Coming again

Hi All. I've seen reviews where men talk about cuming twice with an escort. I just wondered how that happens?

I just find that once I am done, I am done. And when try to get going again, it's hopeless as I'm winding down while it's happening. I would probably need to wait 5 hours before I am ready. Even if the lady is mega attractive.

Is there a way to get going again? Would love to know. Viagra perhaps?

For me, it’s not, not being able to get up again, but the sensitivity. If I try to go again 20 minutes after round 1, I just don’t feel anything. Then I get worn out and frustrated. I tend to book 2hr appointments so I can have a little more downtime in between.

For some guys it is a case of only being able to go the once, and this certainly isn’t more prevalent (or so I’ve experienced) in more mature gents. I’ve seen many young guys who it’s once then that’s it. Do let the lady who you see know so that she is mindful of this and won’t encourage a happy ending too soon into your time. Once you have built up rapport with an escort who you’ve seen a few times what sometimes works is having a quick round at the very beginning, then catching up and the chit chat and foreplay until the end. Sometimes it works. Trial and error, but not unusual and can be fun trying out new ways of squeezing that extra round in! Steer clear of viagra, it’s a pain in the arse for making you rock hard and then difficult to cum. Although I appreciate everyone’s experience with it varies. Definitely exhaust all other options first.

My experience is that this is individual, not necessarily related to age, quite a few men say they'd like to cum twice but are happy after one. As I understand ED medication doesn't increase the number of climaxes. For some ED medication doesn't achieve one orgasm, simply improves firmness of erection.

Interesting responses and thanks for them. Wont bother with Viagra then. I do like the idea of having a fast round 1 where the urge is high. Then for round 2, get into it slowly maybe with some role play.

In my private life it sometimes happens, that was in my 20 and now in my 60s.

A lot depends on the buildup, if its quick I recover quickly, a long buld up and a huge organism takes longer to recover from.

It is better as you get a rapport with asexual partner, but that applies also in my private life.

My experiene says it depend on how you manage, using ED drug is not advisable. I tried using Viagra recently, it does not help when numbers are concern. When I was young I could do 2 times easily with any girl in an hour but as I grow older, now I am happy with one. After my first I do not even bother to ask instead I look for WG who can give a good massage after round one

I think this is a common fantasy. I too have had this wish for years and was hoping to find a woman so hot that coming more than once would be doable.
I’m now in my sixties and am still looking for the holy grail.
I also find that once you’ve come once the working woman feels her work is over.
Anyone know of a WG who would be enthusiastic to go for seconds and would be willing to put in the work.

John Adams Wrote:
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> I think this is a common fantasy. I too have had
> this wish for years and was hoping to find a woman
> so hot that coming more than once would be doable.
> I’m now in my sixties and am still looking for the
> holy grail.
> I also find that once you’ve come once the working
> woman feels her work is over.
> Anyone know of a WG who would be enthusiastic to
> go for seconds and would be willing to put in the
> work.

That’s really poor form. ‘Work’ is over when the booked meeting time comes to an end. Of course most ladies won’t be up for being a Duracell bunny for the whole time, but to mentally check out and make the gent feel they’re disinterested after round one isn’t very kind. Even if a second attempt doesn’t result in another completed round it’s still nice to persevere and give it a good go if that’s what is wanted. And if not then there’s plenty of other sensual ways to enjoy the remainder of each other’s time.

Yup - I recommend this. It’s how I function and I manage to get a couple off in an hour. Wouldn’t recommend Viagra as I think it’s a libido thing.

I am a more mature man these days and I can still come several times in an hour. I am of Asian descent and I think it is also factor. I have been to many parties where guys try and come many many times but I think they don’t produce any cum. It’s hard to tell the truth from the fiction. I did cum 4 times once with the help of the (in)famous Valentina and she always tried to get more out of me each time, but you need to know the person well and be in the right mood.

It's a lot to do with the girl you are with really. As well as the obvious physical condition. Viagra won't help you cum more than once, if anything it will make you last even longer (it'll be nice though!) Drink more water.

Viagra does the trick. For the first cum you get to fuck harder and longer. Then I need half and hour water is a very good idea then I get hard again not as strong and without so much feeling but I can fuck again and sometimes cant cum again. A two sex party usually has me cumming 1st time 20 mins in then another viagra and for the last 45 minutes I can fuck continuously. Usually one of the last to be fucking. Viagra is essential to all my sex punting otherwise I'm not getting the max out of it. £5 on top of a punt is not a lot to ensure success.

Don't they advise you not to take more than one Viagra per day? How are the side effects for you? Do you get a headaches etc.?