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The transgressive urge

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Am I alone in looking for something particular in short-term encounters, namely some sort of boundary-breaking. To illustrate, this is the sort of thing I'm thinking of (though some of these leave me cold, personally)

Doing things that girls you've been with generally won't do

Someone you couldn't 'bring home to mother' - for whatever stereotypical reason

Doing it somewhere you shouldn't

Calling a girl names you shouldn't (and maybe she shouldn't like)

Being called names you shouldn't like

Being treated in a way you shouldn't be

Treating someone in a way you shouldn't (I'm thinking S&M, or even just being dom)

Doing it in public/creating the possibility of being discovered

Fetishing something not 'normal'

Dressing how you shouldn't / having her consciously dress how she shouldn't (no point if she always dresses like that, unless number 2 above)

Being with someone who enjoys something you (or 'society') think she shouldn't (maybe subconsciously)

I don't really see the point of paying for a common-or-garden experience (unless she's absolutely gorgeous or unique in some way). I can watch porn instead, satisfy myself and move on. That's also why I don't really see why seeking the minimum price for a mundane experience makes any sense.

Or am I just weird?

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I don't think you are especially wierd, I just don't think you'll find many WGs into this stuff, you may need to seek more specialist sites, I know of one but to be fair it's off topic for here so PM me.

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I don't think you are especially wierd, I just don't think you'll find many WGs into this stuff, you may need to seek more specialist sites, I know of one but to be fair it's off topic for here so PM me.

Doesn't have to be extreme. Just psychologically meaningful. Heck, a smart girl who likes anal and/or facials is already scoring pretty high for me!

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I don't think it's weird, infact I think it's a lot more common than you might think.

Personally, from my perspective as a WG, one of the main things that drew me into escorting was the way I could submerge myself into a fantasy with no repercussions. It is easier, dirtier and sexier to be called every name under the sun and enjoy it when you don't have to face that person every day at work or in the pub on a Saturday night and worry you might have been "too much".

For me anyway, the anonymous and no strings experience means sex can be rawer and I'm happier to fill the filthy role...

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Or am I just weird?

No you're a punter and if you are paying and they are willing why question it.

This got me thinking though: Is our punting persona different to our non-punting persona. I find i'm far more submissive punting and have a rejuvinated excitement verging on hysteria for going down on a woman.

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I have been in situations where i have said to my temporaray partner, no-one is watching or judging you, you can behave how you like in the encounter as long as both parties are happy.

This inhibition thing can apply as much to the wg, expecially a new one, as to the punter.

If i want to do something in an encounter I can ask, but most of the time I am content to go with the flow, probably because in sexual terms I have already tried everything I want to try, so i am not looking to push any boundaries. But a lot of people come to the punt needing to have something unusual as lets face it, most encounters are fairly vanilla.

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I think I'd say that going "just over the boundary" is rather exciting! Mind you, meeting a stunning bint, sitting down next to her on the sofa and slipping your hand .... within minutes of seeing her for the first time is a good way over most normal boundaries!

Going too far, for me, would ruin it all.

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I once slapped a hooker ass (not for sexual enjoyment i was just amusing myself in a childish way) and she got mad and said somtthing about that being S&M and Id need to pay extra and find a girl to do it. She seemed genunily mad lol I only slapped it once or twice.

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:D Fuck me but I am impressed with some of you interlexuals :)

I just go out and have sex with beautiful wimmin who are well above my batting average and hand over a few pictures of the Queen - nuffink psycho-logical or illogical about it.

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Am I alone in looking for something particular in short-term encounters, namely some sort of boundary-breaking. To illustrate, this is the sort of thing I'm thinking of (though some of these leave me cold, personally)

Doing things that girls you've been with generally won't do

Someone you couldn't 'bring home to mother' - for whatever stereotypical reason

Doing it somewhere you shouldn't

Calling a girl names you shouldn't (and maybe she shouldn't like)

Being called names you shouldn't like

Being treated in a way you shouldn't be

Treating someone in a way you shouldn't (I'm thinking S&M, or even just being dom)

Doing it in public/creating the possibility of being discovered

Fetishing something not 'normal'

Dressing how you shouldn't / having her consciously dress how she shouldn't (no point if she always dresses like that, unless number 2 above)

Being with someone who enjoys something you (or 'society') think she shouldn't (maybe subconsciously)

I don't really see the point of paying for a common-or-garden experience (unless she's absolutely gorgeous or unique in some way). I can watch porn instead, satisfy myself and move on. That's also why I don't really see why seeking the minimum price for a mundane experience makes any sense.

Or am I just weird?

I personally find vanilla sex with WGs fairly boring and prefer the fun and games and doing things I do not/will not do in private relationships. Unless what you are looking for is extreme, most WGs are quite happy with this specially as they get to know you.

Until fews years ago most my encounters were vanilla and at the time that was fine. However I did come accross girls who were more fun and tried new things and found it a lot more enjoyable and to an extent safer.

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I personally find vanilla sex with WGs fairly boring and prefer the fun and games and doing things I do not/will not do in private relationships. Unless what you are looking for is extreme, most WGs are quite happy with this specially as they get to know you.

Until fews years ago most my encounters were vanilla and at the time that was fine. However I did come accross girls who were more fun and tried new things and found it a lot more enjoyable and to an extent safer.

Yes but do you find you are continually getting bored with the last type of fun and therefore feel the need to push further each time in order to get fulfillment ? What type of unusual fun and games [ non-extreme ] have you found your WGs happy to participate in ?

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Doing things that girls you've been with generally won't do

A couple of my recent punts have now ended like this:

Straddling the girls chest with her wanking me until near to cuming, then the girl taking me into her mouth to finish me off. But instead of swallowing my cum, spitting it out onto her boobs for me to massage her nipples and boobs with while licking her pussy until she comes. Followed by licking up my cum from around her nipples and DFK her whilst still massaging her boobs.

When I started punting in October last year there was no way I could of imagined doing something like that!

Or this :)

Someone you couldn't 'bring home to mother'

The first of next weeks upcuming punts. Check out the nice tattoo

http://www.madam-beckys-kittens.com/escort-girl.php?girlid=335

I don't know what my mother would think if she saw her.

My wife would cut my tackle off!! :D

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Yes but do you find you are continually getting bored with the last type of fun and therefore feel the need to push further each time in order to get fulfillment ? What type of unusual fun and games [ non-extreme ] have you found your WGs happy to participate in ?

Thank you Dr. Freud. No I don't find I need to push more and more. One thing about trying new things is that you soon find what you like and what you don't. It rarely gets boring as different ladies add different twist and the personality, character and warmth always make a difference. As to the type of things I have tried that is my business but suffice to say that they relate to mild and sensual BDSM. I have tried the more extreme variety and found that I don't enjoy them as firstly I do not have a natural submissive or dominant urge and do not have a psychological need for this type of practice. For me it is just fun and I really enjoy it with good looking girls and I like to have my prize when I want it so sex has to be a part of it but not necessarily so. I also do not mind if the girl is novice so long as she is willing. In fact the most enjoyable encounters have been with girls who really do not have any experience in that department but very curious and open minded. I have thought them few things and the bright ones have picked up fast and run with it :D

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I once slapped a hooker ass (not for sexual enjoyment i was just amusing myself in a childish way) and she got mad and said somtthing about that being S&M and Id need to pay extra and find a girl to do it. She seemed genunily mad lol I only slapped it once or twice.

I'm not surprised, you were totally out of order, she should have taken action against you, you are a dangerous freak. I've slapped, whipped, used needles, dropped hot candle wax onto all parts of a womans body, ripped clothes off, called all sorts of degrading names and bitten, however all within pre arranged rules.

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No, not weird, I like to push boundaries and try new things but make sure it's not an unpleasant surprise for the girl.

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Don'tknow if is "transgressive" but I have enjoyed a prolonged punting relationship (30+ meetings over several years) with a particular lady. When we first met she had not been long in the business but we hit it off and there was something in both the "feel" of the sex and the post chat that suggested that repeats would be even better.

Since then we've been on a bit of a journey together, tempting each other with talk of games, scenes or acts for a few meets until, usually, she just says "do that" in the middle of a sesh.

Intriguingly, in an early conversation she remarked that before her first day as a WG she sat realising that, having spent several years with young children, wearing trousers and sensible shoes to work, and not having any high heels or fancy stockings, that she had forgotten how to be sexy.

Certainly has rediscovered big style.

She may be special but others are mear. It has been one of the pleasures of playing with the lower profile and part time ladies that by being sensitive to them, good manners and establishing trust the pair of you can go places that surprise both.

I guess I'm a bit of a Hardcore fluffy!

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