Cancelling a booking there and then

Interested to hear from escorts too. But is it ok for a punter to turn up to a booking and then within a few minutes, decide its not for you and politely not go ahead with it.

Im not talking about if something seems dodgy. You only have a profile to go on with some pictures where the face has been blurred or you might not click with the escort. Not forgetting too there is photo shopping. Might have said size 10 on profile but ends up being a 16. Nothing against a size 16, just an example to show where someone is different to what is advertised. Could be vice versa.

Is it ok to apologise and walk away, no hard feelings. Or do you still feel pressurised to pay as the session is booked?

Im just saying there is limited info to go on.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/05/2020 22:33 by Addictpaul.

Thats why I've done extensive research because i'm a newbie ive never punted before so my first time ive had nightmares of something going horribly wrong such the girl being totally different or getting radio silence while on my way to her etc. So I got loads of advice about how to get the right escort looking on adultwork to see when they joined then correspond that with the latest reviews both on AW and on punter sites like these.

I found someone perfect as a result although I've not seen her yet cause of lockdown -.- but I would do that with every punt weather new or a veteran just make sure what your getting is what your expecting.

However if it were to ever happen me walking out I would have no problem with it because all you do is turn round and say sorry you suckered me in with false advertising what ever it maybe be dress size or anything, It's on them not you in that sort of instance

Really you need to be sure you want to see that person, it can be galling to have someone walk away for no actual good reason - and that has happened to me on a day when I knew everything was absolutely bob on, even down to the sun shining.

A few haven't gone through with their booking due to nerves or guilt, a couple of these actually left part of or all of the fee.

It's also a reason to be accurate in advertising, although of course there's a fantasy to be built as well.

Balance I would say.

If you have done your homework and the girl is not as advertised (allowing for a bit of marketing hype: 21 means 25, 38" means 36", Japanese means any asian nation etc.), then you may want to walk away. However, unless the description is completely misleading I will normally give her a tenner before I leave and get on with plan B.

This has very rarely happened to me and, as I have said before on here, the subsititute girl, (or even the maid on one occasion) can be much better than the girl I planned to see. Most places genuinely want the client to have a great time because repeat visits and good reviews are their best form of marketing.

I must just be lucky. When I started, only five years ago, my first escort was brilliant. I still see her. I was reasonably careful but not overly. Since then there have been one or two disappointments, on service, but nothing to make me consider walking.

You can cancel there and then.
but they may say it's cool and move on.
or they may swear at you and tell you to fuck off and not come back.

i think both are pretty valid.
they don't like timewasters which is understandable.
but then i've had to cancel last minute sometimes and it's been fine with some.
it just depends.
if i were an escort, i probbaly would blacklist and block clients who cancelled last minute.

I've very recently got into the game (What have I been missing all my life) only had one experience and it's been a 10/10 one couldn't imagine it going any better. BUT as others have stated I guess the best way to avoid this at all is thorough research. Doesn't take long and in my inexperienced opinion seems to be worth it to not get disappointed. HOWEVER if it's just complete false advertising I'd assume it'd be okay to cancel, maybe leave a bit of money if you want to be nice.

Ting_pun Wrote:
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> I've very recently got into the game (What have I
> been missing all my life) only had one experience
> and it's been a 10/10 one couldn't imagine it
> going any better. BUT as others have stated I
> guess the best way to avoid this at all is
> thorough research. Doesn't take long and in my
> inexperienced opinion seems to be worth it to not
> get disappointed. HOWEVER if it's just complete
> false advertising I'd assume it'd be okay to
> cancel, maybe leave a bit of money if you want to
> be nice.

If bait and switch or just completely false then just walk and do not feel obliged to leave anything.

I cancel bookings quite often there and then. It normally is because the pics are old. Profiles mostly have false statements. And I will use this as an excuse if I feel deceived.
I enjoy walking out because I know I saved myself a bad punt which can leave you feeling unclean should you go ahead.

If they give me a valid reason at the time before they leave then sure. If they don't give me a reason that I class as valid then I consider it a debt, the price of the booking. Should they wish to try a second time in future then they know they need to bring two fees. Same for no shows. Debt incurred. Cancellations are a different matter , they're being polite and normal .

fatboy Wrote:
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> Ting_pun Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> > I've very recently got into the game (What have
> I
> > been missing all my life) only had one
> experience
> > and it's been a 10/10 one couldn't imagine it
> > going any better. BUT as others have stated I
> > guess the best way to avoid this at all is
> > thorough research. Doesn't take long and in my
> > inexperienced opinion seems to be worth it to
> not
> > get disappointed. HOWEVER if it's just complete
> > false advertising I'd assume it'd be okay to
> > cancel, maybe leave a bit of money if you want
> to
> > be nice.
>
> If bait and switch or just completely false then
> just walk and do not feel obliged to leave
> anything.


I think it's totally fair to cancel on the spot if its a bait and switch or profile super out of date/misleading

If it's bait and switch then technically the booking never existed as the woman booked with isn't there, so in that situation, is it really a walk away , she ain't there, she doesn't exist, no booking?

Scams are a differe t matter to the guy not liking the person in front of him. Should be a separate thread

I have walked on bookings before. The main reason being that I asked for certain services when booking and then confirmed these with the WG on arrival, only to be told that she does do that service, or didn't have the right "tools for the job".

I learnt the hard way in early punting years about not confirming services and only when in the room with the girl did it become apparent that very little of the advertised services were on offer..