Will I/we ever calm down?

So I'm in my 30s and have always been attracted to woman and had all the usual serial urges since being a teenager. I dont want to generalise but I'm sure all us men have those crazy urges. I'm not even discriminating and saying its just straight. I'm sure gay / lesbian / bi etc all have the urges.

I am just wondering if I am going to be like this for the rest of my life in my 40s 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s? Am I going to still going to be horny when I'm an old man?

Or will there come a point when I calm down and start being more sensible and not perve over gorgeous women anymore?

I also wonder if the level of urges and desires amongst men is the same across the board? Is everyone like this? Or are there some boys / men that don't care as much and happy as they are? They don't get horny at all.

Or are they just suppressing and hiding it?

I wouldn't worry about it.

To me it sounds likes you're over thinking things. I'm in my mid 50s and still have the urge. I'm just not as blatant as I was in my 30s, but that comes with maturity so I reckon your attitude may calm down a bit. It's not a big deal.

No, I think it's unlikely you'll ever calm down. In fact the older you get, the less calm you may be. At least in your 30s you have normal interaction with women at work or in pubs and so on. And you always never know your luck. But the older you get, into your 50s and 60s, that kind of contact inevitably lessens. And as a result desires and urges increase. It can be a pain and a burden, there's no doubt about it. The Internet is full of questions from guys who have sexual overdrive and want to switch it off, or at least tone it down. Google it and you'll see. But though there are a few suggestions about supplements and health pills to reduce sex drive none of them are known to be effective.

We're all different so you may be 'lucky'. But if you're here asking that question now it's unlikely. This business is not all fun and games, there's no doubt about it. Many times I'd have preferred to be watching football or out cycling or whatever, doing 'normal' stuff rather than be in the sex thoughts zone. I know guys who have virtually zero sex drive, and sometimes I envy them. But we get what's put out for us. A hard session at the gym or doing other vigorous physical exercise helps knock the sex stuff out of your head. I know because it works for me, at least partly. But it's always around. I'm in my 60s but just because I look old it doesn't mean these thoughts aren't buzzing around in my mind.

The other bad news is that the older you get the less easy it is to jerk off and get instant relief, and a clear and relaxed mind. That's just a physiological fact. The good news is that there are plenty females around if you have the cash so that's a big help. But it sounds like you're in that category of men blessed or cursed with an over active sex drive and it's unlikely to go away till you're in a wooden box. Now I've said my piece in response to a good question and I hope it clarifies things, for better or for worse. And now I'm heading directly for a sweat drenched session at the gym putting all my thoughts and efforts into a bloody hard session on a top of the range exercise bike.

If you're like me you will, I was almost addicted in my 30s but now in 50s have calmed down a lot,last time I saw anyone was almost 2 years ago. Trouble is, I just can't meet the right lady, I'm fussy and we need to click if you know what I mean, it all needs to feel natural and no one has for years now
I'll keep looking though!

Its an addiction and it never reduces on its own.. I've pmed you, let me know what you think

I have just turned 70. I don't do it as much as I did, but it's still great!

It is a function of your free testosterone level. So it will drop off as you get older, stop lifting heavy weights, get fat, etc.

We have clients in their 70s and 80s. so there is hope for you yet Chloe x

I've been doing this since my 20s and now 49 cant see every slowing down - just getting started perhaps!!

The urges get less frequent and its harder cum when playing with yourself now that I am in my 60s. Sex with older ladies on dates etc:

Older ladies like younger ladies vary but as a generalisation.

They are less keen on receiving oral, I think they are more self-conscious of their scent.

Less keen on giving oral to completion, they know we aren’t as quick as repeating.

Bareback becomes the norm, that makes my ejaculations extra special and juicy

Tend to be keener, no worries of pregnancy, and after perhaps years of poorer sex in marriage!

Quality starts to replace quality.

Get more annoyed if you leave the toilet seat up

I agree with most on here. I don't think you'll calm down. Once you're a hobbyist, there's no going back really. This much access to some of the most beautiful women in the world, is pretty hard to give up! But why would you want to? Perhaps if you get hitched and want to remain monogamous, this happens. As for your age, your body may decline as much action, but you'll still want to LOL!

Well I would say count yourself lucky I only found out about escorting a year ago and im 38! I feel like ive missed out on 10 years of incredible pleasurable experiences. I mean ive had girlfriends of course but nothing like some the service some escorts provide. But I honestly wouldnt worry about it it should calm down eventually I feel myself calming down a bit now although because ive only just discovered escorting Im making up for lost time

I have hit the Pause button, until we know how dangerous this Omicron thing is, but I will be saving the cash so I can do more when it's safe.

You'll be up for a good session then Dave. All the best to you!

Like you I was addicted to escorts in my 30s..secretly meeting so many. Now, there's been a break of several years and at 48 I want to get back into it.

I'm 50ish i don't think i'll ever calm down i've only got to see a sexy woman wearing a mini dress and high heel toe stilettos my cock is rock hard! I love hot young ladies opening the door wearing very little.. Have fun with sex toys i like those hooded masks and many of those restraints you'd be surprised how many women enjoy being tied up. Great fun. Buy ladies fishnet stockings and sexy outfits.. School Girl, Maid, Nurses uniforms etc.

The filthy dirty talkin stuff..

I like to think i'm a Sid James type of character.. Dirty ole bastard lol, The younger babes love it!

Who'd want to calm/slow down?



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I was told by a fellow traveler at the back door of a 747 flight to the USA when my gaze moved to the hostesses b as she walked past
He said don’t worry that will fail with age
It does not
I am 68 and single and punt 4 times a month
I have savings to take me to the next 10 years
Will pm you then
My life’s aim now is to be shot by a 30 year old jealous husband in the act age 92

I’m approaching late 50’s now and my libido has fallen off a cliff, but this might be a result of being hospitalised for a long time last year due to a medical emergency which I am still recovering from. Have to say, it’s something of a relief not to have those urges constantly nagging at you.

I started seeing lots of escorts in my 30s and stopped in my early 40s. I've not been with an escort since COVID but the growing desire in me is building day by day. I'm now 49 and so ready to start again. I've been on AW a lot and my hotlist is growing. I admit I'm a little nervous about it, being 49 but reading the comments here it seems that plenty of guys in their 40s/50s meet plenty of girls...so why not?

neilbefarmy Wrote:
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> I started seeing lots of escorts in my 30s and
> stopped in my early 40s. I've not been with an
> escort since COVID but the growing desire in me is
> building day by day. I'm now 49 and so ready to
> start again. I've been on AW a lot and my hotlist
> is growing. I admit I'm a little nervous about it,
> being 49 but reading the comments here it seems
> that plenty of guys in their 40s/50s meet plenty
> of girls...so why not?

I never punted in my 30s or before, only civvy girlfriends and relationships, one or two one night stands

Got tired of chasing skirt so in my late 30s was celibate out of choice

Didn't want to start dating again so thought I'd explore this sphere

My peak was my early 40s where I routinely saw 5 girls a day, 30 girls a week, and wasn't blue pill assisted

Had a year or so off for personal reasons

Started again this year but now quickies don't do it for me

I only want to see the best girls out there for the best dates

Champagne, cocktails, dinner and the most salubrious, opulent and stylish hotel suites

The high volume punting was like a full-time job, sadly I didn't get paid!

I wouldn't change any of it

But this has been my best punting year, and I'm now closer to 50 than 40

Thank you Jessica and Lucie

Two very special ladies

MF

X



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I'm still active but less often. I can see a time coming now when I won't want to, it doesn't bother me. I've spent a lot of energy over the years.