Dating websites as substitute for punting?

Can dating websites be an alternative way of replicating the enjoyment of punting? I'm not talking about looking for a long term partner or anything serious. More a friends with benefits type thing where it's purely casual right from the start.

If such a thing does exist, any recommendations?

Or is it still one of those things where when you meet someone, you still need to invest time and are not necessarily guaranteed?

You invest a lot more time and effort. When it happends its great.

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1/ Arranged to meet for a drink and invited back to hers for a coffee, a long chat before we got close, she had a hysterectomy, so it was BB – all good didn’t see her again.

2/ Very smart but bad Rheumatism, invited for a coffee I was standing in front of her washing machine which was full of lacy lingerie, she realised I had seen it and that set the tone for the evening, she had been sterilised so more BB. Alas next morning no romance she really struggled or movement and the whole thing was embarishing.

3/ Via dating site, visited her home as disabled son was there, by the time I got there she had moved him to his fathers. Really great sex with condom, I was exhausted.

All were unexpected and better than any escort.

I stopped punting regularly 9 years ago but four years later joined the site Illicit Encounters, as I missed the feeling of being desired.

I soon found out it was an expensive way of meeting women with good photoshop skills for coffee, however one of the women I met up with suggested we use the Kik messaging app to keep in touch.

This then led me to the wild world of Kik affair groups. Let’s just say that 2019 was a very interesting year. Being mid-50’s I assumed that no woman under 50 herself would be remotely interested - I was wrong.

It’s an intense lifestyle though, as you will be doing a lot of clandestine messaging and phone calls between sporadic meets and so the risk of getting caught out by your SO is much higher.

I’m now dipping my toe back into the Punting world as although it doesn’t have the same emotional dimension it’s a lot simpler and no more expensive (as you invariably have to book a hotel in order to facilitate a meet with an affair partner).

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Never head of KIK before. That sounds very interesting. Do you know if it's still a thing that's widely used for these purposes?