New to the scene - Chunky Guy

I'm 32, recently separated from a very long term partner and have never visited a "working girl".

While I'm not ready to start dating yet, and haven't really tried to much with the new dating apps, my friends recommend I visit a parlour or two to enjoy some company.

My only worry is that I'm a little bigger than most lads (although I am hitting the gym). Do the girls bother with that, or is money money to them?

Also, where's the best place to visit around Manchester?

Cheers

Disco.

I think escorts are like people! They all have different attitudes to everything.

I would say it's worth getting in touch with an independent escort (eg by email on Adultwork) or a parlour (by phone) beforehand and see what they say when you mention your physique so you help avoid possible face-to-face embarrassment if someone is not great at being polite.

I have lost touch with the Manchester/Bury scene in recent years but it is one of the prime areas for escorting so hopefully you will get some knowledgeable recommendations.

Thanks for the advice

Usually as long as you bring the right amount of coin and are hygienic/ polite she will give a good time. You will however, get a better service from WG if your more attractive, as I have noticed losing 3 stone recently, and getting in shape, even though its still a business transaction. So you should definitely continue looks-maxing at the gym.

I agree keep hitting the gym,iv'e been going for years.My experiences over the last 20 years or so have told me escorts are like most women in normal jobs they prefer more attractive and muscular guys,but escorts can't expect James Bond lookin type of guys to see them all the time.I saw 2 escorts last year one complained a 74 year old guy went to see her the day before me,she looked as if she was going to be sick.It did make me chuckle slightly the expression on her face when she was telling me all this.Another escort admitted she disliked pensioners,ugly guys and fat slobs seeing her.I pointed out to her that she is lucky that out of 100s of escorts guys choose to see her,she just shrugged her shoulders.She is beautiful on the outside,but very callous on the inside.

A few weeks ago this Rom at a greedy girls party venue asked me to hurry up and cum,that other guys are waiting for a turn.This was within minutes of the gang bang party event starting,during the evening she constantly brushed me off.The best part of it she asked me a week earlier to go to this club the next time she was on,very confusing.I complained to the staff,i was not standing for that.

These days i prefer to have sex with more polite ladies aged about 28 to 35,instead of younger escorts who can be hurtful to older guys,i am not getting any younger.I'm getting self conscious as i am getting older it does not do a guy in his late 40s much good to have his ego and confidence knocked down by a girl half his age.

Well I am old, short and ugly.

I can honestly say that I have seen no change in the attitudes of escorts towards me over the decades I have been punting.

Yes some must have been disappointed to have to see me but I genuinely cannot recall any instances of that (perhaps failing memory helps that).

It would help everyone if escorts mentioned if they choose not to see certain kinds of punters - I don't agree that escorts should be prepared to see whoever comes before them but if there is no indication they have limits for age, weight, size then it can only help for that to be known. There are plenty of escorts and plenty of punters to go round.

I think if escorts stated on profiles which type of guys they prefered to see i think they would probably end up with dusty phones.That escort who moaned about a 74 year old guy seeing her she's quit escorting now it was a girl i booked many times and knew her well,the other one i could not be bothered with doing a return visit.I dislike that wording on Adultwork and VS that some escorts will not see black guys.I would have thought this was against the law.In the 1970s hotels used to put signs in windows NO BLACKS,NO IRISH AND NO DOGS,if they did this now they would be prosecuted and more than likely chucked in jail.I dont understand how some escorts get away with this wording and i'm shocked adultwork and VS allow it on these two sites.For the record i am white.

When i first punted i used brothels and did 30 minutes punts.The girls i saw looked at me like i was a cheapskate and tried to charge me a tenner for everything,so i did hour punts and got a better service the only problem i never got the full hour sometimes maids knocked the door after about 45/50 mins which usually ended up with me having a huge row with the maid and i demanded some of my cash back.All the girls i liked seem to have gone to various parts of the country or quit escorting.I now prefer to go to greedy girl parties and pay around £50 to £70 for 3 or 4hrs instead of risking seeing escorts i dont know and either being short changed or ripped off.All i know is the West Midlands is a shit place to punt escorts,it is that bad.

I probably sound a misery guts,i resent wasting money.

Yes I see your point, of course.

But some escorts do it already and isn't it better to be able to rule out booking with an escort than having a very difficult situation when she opens the door?

If they have conditions on who they see, they have conditions and I certainly don't want to be turned away at the door.

Punters have conditions too and are freely available to act on them, whether when browsing through punting sites or at the door.

Escorting and punting are more intimate activities than renting out a room.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 28/11/2018 11:31 by charlieton.

Yes i know what you mean about punting being intimate.When i went off on a punt with a new escort i had the same thoughts probably like many other guys.Is she going to be nice and friendly ? I hope she is sexy,I hope she kisses,like to receive oral and can take a good pounding.

For about 25 years i was easy going with escorts and some of them took the piss and i ended up feeling fed up with mediocre services off some escorts,i did have quite a few great punts with my favourite girls over the years and was disappointed when they quit.About 2 years ago i changed the way i punted to make sure i got my money's worth out of escorts after i was ripped off by a Romanian and a Spanish escort.I took control of the bookings and made them earn the cash.I have never had any problems with Asian girls (Thai,Korean,Chinese etc).These girls are brilliant escorts,they do not charge for extra's and have a well deserved reputation.The girls i visited in the Jewellery quarter part of Brum seem to have disappeared.I'm a bit pissed off over this my favourite girl is gone she loved a good pounding and i was always shagged out when i left the flat,it was a micro brothel she shared with two others girls.

I could not be bothered finding new escorts,so i went back to greedy girls party events at Private Club.