They don't need to be nice, friendly or chatty. When it comes to visiting an escort, looks ARE everything

I had an outing last week with a very friendly, very chatty British escort. She'd rate 10/10 or 9/10 for just about everything, I reckon with most clients. Except for one thing - her looks. She was in her late 30s, and by no means unattractive, in a late 30s way. But late 30s isn't late 20s, and it certainly isn't mid 20s and is a long way from early 20s. I'm stating the obvious. It's just nature taking it's course.

We got chatting generally about the escort business and I said things were nowhere near as good around here, or I believe in most places, as they were four years, ago, before covid and Brexit. The days when the door would open and I could expect to see a genuinely stunning Polish girl in her early or mid 20s - as happened numerous times, are gone. That never happens now, as in never. They've all gone home.

At this point she intervened and said in a friendly way: "Looks aren't everything."

I shrugged at the time but got thinking about that later. And I came to the conclusion she wasn't right about that. Looks ARE everything.

They are for me, anyway. We hear stories about guys who just mainly want to chat to escorts and enjoy the "connection" and like being with a friendly woman etc etc. That's all very sweet, but personally I don't give a fuck about making a connection or having a pleasant chat or a "friendly experience".

The only thing that matters to me about an escort is how she looks. If she's friendly that's a bonus but it's not important. I'd rather spend an hour - and regardless of their attitude I always want my time - with a stunner who's surly, offhand, bored, even insulting, than some plainish bird in her 30s who's nice. It's, no contest.

One of my best ever outings was with a Hungarian beauty in her early 20s who was quite frankly a cheeky bitch. When I went back a second time she positively sneered, "Oh it's you again", and turned her back as I followed her in. Being aloof and unfriendly and making cheeky remarks seemed to be her style. I reckon it was the way she was with all her clients. I didn't give a fuck. I was in the presence of a dark eyed beauty from Budapest and that was all that mattered. She could say anything or act in any way she liked as long as she was doing what mattered. I went back a third time too, and if she'd stayed around long enough I'd have gone back for more.

But I've been with escorts who've been incredibly attractive, in their 20s and no later than that, who were friendly as well. But that was in what now seem "the golden days" of a few years ago. The last 20 outings I've had prove beyond any doubt that they may still be in London but they no longer exist around here.

Meeting a chatty, friendly escort is OK but it's never memorable. What makes it memorable is entirely down to how they look. That's all that really matters.

For me, when meeting an escort, looks ARE everything.

Looks are important, I wouldn’t arrange a meet if I didn’t like the look of a lady.

Good chat, a nice ambience and relating to each other are hugely important.
One 20yo had the looks, no personality or interaction, it was a very mechanical service I could have been fucking a blow up doll.

Other ladies when the chemistry is right provide a much better service.

I like both a good connection and to be attractive. Also due to my location and work, this is why after looking for a year I've still not had a punt.

I must admit to being baffled by that point-of-view. It seems to me that beauty has only two purposes: evolutionary and social. We are told that males naturally and unconsciously seek out females who are optimum for somehow improving the species. The symmetry of a beautiful face apparently reflects a generally healthy genetic make-up although it is also said that a great deal of extra fat (valuable stored energy) is also a selling-point in uncertain societies.
Then there is the competitive social aspect. In societies where one no longer has to fight physically to obtain the best mates, there remains an urge to underscore social success by buying a stunning mate; i.e. the 'trophy wife'.
But neither of these explanations covers punting: one certainly does not want to impregnate a WG. Neither can one safely show her off in public. The best that one can do is brag about it here in conjunction perhaps with reference to her AW profile photos. I like to point out that I have had that feisty girl from the Unbreakable reality-TV series (the girl who was attacking and eating piranah, instead of vice versa). But beauty was not an issue. BTW, it is surprising how many porn-stars 'work the doors' (i.e. are 'security') at night-clubs.
So insisting on beauty makes one sound as though one has been naively and completely 'led by the evolutionary nose'.
And in case anyone is interested I am still off gang-bangs. They have become too organised: too many professionals and few amateur swingers. Not to mention the mandatory clean STI test results for OWO. How meaningful are those? Instead of the previous 100%-naked perverted-nudist-colony vibe one now has turn up with dressing-gowns and flip-flops. Next thing, they will be checking for verrucas, like teachers did in the swimming-pools of my youth.
I wouldn't want to participate anyway just now; one shin is rather unsightly. Scraped it while climbing a tree ... again.

Needless to say Moravian I'm interested, much interested, in your extraordinary gang bang career, which now, finally, seems to have come to an end at the grand old age of 85. Most people have ceased going to the shop, or going out for a daily walk, if they reach that age. You give up gang bangs. You are a very lucky man. I hope the girls gave you a good send-off as they wheeled you out the door for the very last time. I'm sure however one said: "I know we're supposed to accept anyone in this job but I have to admit I'm glad to see the back of that geriatric old fucker."

Now do yourself a favour and stop climbing trees as well. You've injured yourself once, now a second lucky escape, and the third time you'll end up dead, impaled upon your neighbour's fence. Mark my words.

I'll meanwhile continue my search for attractive escorts. What they're like doesn't matter to me, as, already said. But with the work the gang bang girls did in assisting you in and out of the venues, undressing and dressing you, and giving you a good time in the rocking chair, well it certainly helps if they're friendly and helpful in that situation.

Good to hear from you, and that you're still with us.

Much as I enjoy your ageist geriatric fantasies, people guess my age at 'pre-retirement'. I park miles away from the usual venue and cover both [[i]sic[/i]] legs of the trip at a brisk pace. I actually have a video of myself in a one-on-one with a Romanian. It is about 7 years old, but nothing has changed. I am told that there are sites where anyone can upload their 'work'. If I can, I shall post a link here. It is not very explicit. I have a more explicit video, but I would first have to learn how to pixilate faces.
And I have not given up gang-bangs but, just as some people dream of visiting the escorts of London, I dream of visiting the less regimented orgies which still exist otherwhere than in my neighbourhood.

Read the naked ape, most species only mate to fertilise the female and don’t have sex outside her fertile period. We are geared for regular sex as a form of play to keep us together while raising the children.

We are also geared to pass on our genes, so seek the opportunity and the “best” partner/s, hence the desire to fuck that sexy 20 year old. I read some research once that measured sperm count in couple who had been separated, on reuniting the male produced more sperm, which they thought was to increase his chance of fathering the next child, if she had played away in his absence.

Perhaps we produce more sperm with an attractive partner than an ugly one saving our sperm for the right partner, perhaps in a gangbang/sex party the sperm production increases.

All topics to research

Nesslad Wrote:
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> I had an outing last week with a very friendly,
> very chatty British escort. She'd rate 10/10 or
> 9/10 for just about everything, I reckon with most
> clients. Except for one thing - her looks. She was
> in her late 30s, and by no means unattractive, in
> a late 30s way. But late 30s isn't late 20s, and
> it certainly isn't mid 20s and is a long way from
> early 20s. I'm stating the obvious. It's just
> nature taking it's course.
>
> We got chatting generally about the escort
> business and I said things were nowhere near as
> good around here, or I believe in most places, as
> they were four years, ago, before covid and
> Brexit. The days when the door would open and I
> could expect to see a genuinely stunning Polish
> girl in her early or mid 20s - as happened
> numerous times, are gone. That never happens now,
> as in never. They've all gone home.
>
> At this point she intervened and said in a
> friendly way: "Looks aren't everything."
>
> I shrugged at the time but got thinking about that
> later. And I came to the conclusion she wasn't
> right about that. Looks ARE everything.
>
> They are for me, anyway. We hear stories about
> guys who just mainly want to chat to escorts and
> enjoy the "connection" and like being with a
> friendly woman etc etc. That's all very sweet, but
> personally I don't give a fuck about making a
> connection or having a pleasant chat or a
> "friendly experience".
>
> The only thing that matters to me about an escort
> is how she looks. If she's friendly that's a bonus
> but it's not important. I'd rather spend an hour -
> and regardless of their attitude I always want my
> time - with a stunner who's surly, offhand, bored,
> even insulting, than some plainish bird in her 30s
> who's nice. It's, no contest.
>
> One of my best ever outings was with a Hungarian
> beauty in her early 20s who was quite frankly a
> cheeky bitch. When I went back a second time she
> positively sneered, "Oh it's you again", and
> turned her back as I followed her in. Being aloof
> and unfriendly and making cheeky remarks seemed to
> be her style. I reckon it was the way she was with
> all her clients. I didn't give a fuck. I was in
> the presence of a dark eyed beauty from Budapest
> and that was all that mattered. She could say
> anything or act in any way she liked as long as
> she was doing what mattered. I went back a third
> time too, and if she'd stayed around long enough
> I'd have gone back for more.
>
> But I've been with escorts who've been incredibly
> attractive, in their 20s and no later than that,
> who were friendly as well. But that was in what
> now seem "the golden days" of a few years ago. The
> last 20 outings I've had prove beyond any doubt
> that they may still be in London but they no
> longer exist around here.
>
> Meeting a chatty, friendly escort is OK but it's
> never memorable. What makes it memorable is
> entirely down to how they look. That's all that
> really matters.
>
> For me, when meeting an escort, looks ARE
> everything.




Well what works for you is your own views. and?

To me it`s the overall package.
Could see someone who`s drop dead gorgeous and a pile of crap in the sack.

Jerry Hall once said the ideal woman for a bloke would be someone who could be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom.

Oh dear... ...that's me knackered then.

No I wouldn't say that at all Helen. For me the standout visits have always been based on looks, that's 110 per cent the way it is. These are the ones I clearly and vividly remember. There have been numerous visits where escorts have been ok, and most of these I vaguely remember. But that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy them at the time.

The fact is you aren't always going to meet very attractive escorts, in fact they are unusual, though as I've said elsewhere the influx of Brazilians is certainly changing things for the better. If an escort is a decent 6/10 her services are still very much appreciated. And you may well be a seven!

If, however, you are a 2 or a 3, which I think is unlikely, that is indeed a write-off and a waste of money, but that would almost inevitably be on the back of fake pictures being used.

I want an escort that can act. I don't want one that acts surly, offhand and bored though. What I want is to be able to lose myself in the illusion that I'm with someone who likes me. Looks count, that's for sure, but my best times have been with older escorts.

Rationalman, I agree I like someone that's nice and has good looks. I also like someone slightly older. I met with a mid twenties escort recently and she was attractive and accommodating, if I was twenty I'd of been in heven, but I wasn't that into it. These days they have to be nice, attractive and forties or minimum late thirties. Which is hard to find these days.



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