Invitation from a m/f couple (paid). How does THAT work?

There's been an AW ad from a couple, a guy and his wife or partner, 47, I've had an eye on for quite a while. For some time I couldn't get registered with AW to send emails etc but now that's been fixed. In the interests of trying something different, ticking another box, I may pursue this. Probably will now I can make contact.

I've done a lot but this would be a first. The ad says there's no sex with the woman but no doubt other pleasures would be involved. It would definitely be different from a normal escort visit, but I can't quite get my head round how it would work. At £180 an hour there's not a lot of time to find out. Do you sit and chat for a while to "get to know each other"? Or is it straight down to business, whatever that might be? As identities aren't revealed, you might even know them!

All in all it's tricky to work out. Maybe if/when I make contact there will be some satisfactory clarification, I think there'd need to be. I'd have thought ideally you'd need to spend some time chatting and getting relaxed before anything happened. But that's burning money. Getting straight into it with a guy and his wife would be a stretch. Anyone tried this? It would be interesting to break new ground but it's definitely quite an expensive step into the unknown.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 21/05/2022 03:12 by Nesslad.

My advice is ask them before or when you make the booking.

When I'm arranging a couple booking I ask to speak to both partners, together on the same phone call. I want to know what they want, would like to happen, and their boundaries. Then just like any booking we start when we meet, and just like any booking communication and respect guide the participants.

Of course for you the arrangement is the other way around, but there's no reason why same principles can't apply. Establish your requirements and limits, their requirements and limits.

Thanks Ruth, that sounds good advice. They've been doing it for a while as their ad has been there for months. I assume they'll know by now the best way to progress the situation. In this case I'd be OK with just being led along and see what happens. It will be interesting whatever happens.

As I was pondering this yesterday by coincidence I came across a lengthy article on a website, the Telegraph actually, with pics of a Canadian female professor in her 40s who has a husband and two lovers. She's written a book about her way of doing things. She also said she often gets online invitations from guys, some of which she accepts. Obviously she's quite open about it all. In layman's terms, so to speak, her view essentially was, as long as no one's harmed, do what you feel you want to, or at least try it out. That's not a new point of view by any means. But it did however embolden me to think that venturing into a MM/F situation on the scale of things is no big deal, just go with the flow. I think I'll send an email via AW now, and await the reply with considerable interest.

That has never worked out well for me. No chatting, we all got naked. I lay on the bed and they both started giving me a hand-job at the same time. It was so erotic that I came almost immediately. No problem, I thought, I recovered very quickly in those days and was looking for round two. They either did not believe me, or did not choose to believe me, so that was the end of the meeting. On another occasion I gave a stranger a lift home after we had met at a bukkake/gangbang. Turned out that he and his girlfriend advertised as a couple on AW. I hear your question, 'why was he going to orgies if he was a sex-worker'. Sex-addiction plus haemophobia plus wrong time of the month apparently. Anyway, he predictably started trying to sell their usual services to me (with a slight mate-rate reduction). That seemed to be eminently reasonable as we had already shared a girl in several ways during the gangbang. One problem was that, even with a reduction, their rates were eye-watering and, in view of my first experience, probably not worth the risk of falling flat. Second problem: I am quite 'vanilla' - in spite of the orgies - and their menu was far more 'sophisticated'. I just did not fancy the idea of being the filling in a sandwich ... any of the 4 ways around (sigh, use your imagination). So, well, it might work with patient amateurs but I would not hold out much hope.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 24/05/2022 00:04 by MoravianHfan.

The majority of independent escorts i've contacted in the past weren't interested to have a brief chat regarding services all they wanted to know was What time? and How long? I often phoned first which was a waste of time a couple of minutes later i received a text i realised she'd rather sort booking out texting. I asked about services she either said yay or nay, or simply I do all services.

My experiences independent escorts want you round there with the cash. However guys have the option of staying or walking back out the door.