Monkeypox fears

Just wanted to hear your thoughts (clients or providers) regarding the Monkeypox outbreak. Clients, are you still punting? Providers, are you worried , how do you think it’s best to reassure your clients? I have been wanting to see an escort for absolutely ages now but my senses keep telling me no. I then talk myself out of it by looking at people with Monkeypox. It looks absolutely awful and painful too. I’m aware the media saying it’s largely affecting a particular community but I’m by not naive to think it would cannot affect us poor souls. Some of us have families and even though it is not a STI I am still paranoid the cats out of the bag if you do catch it. Especially round your cock or on your mouth (muffdiving). Monkeypox is non discriminatory. I need that need a hot fuck though - I love fucking girls because I’m such pervert ha ha ha. Fuck this is driving me mad. What to do. What are you doing? Taking a break, punting still, getting a smallpox vaccine?



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 04/08/2022 22:52 by Capjack.

Hi Capjack

I started asking for the vaccine as soon as I became aware of the Monkey Pox outbreak, probably 4 months ago? At first I was deflected with a 'it's for gay men only'.

I asked again same reason given, but then referred to a nurse who said she thinks there may be cross over to women. I myself am aware bi-men book women as well as men, so decided to put me on the list. I was contacted when vaccine arrived and on the hottest day drove 90 minutes each way to the main clinic (it's only being given out at a city location). Received first dose and awaiting call for second.

I work low volume mostly outcall, I shower & use mouthwash immediately after each booking, if incall I change sheets and disinfect any thing clients have touched. This is just standard to me and I don't sleep around in my personal life. Also use condoms with everyone I have intercourse with.

I may not ever come into contact with it, but I'd rather be safe than sorry.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/08/2022 21:56 by Ruth Strawberry.

Hi Ruth Strawberry,

I appreciate you trying to take measures to keep you, your loved ones and you clients safe as well. Thank you.

Generally do you think escorts would be weirded out if a client had specific demands to keep you both safe? I mean obv sex involves close skin to skin contact but as a client I personally can
pretty creative to get my rocks off. I just need to find an escort that’s on the same level to play with. Creative can involve with limited touching, foreplay or touching for only a very short amount of time or even using barriers like latex gloves. BJ can be non touching (with a condom) - no hands and eye to eye contact could be really hot. Maybe Doggy can be pretty safe with gloves Or even fingering. With that said I still primarily book escorts that offer CIM so maybe all those precautions are for nothing

Sorry if that sounds weird - was that even a question? Lack of punting is driving me crazy feel free to ignore. Sorry if it’s too graphic.

JB



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/08/2022 22:50 by Capjack.

JB for specific information I would advise speaking to your local GUM service, medically qualified professionals. I am not medically qualified but I will provide some experience.

Many years ago I had a couple of very difficult bookings with punters who were very, very nervous - to the point where they did not want any below waist contact.

Having sex with the other person's hand between my pubic bone and his pubic area whilst he checked we were not touching and holding the condom was very uncomfortable, one of the guys gave me permission to kiss his chest. one kept the condom seemed to think I would do something odd with it or it would be used as evidence.

The overall atmosphere was that the fear overrode the pleasure. One had also refused to follow my directions on arrival, and ended up being very indiscrete outside my then property.

So would you time the touching? Will you be counting in your head or watching a timer?

If you wanted to sit across the room and play I would certainly do that very happily, I can also wear gloves sanitise the gloves (I have handgel and or soap and water), and happy to give oral with. Regard receiving oral the protective dams flatten my clitoris, no problem for me but a problem if the give wishes to have any sort of response or create orgasm (it won't happen).

I also believe MP can be passed by coughs and sneezes.

I am simply carrying forward more or less the same precautions I adopted at the start of the Covid-19 pandemic, which included accessing any vaccine as soon as possible. If home testing kits become widely available (I doubt they will), I will look into obtaining and using them as I currently use Covid-19 LFT.

Here's a link to some useful information about the outbreak in the UK;

[www.gov.uk]

Do you use GUM clinics?



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/08/2022 12:39 by Ruth Strawberry.

Hi Ruth Strawberry,

Thank you so much for your feedback. I would probably have the same experience as what you mentioned and yes it probably would detract from the pleasure. Especially with me, I’m such an idiot and would probably end up pissing off the escort. Initially sounded ok in my head but it’s not very practical. Savvy? I’m sorry you had to go through that experience with the unhappy punter.

I went to a gum clinic once in London (near London Bridge/Waterloo). Gave them all my details and they never reached back out to me with the follow up results. I should really go again but the whole experience put me off.

Fucking hell I hate 2022. I can’t even enjoy a good fuck to take my mind off all the crap that’s going on the world.

Thanks again for the response. I really do appreciate it.

JB

So you are scared but not scared enough to follow up on clinic results or even use one? Some do operate on a 'No news is good news' basis but if I'm told I will be sent results and my results have not arrived in the time-frame given I contact them because it is important for me as well as the people I have sex with.

GUM clinics are the best place for advice on STIs and Monkey Pox.

Not ashamed to admit I’m scared sometimes. It took a lot of courage to see the gun clinic in the first place. You’re right though about visiting then Gum clinic on the principle of making sure I’m ok in general. With regards to monkey pox the general advice is to avoid sustained physical contact with those who are sexually active with multiple partners.

This is the NHS advice;

[www.nhs.uk]

Perhaps being single I needn't worry to much, but there is always the chance of a new relationship starting, I want to be confident I don't infect her so getting tested is alas part of using escorts.

If I were nearer I would be meeting Ruth, if we clicked she could easily be a regular

70 quid deposit. Why pay £150 to a sexy 20 something? Add an extra 30 quid to it, Have the pleasure of a knockin on in age WG. No thanks.