said yes please. When she was out getting the drink i received a phone call with a family emergency that i had to go and sort out. I told her that i had to go and i was really sorry for wasting her time and that she should keep the money. I am keen to see her again and actually go through with the planned events this time. Is it unreasonable to ask her to see me based on the money i have already paid or should i offer to pay for a new appointment. I can't really afford to pay again!

Views please.

Mark

Don't actually ask her if she will see you for free or at a discount (even though I can see where you're coming from) as it never does a punter any favours.

Like the others have said she should offer a free appointment or at least a big discount anyway. I would and if she doesn't then its just a lesson learned unfortunately.

If it ever happens again just leave say £50 as a cancellation fee and take the rest of the money back.

Oh and don't not give the money upfront at ANY booking 'just incase' cos that is a definite no no. :D

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If I recall correctly, all girls are obliged to have a clause in their Service Provider Contract which promises a full refund or a 'Fuck-in-lieu' when there are extenuating circumstances for the cancellation of a punt at short notice or immediately prior to insertum vaginum. This is contractually binding and I direct your attention towards an excellent visual essay on the subject: "Barely Legally Boned".

lol........

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I have been in a similar situation to this. 10 minutes after his arrival, his phone rang. It was a genuine emergency and he was visibly upset. As a realist, I understand not all events can be planned for and a little compassion goes a long way.

The gent came to see me a few days later and did offer the fee again. I did not feel justified to take it as I had done nothing more than make him a coffee on the previous occasion.

This gent is now a regular visitor. I somehow doubt he would be if I had requested my fee.

The same has happened to me and yes of course if it was genuine yes I would see him again aslong as he called me soon after.

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Oh and don't not give the money upfront at ANY booking 'just incase' cos that is a definite no no. :D

Meh, if a girl forgets to ask that's her problem. It's like forgetting to shout "rent!" in monopoly before the next player rolls the dice! :D:)

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