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What do you request from a girl?

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I rarely ever make a request for a girl to dress a certain way or do a particular thing. I just go with the flow. Besides, if a girl does and does not want to do something I rather hear it from her face to face and if she feels comfortable doing it as opposed to the agency.

I certainly wont be able to say what specific service I want the girl to provide over the phone (eg: Rimming, Deepthroat, Submissive Sex, etc). If I get caught at work saying all that, well I dread to think the consequences would be.

I know some people make the call and say "Ok, I'll text you what I want", but I think that is probably better for outcalls, where a girl can arrive casually in a jeans and t shirt and have a bag full of the specific clothes requested, condoms, wipes, lotions, toys and whatever else and she can dress herself up and ask what the guy wants. For an incall she would have all the clothes and stuff in stock so no need.

Only request I've made was for a BD/SM session where the girl was going to wear latex anyhow.

I was just wondering if there are particular things you guys request from a girl? Would you for instance say "I want her to dress exact same way as one of the pictures on the website" ?

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If I get caught at work saying all that, well I dread to think the consequences would be.

You should step outside your place of work and make the call from there.

In any case, agencies have heard it all before. No need to be embarrassed or whatever. They normally just say they will pass the request on to the girl or that the girl doesn't do that service.

Of course, when you arrive, the girl may say no one told her to dress in a certain way or may refuse a service.

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I don't really mind what a girl wears - some things I prefer to others, but I'd never ask for it, I like the surprise element!

As for services - french kissing, reverse oral, rimming and anal play. All of the above are more important to me than the actual sex tbh!

I hate having to ask about them over the phone, seems so impersonal and crass, but better than wasting the girl's time if you turn up and find out she's not happy with something.

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Id like to be able to cum on a girls face. Its my main thing lol..apart from that not really bothered. I would like to lick a girls face and body also if she is very attractive.

Never asked so don tknow if these are possible or if they would charge extra? anyone know?

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Id like to be able to cum on a girls face. Its my main thing lol..apart from that not really bothered. I would like to lick a girls face and body also if she is very attractive.

Never asked so don tknow if these are possible or if they would charge extra? anyone know?

Probably not a good idea to try to get into this much detail on the phone. Girls have a lot of time-wasters who just want free 'sexy talk'. Just ask if the girls are open-minded and then you can chat to her about your preferences when you get there. You may have to take a chance but its more comfortable for everyone if you prove your good intentions by making an appointment rather than a detailed 'quiz' on the phone.

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I prefer to make my requests via e-mail rather than over the phone because 1) it can be somewhat embarrasing to list certain requests especially sexual services (i.e., Facials, CIM or etc) and :confused: she also has a written account of my requests that she can refer back to if anything.

Although really it doesn't matter what a girl wears if possible I'd request she wear simple and casual clothing tee shirts, jeans and so on. Most imporant services that I always confirm she offers are: FK and OWO. Personally IMO more important than the actual sex.

Id like to be able to cum on a girls face. Its my main thing lol..apart from that not really bothered. I would like to lick a girls face and body also if she is very attractive.

Let me guess you pick up this certain sexual fantasy of "finishing" over a girl's face from watching an almost illegal amount of porngraphy during your formative years, have to admit I'm right there with you and also haven't had the chance to indulge this fantasy yet, but hopefully soon I shall.

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I wasnt sure about how to go requests...Its not like im a pro (no pun) on the matter. I only been to some hookers abroad really. I was lucky to get bbbj and most wouldnt.

I dunno about extras???

In Thailand I pretty much gotta do it all. lol.

Can't beat covering a girls face with ropes of cum.

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I wasnt sure about how to go requests...Its not like im a pro (no pun) on the matter. I only been to some hookers abroad really. I was lucky to get bbbj and most wouldnt.

I dunno about extras???

In Thailand I pretty much gotta do it all. lol.

Can't beat covering a girls face with ropes of cum.

Why ? ...........................

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Each to their own and all that. Doesn't really appeal to me either, not sure I've ever even done it tbh, and I've tried pretty much *everything* else! :confused:

That said, maybe girls enjoy it too? I certainly love nothing more than a squirter sitting on my face when she lets go...

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bigwang, I would strongly recommend asking before booking. Yes we get a lot of timewasters, but we still like to have an idea what to expect. I don't do facial any more, but I used to. However, I would never do it unless it had been requested in advance, because the cleanup takes much longer. Typically I will not leave less than 30 mins between clients which gives me time to change the sheets, quick shower and touch up makeup. Facial requires a full re makeup, and often a hair wash and restyle. I'd have to block out an hour after. Personally I'd say no to face and body licking, it's a personal turn off, but same applies regarding makeup - if you lick all a lady's face off, she's going to need time to fix it.

I wouldn't think a client was a timewaster if he said over the phone "do you offer facial, and can I lick your body and face?". If he said "I have this fantasy... I really want to shoot cum all over your face... and I want to lick you all over *heavy breathing*... oh and what's the biggest cumshot you've ever seen? And can you wear pointy toe shoes from Primark which must be either red or yellow...". It's the weirdly specific ones, who also talk in stupid porn language, that get hung up on. Confirming that a specific service is available is fine.

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Each to their own and all that. Doesn't really appeal to me either, not sure I've ever even done it tbh, and I've tried pretty much *everything* else! :confused:

That said, maybe girls enjoy it too? I certainly love nothing more than a squirter sitting on my face when she lets go...

Absolutely ! I like WS, many many dont. I was not condeming in any way.

I was merely interested in why he feels nothing beats facials as described by him. :D

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bigwang, I would strongly recommend asking before booking. Yes we get a lot of timewasters, but we still like to have an idea what to expect. I don't do facial any more, but I used to. However, I would never do it unless it had been requested in advance, because the cleanup takes much longer. Typically I will not leave less than 30 mins between clients which gives me time to change the sheets, quick shower and touch up makeup. Facial requires a full re makeup, and often a hair wash and restyle. I'd have to block out an hour after. Personally I'd say no to face and body licking, it's a personal turn off, but same applies regarding makeup - if you lick all a lady's face off, she's going to need time to fix it.

I wouldn't think a client was a timewaster if he said over the phone "do you offer facial, and can I lick your body and face?". If he said "I have this fantasy... I really want to shoot cum all over your face... and I want to lick you all over *heavy breathing*... oh and what's the biggest cumshot you've ever seen? And can you wear pointy toe shoes from Primark which must be either red or yellow...". It's the weirdly specific ones, who also talk in stupid porn language, that get hung up on. Confirming that a specific service is available is fine.

Maybe its just me but I would be surprised if such a request , made over the telephone, would not give most WGs the ' heebee jeebees ' about the punter ? I stand to be corrected tho' ? :confused:

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The only requests I usually make are for her to be dressed a certain way, usually something she'd wear out to a night club, or a nice dress. Specially on longer bookings. Can be a little strange being dressed and having a little get to know you chat with her in bra and thong. Dont mind casual if it suits her, like a nice tight white t-shirt or something.

The only other request is for an ensuite room if theyve got one so 1. if we need a shower or toilet I dont have to dodge any punters, and 2. we can have a nice sexy shower together. :confused:

If they dont have an ensuite then usally ask for the biggest room they've got or the nicest room if Ive seen the rooms before.

Only other requests are just confirming shes comfortable with any advertised service like FK, but its rare that I bother asking them these days since services are always at discretion till you meet face to face.

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Maybe its just me but I would be surprised if such a request , made over the telephone, would not give most WGs the ' heebee jeebees ' about the punter ? I stand to be corrected tho' ? :D

Can't speak for anyone else, but it wouldn't surprise me at all. I get a lot of clients who just do it without asking, it seems to be a pretty common thing. Either that or I just attract the strange ones :confused:

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The only requests I usually make are for her to be dressed a certain way, usually something she'd wear out to a night club, or a nice dress. Specially on longer bookings. Can be a little strange being dressed and having a little get to know you chat with her in bra and thong. Dont mind casual if it suits her, like a nice tight white t-shirt or something.

That's about as far as my requests for dressing normally go, "would you mind jeans/a dress of some sort", which I think is a reasonable request - and it's usually a red signal if they get on their high horse.

That said, agencies rarely pass on this sort of information in my experience - so there is always a surprise aspect.

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Can't speak for anyone else, but it wouldn't surprise me at all. I get a lot of clients who just do it without asking, it seems to be a pretty common thing. Either that or I just attract the strange ones :)

Really ! I really am a novice at this and a pretty vanilla one too at that !!:D

'Licking your face and body ' -- I suppose I understand it, particularly if you really fancy the knickers off the girl. Its really only an extension of RO and rimming , both of which I love.However, I would have thought the WG would not like the idea of being licked all over like a dog. I live and learn.:)

Btw -- I presume they want to lick your face before they cum on it, no ? :D

p.s -- If there is a lot of this --- why do you not see it on profiles as a service ?

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Once again depends on how the request is made. Sending lots of "What are you wearing exactly" texts or emails prior to the appointments is going to set alarm bells off, as this is timewastery behaviour and/or can make a WG feel the guy doesn't have the right attitude.

Like everything though a simple request is more than welcome, and in fact I like it as it means I avoid a "What on earth shall I choose/will he like" moment on the day.

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is it best to be blunt/direct regarding requests and is it better to ask prior to the booking or should it be more of a conversation while at the appointment?

For example i think i have fairly common desires, giving a girl a facial being the obvious one, which i imagine is quite a common request, but would it be better to give the girl advanced warning than just asking while there?

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I find it very difficult and awkward to ask for what I want during the meeting itself, but I also understand that expecting the lady to know everything you want purely through her mind-reading ability seems unfair on her. As a result, when making the initial enquiry or booking, I usually give a general idea of the type of meeting I am looking for. It's not a by-the-numbers script as such, but more to say that I am after a very sensual GFE type meeting with lots of slow kissing. I find it helps us get on the same page and takes away some of the guesswork.

As for underwear, I love a lady dressed in black, and think it does no harm at all in asking for that in advance, the worst they can do is say no. The ladies I have seen have always been more than happy to oblige. (It also means I am pretty safe from undressing her to find something leopardskin underneath, which I absolutely detest!). Walking away feeling disapointed because she was wearing white/red/whatever instead of black seems really silly (and completely avoidable) if you didnt ask for black in the first place.

So yeah, I do ask for things, but find it actually helps me(us?) get the most out of our time together.

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is it best to be blunt/direct regarding requests and is it better to ask prior to the booking or should it be more of a conversation while at the appointment?

For example i think i have fairly common desires, giving a girl a facial being the obvious one, which i imagine is quite a common request, but would it be better to give the girl advanced warning than just asking while there?

it is best to ask before the booking so that we can get an idea of what you like or after so that you can make the most of your time with your WG :D

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is it best to be blunt/direct regarding requests and is it better to ask prior to the booking or should it be more of a conversation while at the appointment?

For example i think i have fairly common desires, giving a girl a facial being the obvious one, which i imagine is quite a common request, but would it be better to give the girl advanced warning than just asking while there?

Facial is a common request but not one that all ladies are comfortable with. It isn't really safe sex (finding out about chlamidya in the eye was one of the reasons I stopped offering it) and clean up afterwards is time consuming (the second reason I stopped!). If a lady does offer it then she will still appreciate advance warning so she can block out extra time after your appointment for fixing her makeup and potentially hair.

With things which are minor or standard, there is no need to ask in advance (for example, if you want sex in missionary and a blowjob then unless the lady doesn't offer full sex and/or oral she probably won't need or expect advance warning, or if you have a particular turn-on which involves her saying or doing something specific but inoffensive and easy then it's probably not worth bringing up). But if it's something that needs preparation time or a lot of clean up afterwards (a specific clothing request, furniture other than the bed being in the room, bondage stuff, or anything involving food or body fluids getting on anyone or anything) then it's a good idea to ask in advance as the lady may not be happy with it, or may not be able to offer it at short notice (eg if she has someone booked in right after you).

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I expect the WG to kneel on the bed and take it like a man ( or at least thats how Im told men take it)

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In a nutshell, respect. If I make an effort to be clean, tidy, punctual and make her feel relaxed and comfortable in good surroundings then I deserve the same. So far *touch wood* my punts have exceeded all expectations.

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I'll always chat to a wg on the phone before making a booking, requesting outfits and services. Noone, so far, has mistaken me for a heavy breather and hung up on me. I'm not really bothered by the facial thing, but I'm a real sucker for a sexy/slutty secretary outfit...

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Below, an extract from a field report of mine on Stacey of Swindon.

My 4th visit, so I knew what to expect, but to utter these words and to have them complied with willingly was and is, a turn on.

Not words I think I will ever be able say to the Wife!

'Lick up and down my shaft.'

'Now just the head'.

'Can you just use your mouth'.

'Now deeper and faster'

'Slow down or I'll come'.

'When I come, can you not swallow, but dribble'.

'Yes' she hummed, with my cock in her mouth, 'Hmmm'. This sent shivers down my spine.

'Deeper and faster, I'm going to shoot my spunk into your mouth'

'Hmmm', she hummed.

'Oh, oh, oh'.

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