Prostate massage

So in the last year and a half of punting, trying new things. I can’t but help notice the vast amount of escorts that offer prostate massage in their service list.
Now being a 100% heterosexual man, the idea of sticking anything up my arse for sexual pleasure has never appealed but a few months back I happened to stumble upon a YouTube video about prostate massage’s and how some men get far more intense orgasms from them. Curiosity in this has been building since, as I suppose it’s one of those things where you will never know if you don’t try it, though I still haven’t built the nerve to ask an escort. As I’m starting to become a bit of a once a month regular at Bangkok Thai spa, I don’t know why, as I find it to be rather expensive and not that amazing but I keep finding myself going back! I am considering on my next visit asking about this service.
So what I would like to ask is, is the prostate massage, a service many of you guys go for? Is it as good as the YouTube video claimed? Or do escorts just put it in their service list to fill it up, knowing full well no punter is going to ask for it? Just curious, that’s all!

Forty years ago, when I was living in Geneva, I used to visit an Indian masseuse. Excellent massage and happy ending, but she gradually introduced tricks which I did not like. The first was to tug suddenly on my ankles thus jolting just about every joint simultaneously. The other was once to undertake prostate massage without being asked. I never returned. Call me anal-retentive, but I find any such activity to be perverted no matter how much society accepts it. I blame Alex Comfort. And suffering from BPH 25 years ago certainly did nothing to change my mind.

I can understand your point if you got a prostate massage without asking for one. But at least you now know it’s definitely not for you.
I think the thing that intrigued mostly in the video was the term “milking”

Only ever tried it once, the second girl I ever saw at HOD, a truly beautiful Brazilian babe called Jade, about 10 years ago. She offered it so I said yes. She donned a rubber glove and up went the finger. Okay, there was a vaguely pleasant sensation as she pressed the prostate but nothing more and, what put me off for life, was the fact that I felt a bit of discomfort up there for the next couple of days.

I love my balls beening played with, and if the stray to the perineum, that's a huge turn on and I want them to go further, as yet that hasn't happened.

Me, personally, I love the butt play.

Started with a finger, many moons ago, at an Asian massage place in Manhattan. Felt good, especially when she did it while blowing me.

Over 20 years ... well, I've tried a lot of stuff. 2,3,4 finger, hell, I've been fisted (by a small handed girl!). Something special about being someones puppet, quite literally.

Lots of different toys. Had an incredible 2 girl session with one girl laying down on a couple pillows, me eating pussy on all fours, other girl laying down underneath me, DTing me, while working a dildo in and out of my ass. Came like a freight train, right down her throat.

Hired 3 girls with strap-ons once, had them take turns using me however they wanted for an hour; my ass got really worked over, not to mention my dick. Ate a lot of pussy too. Tricky rhythm to get right, one in your butt while fucking a pussy with your dick, if you want everyone to stay connected. But when the motion is right, oooooh, so nice.

All of that was fun, but that's me. I like the sensations. That said, I have had just prostate massages as well, they are ok, but less satisfying on their own. I like the butt play with other sex positions -- not sure there is much better than fingers up your butt while getting a BJ, with her looking right in your eyes as she wiggles her fingers and licks your shaft. Sublime.

OTOH, never was interested in trans escorts, or gay escorts. But a girl who likes to play with my butt will make me melt.

cos it's a pleasure that most men aren't aware of. this is why it's more common these days.

Happened a couple of times. With the legendary Pixie at HoD. She didn't ask, in the finger went and I came almost immediately then a polish girl at Cherries in Bromley who did at least ask so was able to save to the end. Enjoyed it. Thinking about it will do it again.

As I said before, I blame Alex Comfort for normalising a perversion. But perhaps it is just me. I 'suffer' from coprophobia and synesthesia (cannot hear the word 'queer' without smelling 'public toilet'), not to mention being related to a NHS consultant; all of which militate against finding such activity acceptable. Whatever: it is spoiling my dinner.

plenty of escorts offer watersports. like that's getting turned on from literal body waste. some even offer scat. like that's literal shit play.
seems the only issue against prostate massage is homophobia. but apparently offering piss and shit play for decades is ok because it's from a woman.

Thanks for the feedback guys. Interesting views. Seems you either love it or you hate it!
The closest I’ve come to a prostate was once getting a bj from an escort and her hands were going all over and working my balls, (which I love) and on occasion her hands would go slightly further south but not entering and I remember that really turning me on.
Well I’m not sure when my next visit will be but the next time I go for my Thai massage, I will ask. Never know if you don’t try I guess. Will give my opinion on the matter once tried.


In regards to water sports. Doesn’t interest at all! There’s something strangely erotic about watching a woman piss in front of me but not on me. Again closest I’ve come to this is having a shared shower with a Thai escort at the end of the session where we both wanked each other off (one of the best punts I’ve had as the only time I’ve cum twice in an hour) on finishing she took a piss in the shower in front of me which added to memory bank but again wouldn’t want her pissing on me. It stunk to high heaven. She did explain she’d been drinking lots of coffee at the time.

On a date at the end of an evening a g/f or wife will have dribbles of urine in her knickers, which are rich in pheromones?

If a partner needs a wee during sex, well again she might wipe it but the scent endures.

You are putting me off my dinner again.