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Ever walked away?

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Maybe the girl who opens the door doesn't look like the pictures did, or just isn't looking great that day, or you never even saw any pictures?

Ever made your excuses and left? If so, what did you say, I'm intrigued!

The over avenue to escape is when discussing (double-checking) services before handing money over. If that pretty girl won't let you put your finger up her bum-bum which you expected/wanted, will you leave? Again, what would you say?

I've been in both situations a couple of times, and have never left. It's like when the barber shows you your haircut in the mirror - even if you think it's shit you'll say "yes thanks, that's just what I was after", pay up, and leave!

cheers :confused:

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On a number of occasions, one the place seemed like it had been twinned with West Beirut & Prystina, looked totally unsafe, and I walked I phoned and said I wasn't comfortable with the location.

A couple of other times I've walked is when I've been blatantly lied to, on both occasions the ladies in question were nothing like described, so I walked although giving the maid/receptionist a tenner on the way out.

When I was younger and greener I wouldn't have done so, now I have no problem.

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Maybe the girl who opens the door doesn't look like the pictures did, or just isn't looking great that day, or you never even saw any pictures?

Ever made your excuses and left? If so, what did you say, I'm intrigued!

"Oh I'm sorry - I was looking for a [insert word that indicates any detail change eg blonde/brunette/taller girl/English girl]"

(I have found, "Someone younger who isn't a minger with tits down to her belly," tends to involve an argument that takes up time.)

Get the phrase out before stepping across threshold. Don't wait for an answer. Just smile graciously and fuck off. If she is exceedingly gracious, and polite, give her a cancellation fee.

The over avenue to escape is when discussing (double-checking) services before handing money over. If that pretty girl won't let you put your finger up her bum-bum which you expected/wanted, will you leave? Again, what would you say?

Too late then. As my hand goes in my pocket I am not looking for cash, I am looking for (eg) 90 quid that includes oral without and reverse oral and some gentle anal play. So I say, "That's £90 for half an hour with oral without, reverse oral and a few positions and a bit of some gentle anal play. IS THAT RIGHT?"

(at this point one has to pause and say nothing and do nothing - she has to speak first)

Two variations: I might feel she is obviously damn trustworthy and I am no way going to mention such things. But I'll usually have confirmed by text first so it's in black and white. Second variation: she's so hot that frankly I don't give a damn.

I've been in both situations a couple of times, and have never left.

Well it's too late to ask for a discount if you've been had. If I leave early I usually make an excuse.
It's like when the barber shows you your haircut in the mirror - even if you think it's shit you'll say "yes thanks, that's just what I was after", pay up, and leave!

No way. If he/she hasn't a) spent long enough on it to justify the cost or :D got it exactly how I want it, I'll sit there and bloody well give him directions. Precisely cos he won't say 'pay up and leave.' But if he is totally incompetent, I will leave before he has the chance to do any more damage. :confused:
cheers :)
saute :)

Thought Phil Atio's answer was quite good too.

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Don't know why I said barber, never had my hair cut by a bloke in my life. If I did, I might manage it, but when it's a cute young girl... that's when I fail to say it's pap :confused:

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Maybe the girl who opens the door doesn't look like the pictures did, or just isn't looking great that day, or you never even saw any pictures?

Ever made your excuses and left? If so, what did you say, I'm intrigued!

Only been in that situation once a few years ago and didn't leave... arrgh! :confused: Not one of my proudest moments but the good thing that came out of it was that it did make me more careful in preparing (checking other punters experiences) and it hasn't happened since. Then again, sometimes even the most 'researched' punts can throw the unexpected as some threads here indicate so I'm sure I'll be on that spot again sometime.

Good subject with hopefully a lot of pointers on how to handle it tactfully for both parties.

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(I have found, "Someone younger who isn't a minger with tits down to her belly," tends to involve an argument that takes up time.)

:D:D Sometimes you are good value, HS.

Don't know why I am laughing, though - I thought you said you couldn't find many ladies who roam the Highlands on the other site - you should try East London sometime.:confused:

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Ever walked away?

Yes, I knocked on the door of a lady and when she opened it she gave a scream and said "Go away, you look exactly like my Father" and slammed the door, I opened the letterbox and asked her to pass on my commiserations to her Father, and walked away.

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No, but I should have plenty of times and after joining this forum will feel more confident about doing so in the future when the ladies' credentials are clearly not as advertised. Do agree that a cancellation fee of some sort should be offered though. Not sure if this would be taken in the spirit that it is offered however?

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LOL

Damn! I wish I'd thought of that.

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I've walked into a parlour when I've sensed an "atmosphere" among the girls. (Obviously they have had some disagreement etc amongst themselves - but get over it and don't take it out on me) I was asked what I wanted and said I'd like some kissing and cuddling and a bit of a GFE. Nobody was forthcoming so I walked out. Luckily there are 2 other parlours within walking distance so no big deal.

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Forgot to say that the other parlour provided just what the doctor ordered ! :confused:

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I've walked into a parlour when I've sensed an "atmosphere" among the girls. (Obviously they have had some disagreement etc amongst themselves - but get over it and don't take it out on me) I was asked what I wanted and said I'd like some kissing and cuddling and a bit of a GFE. Nobody was forthcoming so I walked out. Luckily there are 2 other parlours within walking distance so no big deal.

Never been to a parlour --- I think !

Was in something similar I suppose in Potugal and Germany, a bar type atmosphere when you are jumped on by some girl as soon as you sit down --- really off putting,as you dont even get the time to have a beer, take in the surroundings and eye some of the girls and you then have the problem of extracating yourself from the girl who attached herself to you.!:confused: I did a walk away from one of those.

On an outcall, I felt the girl did not match the photos and I avoided any private time with her.Paid her half the fee and had a glass of wine with her -- nice girl.She was free to go with the money straight away but she stayed for a chat.

Another girl, I just did not fancy-- not her fault, just one of those thing.,I just didnt want to take it further. Just chatted and had a few drinks and then made my excuses and left.:D

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One particular Soho morning I walked away from 4 doors and stopped only at the 5th where the girl was reasonably attractive. An unlucky streak.

Had one punt where I should have walked away, but didn't.

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Yes I have walked when the girl/woman who has opened the door is nothing like advertised and I mean nothing like.

Have also wlaked when a date is going badly and have been fortunate enough to be refunded some money.

** is the common link to all these dates!

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I have many times.

I have no obligation to stay, at least until I have paid the money.

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:):D Sometimes you are good value, HS.

Don't know why I am laughing, though - I thought you said you couldn't find many ladies who roam the Highlands on the other site - you should try East London sometime.:confused:

No - actually I said I couldn't find them on this site :D

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No - actually I said I couldn't find them on this site :confused:
You are a brave man!:D

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I have terminated encounters after 10 minutes in parlours, sensing the girl was hopeless/unwilling etc. I am prepared to lose 70£ with ill grace, but I am not prepared to waste an orgasm. I very rarely book blind in flats.

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I once booked a 2 girl, and one of the ladies took exception to me asking if I could use 'Poppers'

She got on her moral high horse telling me 'Drugs' aren't allowed on the premises, I tried explaining that they are legal, but she wouldn't have it, anyway, the moment was gone and the mood ruined.

I thought fuck it, and told her what I thought of her.

If she had politely declined I would not have minded, but she went way O.T.T.

I rang the agency and explained the situation, to be fair they were sympathetic to me.

We hadn't got to being fully undressed so I cancelled the booking.

The other poor girl was new to the job and must have thought W.T.F.

The agency knew me from previous bookings, and sided with me.

She dissapeared from their site not long after that.

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no, but should have. After 10 mins with the girl it was quite obvious she was taking substances she shouldnt have been. Shoulda walked but bottled it....

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yep lots , just say no thanks and go

sometimes get a bit of you wanker ect but :)

just have real pics not that hard to do is it ? :D

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I had gone over to meet a lady. Got a cab over and rang to get her number but the signal on my mobile was gone so i couldn't ring her luckily it was during winter so it didn't look too odd me walking around i walked down the road and round the corner and wallah my phone signal reappeared, with a message from the lady asking where i was was.

I rang her and she answered and then said she was almost ready but her male 'friend' would open the door for me. :D

Now i was just expecting her and me so this friend of her's threw me. I thought it over for a few seconds and it just didn't feel right i walked back towards the main road and past her flat and saw a big guy closing the door.

Through the glass i could see him go into her flat i walked past then texted her to say something had come up and we'd have to rearrange.

I could never feel comfortable knowing that another man is in the vicinity even more than that we would have interacted how uncomfortable would that have been.

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You are a brave man!:D

Oh yes! I test my courage on an almost daily basis. I post secretly on a dodgy forum, shielded by only utter anonymity, a preoccupation with real life, and the secure knowledge that as yet I have never had to grovel to a PN saleswoman for a shag. I guess you could call me lucky in hand-to-hand combat, a cheeky sod, or just comparatively normal . . .

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I made a Saturday morning booking with a fantastic escort I had seen several times before.

Our appointment was at 10am but I was running late so we agreed on 10.30am. She then texted me to ask if we could do 11am instead, to which I agreed.

When I arrived at just before 11am I saw a client leaving her flat. I walked around the corner, and no more than 20 seconds later I got a text to say she was ready.

Her previous MO with me was to allow me to get showered first and she would hang around and we'd chat until I left, and she would then presumably go and have her shower.

So when I went in and she was still in a state of undress I knew she would not have had time to have a proper wash. Which made me feel :D

She came straight on to me without any preamble or our usual chat, and I felt very uncomfortable.

I asked if she was OK and her eyes were slightly glazed over. Not sure if she was just tired or on something, but I said I had to leave. And I did.

I texted her later to ask if she was OK, and she said she was not at her best and said things would be different the next time we saw each other. Which never happened.

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