I’m not yet dead!

I’m not sure if this is the right forum for me. I’m an older woman, my husband just isn’t interested in me any more. Oh he loves me but if I try to engage in any sexual act, he makes an excuse and watches the television.

I’m in an impossible situation, have you any suggestions where I could find partner or partners who are willing to involve themselves in a no frills, occasional time with me. I’m clean living, no diseases all my own teeth, reasonably looking and I live in Bolton.

Any suggestions apart from paid guys?

Thanks

I'm too far from Bolton to engage in this. But if 1960 is when you were born that makes you 63, or maybe 64. Hmmm...somewhere between a Granny and a MILF. If it's any encouragement if I was in Bolton I might, possibly, consider dropping you a PM, maybe, perhaps. It's not something I would 100 per cent rule out anyway. If you hang around here for long enough someone from Bolton could show up here and maybe decide to do that. My suggestion is that you should just be patient.

I’m 64 but active and still run every day. It’s frustrating being this age because most guys look for a younger version. I’ll take your advice and stick around here, nothing to be gained by leaving so soon.

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Getting badder and older and fitter

Or you could go to the pub and hang about. Someone would pick you up later on, when a lot of guys would be pissed. Or maybe earlier, depends how you look.

But a more serious point than your particular needs - and good luck with that, I would add, hope things work out well in the end - is that YOU HAVE OPTIONS. You are 64. The fact is that ANY WOMAN OF VIRTUALLY ANY AGE - and certainly in their mid 60s - will be able to find casual sex to satisfy their needs. They may have to go to a pub or a club and not be too choosy, but they will get it. Fact of life. I don't think anyone would disagree with that reality.

But try finding casual sex if you're a man in your 60s. You haven't a fucking chance. You could spend all week in pubs or clubs or anywhere else and you'd have zero chance of that happening. Unless you were incredibly "lucky". That's another reality.

So we go to escorts. We pay for it. It's the only way an older guy like me will get sex. The only way. That's another reality. But some of these feminista cunts want to ban that. In today's feminista society they are joined by some male feminista cunts who think like them. These male/female feminista cunts want to make buying sex illegal. What that means in real terms is that they want to deprive guys like me of any more intimate female contact for the rest of our lives. Nothing, zero, zilch, between now and the grave. That's the reality of what they want if their evil ambition ever becomes a reality.

No apologies for the strong language. These people are warped, selfish, twisted, cruel, bigoted CUNTS.



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Shame I'm not near Bolton lol

My advice around here is always the same: join a group of swingers. Or even a bukkake/gang-bang club. Even when the latter events are ostensibly based on a few porn-stars, all sorts of amateurs of all ages turn up as sort of 'side-shows'. The problem is that the activities are always 'communal', and some people (e.g. Nesslad) don't seem to at ease with that. By the way, I am old enough to be your father.

I welcome you back and express relief you're still with us in a post just below Moravian, so I won't repeat that. But I'm not entirely sure you've interpreted Mrs Martin's situation correctly. At the relatively youthful age of 64, as you'll regard it, she appears to be looking for a man to fulfill her sexual desires, which are not being met at home. That's how I read it anyway.

She does not seem to me to be keen to get involved in bukkake, on her knees maybe with her hands tied while a long queue of guys wait their turn to shoot semen in her mouth and all over her face. No, I can't say I saw that in her plea for advice.

In fact suggesting Mrs Martin is into bukkake is about as likely as you wanting to join in a gay orgy, and your understandably vitriolic response to that guy who strayed on here some time ago looking for advice on gay massage parlours indicates how likely that is.

The only time in your very long and illustrious career when you were exposed to that kind of thing was of course when that ladyboy sucked you off under the table in that Paris nightclub. Although as you've since clarified, you were not aware of it happening at the time.

Well, I did suggest a swinger group as a first choice. But even at the other events, I have seen some very staid and matronly-looking older women really get into the swing of things, as it were.
Meanwhile, I am still on strike over the imposition of negative STD test result requirements. I shall comply when the girls are required to show theirs as well. I also have a cosmetic problem at the moment. After a long drive, one leg swells up to be twice the size of the other.

Linda hang on in there, I know what it is like to be in a sexless relationship. It’s tough and it does have a negative impact on your personality, as you find yourself doubting you and why that partner no longer finds you attractive. I know you have said you have tried being intimate or sexy flirty and he puts the tv on? Just out of curiosity have you tried sitting him down and talking about it? Could it be that he does find you sexy still but not knowing his age is he having trouble getting aroused and achieving an erection? Could he feel embarrassed about that fact and is over thinking it and then putting more pressure on himself which in turns leads to more erection woes? If you are still sleeping together in the same bed have you ever felt or seen him with an erect penis in the morning? It is weird but it can and does happen as an involuntary reaction due to him not thinking about it? Maybe that is your chance to take him in your mouth and put your pussy over his mouth. Then suck his cock and make him eat your pussy? Sorry for the crudeness but if he has any worries in that department it might just help him to understand he can sustain a hard on and not to overthink things about it? Failing that join fab swingers and strike up a friendship with someone and set up a friends with benefits scenario but set ground rules as I take it you are not after multiple guys but rather just 1 guy who gets you and you get him and want to be exclusive as to shagging anything with a pulse?

Voila!

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Right handy for you too!

Asslover, I’ve read your words over and over, reacted as well but only to me. He’s really not interested, I’ve tried the lot, sift approach, dominate, submission, even tried the … I’m looking elsewhere approach … but he’s not interested. He’s a decent man, I’m well looked after by him and me. It’s a half decent marriage.

I think it’s my lot, it’s not for him, that’s all.

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I feel your frustration. I took am married to a woman who has literally no interest in sex. I went down the Ashley Madison route for about 6 months last year. Being impatient and frustrated, I gave up on it. I had a few bites, but ended up drawing only gfe attention which would only end up costing me an arm and a leg. Out of frustration and high sex drive, I reluctantly went down the escort route (only since last year. I'm in my 50s). But yeah I would have liked to have met someone with no strings attached casual affair as opposed to paying for escorts. I'm sure you will meet someone that satisfies your needs. Just need to be proactive and go after it.