dreaded sti !!! any excuses that the wife will believe??

[Superego]

Originally Posted by Superego

Name that tune and artist please ??

Do the Right Thing - Redhead Kingpin +FBI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUv3iZ4PafM

This was originally meant to be the feature song for the Spike Lee movie of the same name.

However, later Mr. Lee decidedto use the more militant song 'Fight THe Power' as the feature song for the movie

Hope you 'Doin The Right Thing' Mrs Smith and enjoying on your birthday

[stokebloke]

Hey thanks for the advice - and the moral highground some of you showed was laughable-I didn't knowingly pass it on I didn't have BB sex with a WG I just got unlucky ! plain and simple live by the sword die by the sword ect ect
Anyway I took the old infection route and to be honest I got away with it - not going to tell the truth to my wife - agree or disagree I don't really care I'm still married and she is none the wiser...phew

[markw]

Originally Posted by psisam

What idiot doctor told him he can always pass it on... you only can when you have the sores open... and that can be years apart...

and just touching the open sores with fingers will pass it on... so any contact with the open spres... when its not present and that can be fopr months at a time you will not pass it on...

Actually it can sometimes be passed on when sores are not present. The virus can shed with no symptoms, it's called "asymptomatic transmission". You will find this on numerous authoritative websites. Here's just one - http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1071.html - from Columbia University's health service.

It's really important that sufferers realise this, and don't spread the myth that it's safe when there are no open sores. The doctor wasn't the idiot...

[bilady]

It occurs to me that one way of being a little bit honest is to admit you got it from a WG but don't admit that it's a regular hobby?

No, better than that, what about meeing a girl in a bar, had a few drinks, before I knew it she was giving me oral in the men's room... I had an attack of guilt and conscience, came to my senses and stopped her?

That's better than admitting to punting, surely?

[Sexygod]

Herpes can also stay dormant for a long time so medically it would be possible to catch it ten years ago and for it only to come out now.

Ok, I am sure that is a rare case but could well be a story to stick to.

Also it's a really minor skin ailment and the only reason it has such a bad rep is the sexual stigma so not such a big deal.

[markw]

Originally Posted by Sexygod

Also it's a really minor skin ailment and the only reason it has such a bad rep is the sexual stigma so not such a big deal.

...as long as you don't get it in your eyes (touch infected area without realising, don't wash hands, then rub eyes) which can happen.

My pharmacist told me of a case where it had infected someone's brain! Don't know how true that last one is.

[Sexygod]

My pharmacist told me of a case where it had infected someone's brain! Don't know how true that last one is.

Perhaps ... but probably best not to worry too much about the million to 1 freak accidents that can happen.

[singed]

Actually I do wonder how many men punt whilst in a sexual relationship. It doesn't seem very good to me and whatnot but wot of it eh wot of it.

In other news, herpes can penetrate the holes in a latex condom anyway. And you can pass it on without symptoms, it's called asymptomatic viral shedding.


Herpes

[Max Gentle]

Originally Posted by stokebloke

Anyway I took the old infection route and to be honest I got away with it - not going to tell the truth to my wife - agree or disagree I don't really care I'm still married and she is none the wiser...phew

Lucky man! Of course, now that she's accepted the 'old infection' story, the worst possible thing you could do is admit the truth!

[DeeDeeKent]

There is a madam in Folkestone Kent who has genital herpes and whenever she has an infection she uses touche eclat to cover it up and has unprotected sex with most of her regulars.

At the same time there was a WG who caught herpes off one of the madams clients and she was in absolute agony for quite a few days and absolutely horrified that she had actually caught it. I know that she is very carefull when it comes to clients and even uses condoms for oral she refuses to do owo even when offered 200 pounds for it.

I have to agree that we all carry the herpes virus but it just depends when it decides to make an appearance.

[ladyofthemansion]

Originally Posted by Caitlin

IIRC, herpes can lie dormant for months/years - some folk only ever have the first attack, others have repeated attacks, especially when stressed. The OP could claim he first had it as a teenager and it's only just resurfaced?

That is a very sensible suggestion.

[wanderlust]

Originally Posted by Sexygod

Perhaps ... but probably best not to worry too much about the million to 1 freak accidents that can happen.

Very rare---- one case/1000000 popultation per annum = about 65 cases per year. Main risk of brain infection with Herpes 2 (the genital sort of herpes) is for an infant at birth, if its mother has active herpes. Most adult cases with herpes brain infection have Herpes 1 (oral/cold sores on lips type). See http://www.patient.co.uk/doctor/Herpes-Encephalitis.htm

[ptrleeds]

Originally Posted by Nightgeo

Is it a sport now? Will they be having a BB final in 2012????

Final is the appropriate expression.

[Stephanie of cardiff]

I am glad that things have worked out for you.IMHO I would much prefer a partner to see a WG then screw some girl on a night out pissed up and either without protection or it put on badly because he has had a few vimtos or have an affair and fall in love. However I am an exeption to the rule (prob because I am in the industry). This is why I have no issue with seeing guys who are married because there are a lot a reasons why they are seeking sex outside of marriage like an ego boost, certain circumstances which mean they can no longer have sex and so on but they still love and respect the missus.

At the end of the day you saw WG for whatever reason, its a business arrangement which gets you sexual needs fulfilled and any WG worth her salt is very careful about her health as its her livelyhood but no matter how many precautions we take sometimes we get unlucky and its horrible but it can happen to all of us.

[eve69]

Originally Posted by Sexygod

Herpes can also stay dormant for a long time so medically it would be possible to catch it ten years ago and for it only to come out now.

Ok, I am sure that is a rare case but could well be a story to stick to.

Also it's a really minor skin ailment and the only reason it has such a bad rep is the sexual stigma so not such a big deal.

It is not always very minor for some sufferers, some people can have really nasty flu like symptoms and serious pain with an outbreak. I believe these are relieved more now due to the improved drugs available but nevertheless it can be nasty . Plus if a pregnant woman is affected by an outbreak at the time of giving birth , she will have to have a ceasarian so as not to pass it onto the child. So imho, I think it can be a big deal for some

[lex]

Originally Posted by stokebloke

shitfuckbannannabloody pancakes

looks like i caught herpes and passed it on to the wife - how the feck do i get out of this one ?????

any ideas guys ???

Easy. You know the story of Joseph, Mary and the immaculate conception? Well... simply explain to your wife that you have an immaculate infection! God is punishing you for being a bad husband e.g. not putting the seat down after peeing. Billions of people believe the crap about jesus so there's a good chance wifey will swallow your story (if not your cock for a while)