Addiction,Obsession or Harmless Hobby

Ruth Strawberry Wrote:
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> I prefer bookings which do not involve being
> repeatedly asked for services I do not provide.
> Clarity on website and AW profile goes a long way,
> but doesn't completely eliminate it. I'd far
> rather someone book me for what I do provide, than
> try for the things I do not.
>
> Extras do not exist I either do it or I do not,
> also I don't want to waste time negotiating, far
> rather be getting on with the booking.


Yes thats understandable people should not try to force you to do
Things you dont like.

Sexgod Wrote:
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Yes thats understandable people should not try to
> force you to do
> Things you dont like.

No they shouldn't.I always felt the most crucial part of a booking was the first few minutes.The connection between a punter and an escort,if you both got on and liked each other.I cant see the point in asking escorts questions about services that are not wrote on their profiles.Like you have already stated escorts profiles are made up to sound more interesting.Some escorts in London told me they did not do certain services like CIM,OWO and A-level even though it stated that on the girls profiles i visited.If the escorts were friendly i was happy to stay and i had travelled a fair distance.

I made sure beforehand with the angencies they did my favourite services foot fetish,smoking fetish and RO,sex goes without saying lol.

As for Adultwork i booked about 10 escorts i dont know why they even bother with the e-mail system on that site escorts hardly ever respond back.I found the best and quickest way was to phone them.The bookings and asking them about services was done by texts.If everything was agreed.I sent request for the booking,that was my experience of booking girls on AW.

I always had a shave before going off to punts and when i got to escorts flats we sorted the paperwork out i asked escorts if i could have a shower or they asked me if i wanted one.

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> Sexgod Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> Yes thats understandable people should not try
> to
> > force you to do
> > Things you dont like.
>
> No they shouldn't.I always felt the most crucial
> part of a booking was the first few minutes.The
> connection between a punter and an escort,if you
> both got on and liked each other.I cant see the
> point in asking escorts questions about services
> that are not wrote on their profiles.Like you have
> already stated escorts profiles are made up to
> sound more interesting.Some escorts in London told
> me they did not do certain services like CIM,OWO
> and A-level even though it stated that on the
> girls profiles i visited.If the escorts were
> friendly i was happy to stay and i had travelled a
> fair distance.
>
> I made sure beforehand with the angencies they did
> my favourite services foot fetish,smoking fetish
> and RO,sex goes without saying lol.
>
> As for Adultwork i booked about 10 escorts i dont
> know why they even bother with the e-mail system
> on that site escorts hardly ever respond back.I
> found the best and quickest way was to phone
> them.The bookings and asking them about services
> was done by texts.If everything was agreed.I sent
> request for the booking,that was my experience of
> booking girls on AW.
>
> I always had a shave before going off to punts and
> when i got to escorts flats we sorted the
> paperwork out i asked escorts if i could have a
> shower or they asked me if i wanted one.

There are somethings some people like to do which won't be listed, I don't mind being asked so long as it's polite and not taking the P. Also I tend to respond better to suggestion rather than pressure. I am someone who responds to AW messages as promptly as possible, however unless everything is in the message (and same goes for any form of the typed word, direct email, text and to some extent phone calls) I do prefer a phone call because the conversation is fluid and usually everything can be discussed, sorted in a few minutes rather than ten messages. Having to extract information such as time, date, location etc is also just as frustrating.

Good simple comms are greatly appreciated.

Ruth Strawberry Wrote:
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> Aston Driller Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > Sexgod Wrote:
> >
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > Yes thats understandable people should not try
> > to
> > > force you to do
> > > Things you dont like.
> >
> > No they shouldn't.I always felt the most
> crucial
> > part of a booking was the first few minutes.The
> > connection between a punter and an escort,if
> you
> > both got on and liked each other.I cant see the
> > point in asking escorts questions about
> services
> > that are not wrote on their profiles.Like you
> have
> > already stated escorts profiles are made up to
> > sound more interesting.Some escorts in London
> told
> > me they did not do certain services like
> CIM,OWO
> > and A-level even though it stated that on the
> > girls profiles i visited.If the escorts were
> > friendly i was happy to stay and i had travelled
> a
> > fair distance.
> >
> > I made sure beforehand with the angencies they
> did
> > my favourite services foot fetish,smoking
> fetish
> > and RO,sex goes without saying lol.
> >
> > As for Adultwork i booked about 10 escorts i
> dont
> > know why they even bother with the e-mail
> system
> > on that site escorts hardly ever respond back.I
> > found the best and quickest way was to phone
> > them.The bookings and asking them about
> services
> > was done by texts.If everything was agreed.I
> sent
> > request for the booking,that was my experience
> of
> > booking girls on AW.
> >
> > I always had a shave before going off to punts
> and
> > when i got to escorts flats we sorted the
> > paperwork out i asked escorts if i could have a
> > shower or they asked me if i wanted one.
>
> There are somethings some people like to do which
> won't be listed, I don't mind being asked so long
> as it's polite and not taking the P. Also I tend
> to respond better to suggestion rather than
> pressure. I am someone who responds to AW messages
> as promptly as possible, however unless everything
> is in the message (and same goes for any form of
> the typed word, direct email, text and to some
> extent phone calls) I do prefer a phone call
> because the conversation is fluid and usually
> everything can be discussed, sorted in a few
> minutes rather than ten messages. Having to
> extract information such as time, date, location
> etc is also just as frustrating.
>
> Good simple comms are greatly appreciated.

Yes thats understandable for me as a client simple straightforward
Reliable communication is also very important

When i used AW i think i booked 3 english girls the comms were done talking on the phone to them.The others were foreign when i phoned them no answer,they sent me a text about a minute later to text them.Was easier to text with foreign escorts because the comms would probably not have been so good talking to them on the phone.I would rather speak to english people on the phone anyway because of my regional West Mids accent.But i have had problems understanding geordies in the past i once met a girl from essex she did not understand my accent i had to pronounce words without using my local accent and slang words we use in the west mids.

When i meet foreign cuties i had to talk in an way they could understand me,if escorts could not speak english at all i used google translate with them.

Good comms are appreciated between punters and escorts,But IMO its just not worth the time of day sending AW e-mails.But those who do send them to escorts i would not suggest sending them e-mails like this

Hi SP,and when you ask about services do not keep calling or refering to them as SP.Much better to call them by their escort name.

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> Good comms are appreciated between punters and
> escorts,But IMO its just not worth the time of day
> sending AW e-mails.But those who do send them to
> escorts i would not suggest sending them e-mails
> like this
>
> Hi SP,and when you ask about services do not keep
> calling or refering to them as SP.Much better to
> call them by their escort name.


Lol. How about so

Hi bitch do you wanna bang with this geeza overe ere init
Is you for free after midnight

Sexgod Wrote:
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> Aston Driller Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > Good comms are appreciated between punters and
> > escorts,But IMO its just not worth the time of
> day
> > sending AW e-mails.But those who do send them
> to
> > escorts i would not suggest sending them
> e-mails
> > like this
> >
> > Hi SP,and when you ask about services do not
> keep
> > calling or refering to them as SP.Much better
> to
> > call them by their escort name.
>
>
> Lol. How about so
>
> Hi bitch do you wanna bang with this geeza overe
> ere init
> Is you for free after midnight

Lol

Well i knew this fuckin idiot who sends WGs e-mails he refuses to phone or text them because he does not want them to have his number till they agree to see him,FFS.He's very sarcastic and patronising to WGs,im surprised he gets any bookings ROFL.

He puts things in messages "If you are honest SP i will put you in my hotlist" WTF ROFL HAHAHA !.

Some or most escorts would not know what SP means,if i was an escort i would hate to be called SP in a AW e-mail.

SP really means "Starting Price".

And he's always moaning most escorts do not respond back to him,well i'm not surprised,tbh.

The best and easiest way of contacting escorts on AW is phone them first.You can sort services and the booking over the phone with english speaking escorts and foreign escorts who speak a decent command of english.

Many foreign escorts prefer to do it by text for obvious reasons.

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> Sexgod Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > Aston Driller Wrote:
> >
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > > Good comms are appreciated between punters
> and
> > > escorts,But IMO its just not worth the time
> of
> > day
> > > sending AW e-mails.But those who do send them
> > to
> > > escorts i would not suggest sending them
> > e-mails
> > > like this
> > >
> > > Hi SP,and when you ask about services do not
> > keep
> > > calling or refering to them as SP.Much better
> > to
> > > call them by their escort name.
> >
> >
> > Lol. How about so
> >
> > Hi bitch do you wanna bang with this geeza
> overe
> > ere init
> > Is you for free after midnight
>
> Lol
>
> Well i knew this fuckin idiot who sends WGs
> e-mails he refuses to phone or text them because
> he does not want them to have his number till they
> agree to see him,FFS.He's very sarcastic and
> patronising to WGs,im surprised he gets any
> bookings ROFL.
>
> He puts things in messages "If you are honest SP i
> will put you in my hotlist" WTF ROFL HAHAHA !.
>
> Some or most escorts would not know what SP
> means,if i was an escort i would hate to be called
> SP in a AW e-mail.
>
> SP really means "Starting Price".


Lol ok

Im pretty sure i had a gameboy sp back in the early 2000s

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> And he's always moaning most escorts do not
> respond back to him,well i'm not surprised,tbh.
>
> The best and easiest way of contacting escorts on
> AW is phone them first.You can sort services and
> the booking over the phone with english speaking
> escorts and foreign escorts who speak a decent
> command of english.
>
> Many foreign escorts prefer to do it by text for
> obvious reasons.

I also prefer texting in general whats written you have in hand

Also i just cant be asked to talk on phone about this least when im out

Sexgod Wrote:
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> Aston Driller Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > And he's always moaning most escorts do not
> > respond back to him,well i'm not surprised,tbh.
> >
> > The best and easiest way of contacting escorts
> on
> > AW is phone them first.You can sort services
> and
> > the booking over the phone with english
> speaking
> > escorts and foreign escorts who speak a decent
> > command of english.
> >
> > Many foreign escorts prefer to do it by text
> for
> > obvious reasons.
>
> I also prefer texting in general whats written
> you have in hand
>
> Also i just cant be asked to talk on phone about
> this least when im out

I prefer to text its more discreet.When you first use an agency or brothel you have to phone them.I have done this when i'm at home on my own.When you have done your first booking and the agency or brothel are happy you dont have to phone them again.They keep your number in their phone for future booking so they know who you are

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> Sexgod Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > Aston Driller Wrote:
> >
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > > And he's always moaning most escorts do not
> > > respond back to him,well i'm not
> surprised,tbh.
> > >
> > > The best and easiest way of contacting
> escorts
> > on
> > > AW is phone them first.You can sort services
> > and
> > > the booking over the phone with english
> > speaking
> > > escorts and foreign escorts who speak a
> decent
> > > command of english.
> > >
> > > Many foreign escorts prefer to do it by text
> > for
> > > obvious reasons.
> >
> > I also prefer texting in general whats written
> > you have in hand
> >
> > Also i just cant be asked to talk on phone
> about
> > this least when im out
>
> I prefer to text its more discreet.When you first
> use an agency or brothel you have to phone them.I
> have done this when i'm at home on my own.When you
> have done your first booking and the agency or
> brothel are happy you dont have to phone them
> again.They keep your number in their phone for
> future booking so they know who you are

With many agencies you can just text or also call if you want to
Only some that only do calls and then text you back the address

A couple of planned punts have gone pear-shaped this week looks like i will go on my merry way going to private and phoenix club,and seeing two girls i know well.I may see Valentina at HOD and American Beauty on AW sometime they both look well sexy.

Makes me laugh when agencies,parlours and independant escorts complain when its quiet (dusty phones),well they should look at their rates they are out pricing punters.Also some escorts should make the comms easy,i have been fucked about the last couple of days by a foreign escort i give up with her.

I'm not surprised some geezers have walked on punting or just do it every so often.

Valentina has gone from Anaballas and doesn't seem to be working at HoD. End of an era...

DellBoy Wrote:
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> Valentina has gone from Anaballas and doesn't seem
> to be working at HoD. End of an era...

I'm not that bothered tbh.I had some punting plans a few weeks ago which i have knocked on the head i am not travelling to brothels by train to do afternoon bookings to be made to go outside for a smoke.I have done most things in punting i will always go to greedy girl parties,i have always wanted to bang a sexy american there is one in London.I have done loads of indian girls over the years but i would like to see one with model looks sadly most do not display their faces and there is a sexy european i'd like to see i dont think she has a pimp.

I'm glad i did not book escorts on AW who hid their faces i probably would have had my phone number put on SAAFE forum or twitter lol.I walked on loads of escorts on VS.

I did find an Indian girl with model looks,Sexy Sunita .So i will be rotating her with The Phoenix Club.

That is the only punting i will be doing

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> I did find an Indian girl with model looks,Sexy
> Sunita .So i will be rotating her with The
> Phoenix Club.
>
> That is the only punting i will be doing


Has the indian lady tempted you with her curry pot lol

Yeah she more than tempted me to go back for some more visits to her .It appealed to me she is a student and a part time escort.I have found escorts who work all day,everyday hit and miss.If escorts are tired out and their vagina is not up to it,they should cancel bookings and do them another time.

Its not fair for a punter to waste his cash and time on escorts who are not up to it.I think escorts who are jaded and disinterested with escorting should quit,instead of carrying on giving out rubbish services to guys.

Aston Driller Wrote:
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> phones),well they should look at their rates they
> are out pricing punters.

In my many years punting I've never once heard of a girl pricing out punters. A girl sets the prices at her discretion and they generate an amount of business she is happy with. Obviously, if her phone was dusty and she wasn't happy then she'd lower her prices (assuming she wanted more business.) If her price is constant, she is obviously getting as much trade as she wants at that price. Who the fuck are you (or anybody else) to decide what a reasonable price is?

Personally, I have an amount I will pay that I know is sufficient to secure a good punt with an attractive girl. I see many girls on AW I'd love to see who charge more than that amount. So I don't see them. I don't think they are charging too much. The girl decides what to charge and I decide what I'll pay and if the twain never meet so be it. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the world or with the girls prices. Show some fucking respect.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/05/2019 16:22 by Chuntering.

Makes me laugh when agencies,parlours and independent escorts complain when its quiet (dusty phones),well they should look at their rates they are out pricing punters.

That was my comment in full.

Yes escorts can set their own rates.Its was my sarcasm.I have read loads of comments off punters and guys complaining at greedy girl parties how expensive it is to see escorts.Guys only really go to gang bang parties because it's a cheap way of punting.In London guys use adultwork because its cheaper than using escort agencies.There's been plenty of comments on this site that escorts rates are going up in London.I have never put myself on a punting budget if i liked the look of an escort i booked her.I did over spend though.

My comments were really directed at agencies and parlours more than independent escorts.One agency complained to me last year "at the moment is not a good time for agencies",i did think later well take less in booking fees then.

I went to a parlour 3 times about 18 months ago on the afternoon,on all my visits it was dead quiet.I remember the last time all the girls seemed bored shitless except the one i booked.I went outside late in the afternoon for a smoke and one of the girls was sleeping on the sofa lol.

Quite a few punters have quit because of the increase in escorts rates.Guys these days seem to book cheap EE independent escorts and have a crap time with them (not me).I dont rate adultwork at all,because its hopeless in the west mids,i hate the FB system and i do not like spending hours trawling through profiles,i find filtering on AW useless at times.I dont mind doing some research but not hours of it.

In Birmingham Oriental escorts are the best VFM,you dont get bad attitude off them and they dont live in shitholes either.I found with EE scammers it was just sex nothing else and they wanted £100 just for that.

I did not realise i was being fucking disrespectful to escorts,i was thinking more about punters.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/05/2019 01:54 by Aston Driller.

I know this is coming from a woman, but, this is a HOBBY, never see it as anything else. Have fun, never get addicted, that's not fun.

I'm back from taking a5 year break from punting.
coming back to see who is still around look for any new ladies in the area I punt in.
Prices have gone up a little but not unexpected
One thing I have noticed is that a few ladies today still state same age as 5 years ago.

suffolk punter forever Wrote:
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> I'm back from taking a5 year break from punting.
> coming back to see who is still around look for
> any new ladies in the area I punt in.
> Prices have gone up a little but not unexpected
> One thing I have noticed is that a few ladies
> today still state same age as 5 years ago.


Hahaha yeah women don't wanna age At least on their profiles
They can stay forever one age

This has been one of the most cost effective hobbies I have encountered. Total cost £140 over the duration of 1 decade. Visited 2 women that gave 2 very different experiences, and even though it felt that there was a mix of awkwardness (myself not the girls) and sexiness at time, these 2 emotions combined were very potent. I felt satisfied, but in reality seeing these girls can only go so far. I really appreciated them I was respectful in the way I arrived clean and on time and polite. When the time was up they weren't at all bothered with ending just there and then, even though I pointed out my time was over they said I could stay a bit longer, which I did with the first one but I only spent less than 10 mins and she charged nothing more although I think this is a tactic common that working girls utilise with new clients to get guys to become regulars. I didn't spend any extra time on the second occasion with a different woman as I had a good enough time and didn't want to exhaust her goodwill.

I just feel it was the best time that one could have experienced, and felt that the need and a curiosity about seeing an escort was for-filled.
Questions that I was wondering and that were answered such as...

Is the girl in the picture the one you will see? Yes It was in my case and I'm well aware of bait & switch. On the first occasion I just called and showed up it was an agency with generic images.

It it safe? I was scared of being seen going into the first place as it was a house on a street, and obviously the neighbours may be overly enthusiastic with the curtains to see who is going in and out and may well have cottoned on to what is going on but what can you do. Maybe not go but where's the fun in that. Frightened of being set up to be robbed of the money I was carrying, by a gang of guys with baseball bats, or the woman would pull out a knife or some other weapon to get the money. Either way I would of surrendered the cash if that had happened unless I could make a break for it and run for the hills. Handing over the cash is better than later having to have all your body parts reattached.

Emotions and the aftermath. There is no real gauge to size up an escort like you could for a regular date. It's just different and at times the same. The same as in will you click as you would when meeting someone up for a date. In case of the escort it kind of immaterial if there is a repore but it a bonus, afterwards I think should I have taken a bottle of wine for them to enjoy in there own time, I have heard of guys taking gifts but, I just don't want to bestow tat on people that they don't want and expect them to be grateful (I think if I were to supply a platinum and diamond necklace that would be a different matter) On the first occasion I did ask if there was anything I should bring other than cash and myself (I think they would really just be happy with the cash) and she said if I could bring a box of protection as a kind of gift, but she stated it was not that essential. Other aspects were making sure as I would for a date to be presentable and considerate, as you would want them to be. Only slight moments of awkwardness probably bought on by the nerves, but I did state of how I felt and this helped somewhat as instead of saying nothing of and staying silent I felt it let the other person know where I stand. Followed by a massage with oil worked wonders and then I suggested to turn on the radio in there. It transformed the atmosphere immediately (thank god for radio 2) However there were some laughs here then there as she said to me don't be afraid to touch as I has kind of mixed up the rules of strip dancers with escorts and thought that until an escort touches you, your are kind of paralized. And I know that you can't touch strippers at all. Dispite this I think it went well for me but there is a falseness to this, because that is what is exactly is. I was touched at the end when I said it looks like the time is up, and was told I could stay longer, but it's a business tactic to get clients back in the door, and one I expect works very well. I had a good time and I suspect lots of other guys out there do as well, sex, odd laughs sometimes, time out from the usual everyday world (the everyday world I like for the most part anyway) I went out the door i'm happy and the escort is happy I'm gone and ready to usher in the next customer. That what the truth is. You are made to feel great by

another person, but that feeling is only provided by in return for cash. The feeling half day on after the appointment becomes less of importance. It great it uncomplicated and its not the be all and end all if it doesn't quite feel right. But the second appointment only made it come full circle. It's naughty and a bit fun. I couldn't and would not take an escort a date that they offer in return for money. It's best to invest in a real relationship. In a real relationship it not on tap the sex, but when It does happen it's all that much better or if it's not then it's back to the good old escort services. My opinion is my own I never viewed it as a hobby and have not quit but at the same time I have never been back,anyway but if you are shy, confident, old ,young over 18 of course, inexperienced, or skilled but never tried it, then never say never and give it a go.

Sexgod Wrote:
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> suffolk punter forever Wrote:
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> > I'm back from taking a5 year break from
> punting.
> > coming back to see who is still around look for
> > any new ladies in the area I punt in.
> > Prices have gone up a little but not unexpected
> > One thing I have noticed is that a few ladies
> > today still state same age as 5 years ago.
>
>
> Hahaha yeah women don't wanna age At least on
> their profiles
> They can stay forever one age

Some I know are a good few years younger than they were five years ago.

ordinarybloke Wrote:
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> Sexgod Wrote:
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> > suffolk punter forever Wrote:
> >
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > > I'm back from taking a5 year break from
> > punting.
> > > coming back to see who is still around look
> for
> > > any new ladies in the area I punt in.
> > > Prices have gone up a little but not
> unexpected
> > > One thing I have noticed is that a few ladies
> > > today still state same age as 5 years ago.
> >
> >
> > Hahaha yeah women don't wanna age At least on
> > their profiles
> > They can stay forever one age
>
> Some I know are a good few years younger than they
> were five years ago.

This one is very happy to be the age I am, and carry on 'ageing' very gracefully.

Interestingly I am going to be receiving some education on Sex Addiction very soon, as soon as I spotted the opportunity I thought it could be useful in many ways.

Ruth Strawberry Wrote:
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> ordinarybloke Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > Sexgod Wrote:
> >
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > > suffolk punter forever Wrote:
> > >
> >
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > > > I'm back from taking a5 year break from
> > > punting.
> > > > coming back to see who is still around look
> > for
> > > > any new ladies in the area I punt in.
> > > > Prices have gone up a little but not
> > unexpected
> > > > One thing I have noticed is that a few
> ladies
> > > > today still state same age as 5 years ago.
> > >
> > >
> > > Hahaha yeah women don't wanna age At least
> on
> > > their profiles
> > > They can stay forever one age
> >
> > Some I know are a good few years younger than
> they
> > were five years ago.
>
> This one is very happy to be the age I am, and
> carry on 'ageing' very gracefully.
>
> Interestingly I am going to be receiving some
> education on Sex Addiction very soon, as soon as I
> spotted the opportunity I thought it could be
> useful in many ways.

Makes you an exception many women will knock a few or quite some years of their
Real age. You meet so many women that say they wanna be forever 18
Or that they stopped celebrating their birthdays in their 20s